Virginity

[BushSucks-istan]

I really don't give a flying shit. If you want to have sex, good for you. If you don't, good for you too. As long as sex is safe, legal, and consensual its fine by me.

Why does it have to be safe? If you aren't the one engaging in it, what's it to you?

Because if you don't do it safe you end up with a lot of whiny pro-life douchebags crying over the removal of a lump of cells. Not to mention that considering an abortion is probably one of the most difficult decisions a woman ever has to face.

[BushSucks-istan]

It's all stupid religious dogma. The purity myth with all it's superstitious idiotic followers, the Christian abstinence obsessives, the Muslim clitoris cutters and the whole bloody horrorshow around genital mutilation (referring circumcision for both males and females).

It's anti-natural, so it's basically stupid. But if anyone feels like suppressing his or her sexual lusts because of his/her imaginary sky-friend, be my guest, but leave others out of it.

There are really Muslims who cut off ladies clitorises?

Actually, it's way worse than that

[Rocopurr]

There are really Muslims who cut off ladies clitorises?

Actually, it's way worse than that

That is just-- I'm concerned.

[Yankee Empire]

Men like Virgins because they don't have to think of all the other men who have plowed the girl, whats the problem?

That people are pushing virginity as desireable? Could that be because it often is?

So you've had sex and don't like other peoples valueing of virginity, how is that any worse than promoting a culture that pressures people into thinking they need to have sex or they are a pathetic loser?

And that having sex with instantly cure all problems of social awkwardness and confidence issues?

[Ashmoria]

There is a chance that I might lose my virginity to a married woman. She told me that her husband will be okay with it, but I have my misgivings about it. I'm not sure I want to take up her offer for fear that it would be morally wrong towards her husband. I'd need to go to Texas for this to possibly happen, but yeah- I will be able to travel soon.

its probably best to give this one a pass.

unless she has an agreement with her husband that she can have sex with other men AND has already done so at least a few times its too risky to her marriage. you dont mess with someone else's marriage for a quick fuck.

[Rocopurr]

Men like Virgins because they don't have to think of all the other men who have plowed the girl, whats the problem?

Do you believe it is okay for women to only want virgin men?

[BushSucks-istan]

Men like Virgins because they don't have to think of all the other men who have plowed the girl, whats the problem?

That people are pushing virginity as desireable? Could that be because it often is?

So you've had sex and don't like other peoples valueing of virginity, how is that any worse than promoting a culture that pressures people into thinking they need to have sex or they are a pathetic loser?

And that having sex with instantly cure all problems of social awkwardness and confidence issues?

There is no ''promoting such a culture''. Nobody is legally promoting sex. But to demote sex --a natural instinct--, that is stupid. There is nothing wrong with safe sex (or unsafe if you want kids). Those virginity obsessives demote sex, and that is wrong. And way worse are those anti-premarital sex obsessives. To say that a woman must be a virgin is wrong. If people can't love someone because she is not a virgin they're not moral. they're idiots.

And just to destroy your wrong judgment on sex curing things. Sex cures medium depressions.

[Ashmoria]

Men like Virgins because they don't have to think of all the other men who have plowed the girl, whats the problem?

That people are pushing virginity as desireable? Could that be because it often is?

So you've had sex and don't like other peoples valueing of virginity, how is that any worse than promoting a culture that pressures people into thinking they need to have sex or they are a pathetic loser?

And that having sex with instantly cure all problems of social awkwardness and confidence issues?

There is no ''promoting such a culture''. Nobody is legally promoting sex. But to demote sex --a natural instinct--, that is stupid. There is nothing wrong with safe sex (or unsafe if you want kids). Those virginity obsessives demote sex, and that is wrong. And way worse are those anti-premarital sex obsessives. To say that a woman must be a virgin is wrong. If people can't love someone because she is not a virgin they're not moral. they're idiots.

aye

and on a practical level you dont know if you are sexually compatible with someone until you have sex with them. sex isnt everything in a marriage but it is an essential ingredient for most couples. going into it without knowing your own preferences, the preferences of your beloved and whether or not those preferences can work together is kinda stupid.

[Dyakovo]

Men like Virgins because they don't have to think of all the other men who have plowed the girl, whats the problem?¹

That people are pushing virginity as desireable? Could that be because it often is?²

So you've had sex and don't like other peoples valueing of virginity, how is that any worse than promoting a culture that pressures people into thinking they need to have sex or they are a pathetic loser?

