Democratic Are Oretopia wrote:Rather, this is a discussion as to what incentive is there for people in the world to be nice? Why should people be nice if they do not get the same common courtesy to be repaid? I can't figure out why. It's not hard to be nice; it just must be easier to be rude.
Being nice goes together with being selfless, and being selfless implies you're not doing it to get something in return from others.
People "acting" nice may do it for a return, people "being" nice do it because that's how they are.
The question should then be rather, are you acting nice or are you nice?