And that having sex with instantly cure all problems of social awkwardness and confidence issues?³

1: Well, for one, the fact that virginity isn't (generally) valued for men, i.e. it's a very misogynistic attitude.
2: Only by those people who would rather their partner not know how bad they are at sex.
3: Nice strawman.

[CTALNH]

Men like Virgins because they don't have to think of all the other men who have plowed the girl, whats the problem?

That people are pushing virginity as desireable? Could that be because it often is?

So you've had sex and don't like other peoples valueing of virginity, how is that any worse than promoting a culture that pressures people into thinking they need to have sex or they are a pathetic loser?

And that having sex with instantly cure all problems of social awkwardness and confidence issues?

Good thing I think like my ancestors....
Love transcends flesh...
Lust and love are two different thing...

Hey honey I am going for my mandatory orgy wanna come?

[BushSucks-istan]

Just to destroy some stupid ''sin'' arguments I smell are on their way:

Adultery is not a ''sin'', because sin is a mythical term of nonsense and bigotry. Sex is perfectly healthy and normal. Mostly it's Christians promoting this abstinence nonsense. That's the funny thing about Christianity, it is OBSESSED with sex. They will say ''No you're obsessed with your rude jokes and open sexlives''. No, it's fun, it's healthy, it can be difficult and dark. It's a bit like food in that aspect. The only people who are OBSESSED with food are the anorexic and the morbidly obese. And that, is ''Christianity on sex'' in a nutshell.

[Adventus Secundus]

Men like Virgins because they don't have to think of all the other men who have plowed the girl, whats the problem?

Do you believe it is okay for women to only want virgin men?

Yes.

[Zottistan]

Men like Virgins because they don't have to think of all the other men who have plowed the girl, whats the problem?

Do you believe it is okay for women to only want virgin men?

It's ok for women to only want anything, really.

[CTALNH]

Do you believe it is okay for women to only want virgin men?

Yes.

Then their for a world of pain and premature ejaculation!

[Adventus Secundus]

Just to destroy some stupid ''sin'' arguments I smell are on their way:

Adultery is not a ''sin'', because sin is a mythical term of nonsense and bigotry. Sex is perfectly healthy and normal. Mostly it's Christians promoting this abstinence nonsense. That's the funny thing about Christianity, it is OBSESSED with sex. They will say ''No you're obsessed with your rude jokes and open sexlives''. No, it's fun, it's healthy, it can be difficult and dark. It's a bit like food in that aspect. The only people who are OBSESSED with food are the anorexic and the morbidly obese. And that, is ''Christianity on sex'' in a nutshell.

Yeah, we actually, you know, believe in a God who has standards and try to please Him. Instead of just living for the next time we can get laid, wasted, or blown. It actually isn't that bad, and it has a lot more purpose than...whatever.... You should try it.

But looking at your siggy I realize you are quite possibly rabid, so reasoning with you may not be on the list of options. Hmmm...

[Adventus Secundus]

Yes.

Then their for a world of pain and premature ejaculation!

Funny thing is, married people have A LOT more time to learn what pleases each other in the bedroom than folks who have casual sex.

[Norstal]

Just to destroy some stupid ''sin'' arguments I smell are on their way:

Adultery is not a ''sin'', because sin is a mythical term of nonsense and bigotry. Sex is perfectly healthy and normal. Mostly it's Christians promoting this abstinence nonsense. That's the funny thing about Christianity, it is OBSESSED with sex. They will say ''No you're obsessed with your rude jokes and open sexlives''. No, it's fun, it's healthy, it can be difficult and dark. It's a bit like food in that aspect. The only people who are OBSESSED with food are the anorexic and the morbidly obese. And that, is ''Christianity on sex'' in a nutshell.

Yeah, we actually, you know, believe in a God who has standards and try to please Him. Instead of just living for the next time we can get laid, wasted, or blown. It actually isn't that bad, and it has a lot more purpose than...whatever.... You should try it.

But looking at your siggy I realize you are quite possibly rabid, so reasoning with you may not be on the list of options. Hmmm...

"I disagree with you so you must have rabies and therefore I'm better than you!!"

And thus, Christians shows the Christ-like image of mercy and kindness by being self-righteous towards others they disagree with.

[BushSucks-istan]

Just to destroy some stupid ''sin'' arguments I smell are on their way:

Adultery is not a ''sin'', because sin is a mythical term of nonsense and bigotry. Sex is perfectly healthy and normal. Mostly it's Christians promoting this abstinence nonsense. That's the funny thing about Christianity, it is OBSESSED with sex. They will say ''No you're obsessed with your rude jokes and open sexlives''. No, it's fun, it's healthy, it can be difficult and dark. It's a bit like food in that aspect. The only people who are OBSESSED with food are the anorexic and the morbidly obese. And that, is ''Christianity on sex'' in a nutshell.

Yeah, we actually, you know, believe in a God who has standards and try to please Him. Instead of just living for the next time we can get laid, wasted, or blown. It actually isn't that bad, and it has a lot more purpose than...whatever.... You should try it.

But looking at your siggy I realize you are quite possibly rabid, so reasoning with you may not be on the list of options. Hmmm...

Great steroetype there, everyone who doesn't believe is a sex-addict. I protest against the retards next to the road with their ridiculous signs. You wanna praise your authoritarian dictator by suppressing your urges, fine with me, but don't you dare force it on other people. ''not having sex'' has nothing to do with morality.

And no, I won't try it. I do not support evil dictators like Stalin, Hitler or Kim Jong-ill. So I won't support God either.

But you're a Christian probably, so: forgive me.

Then their for a world of pain and premature ejaculation!

Funny thing is, married people have A LOT more time to learn what pleases each other in the bedroom than folks who have casual sex.

Evidence: 0
Science: 0
Validity: 0
Source: Fox news?

2nd, marriage is unnatural and that isn't the point of sex at all. You can be non-married and have great sex.

[Zottistan]

Yeah, we actually, you know, believe in a God who has standards and try to please Him. Instead of just living for the next time we can get laid, wasted, or blown. It actually isn't that bad, and it has a lot more purpose than...whatever.... You should try it.

But looking at your siggy I realize you are quite possibly rabid, so reasoning with you may not be on the list of options. Hmmm...

"I disagree with you so you must have rabies and therefore I'm better than you!!"

And thus, Christians shows the Christ-like image of mercy and kindness by being self-righteous towards others they disagree with.

C'mon, you know full well that's not unique to Christians.

[Rocopurr]

Then their for a world of pain and premature ejaculation!

Funny thing is, married people have A LOT more time to learn what pleases each other in the bedroom than folks who have casual sex.

Mind giving everyone some proof?

[BushSucks-istan]

Funny thing is, married people have A LOT more time to learn what pleases each other in the bedroom than folks who have casual sex.

Mind giving everyone some proof?

Don't even ask, there is none.

[Rocopurr]

Mind giving everyone some proof?

Don't even ask, there is none.

True, but it'll still be interesting to watch him try to prove it.

[Ethel mermania]

Just to destroy some stupid ''sin'' arguments I smell are on their way:

Adultery is not a ''sin'', because sin is a mythical term of nonsense and bigotry. Sex is perfectly healthy and normal. Mostly it's Christians promoting this abstinence nonsense. That's the funny thing about Christianity, it is OBSESSED with sex. They will say ''No you're obsessed with your rude jokes and open sexlives''. No, it's fun, it's healthy, it can be difficult and dark. It's a bit like food in that aspect. The only people who are OBSESSED with food are the anorexic and the morbidly obese. And that, is ''Christianity on sex'' in a nutshell.

Yeah, we actually, you know, believe in a God who has standards and try to please Him. Instead of just living for the next time we can get laid, wasted, or blown. It actually isn't that bad, and it has a lot more purpose than...whatever.... You should try it.

But looking at your siggy I realize you are quite possibly rabid, so reasoning with you may not be on the list of options. Hmmm...

1 attack the post not the poster.
2. adultery is sex between someone within a marriage with someone who is not their spouse. so without the spouses consent, i would agree that adultery could be considered sinfull (if you believe in the concept of sin in the first place).
3. the topic of the thread is not adultery but virginity. a virgin can not commit adultery (fornicate), and still be a virgin.

[Czechanada]

Just to destroy some stupid ''sin'' arguments I smell are on their way:

Adultery is not a ''sin'', because sin is a mythical term of nonsense and bigotry. Sex is perfectly healthy and normal. Mostly it's Christians promoting this abstinence nonsense. That's the funny thing about Christianity, it is OBSESSED with sex. They will say ''No you're obsessed with your rude jokes and open sexlives''. No, it's fun, it's healthy, it can be difficult and dark. It's a bit like food in that aspect. The only people who are OBSESSED with food are the anorexic and the morbidly obese. And that, is ''Christianity on sex'' in a nutshell.

Yeah, we actually, you know, believe in a God who has standards and try to please Him. Instead of just living for the next time we can get laid, wasted, or blown. It actually isn't that bad, and it has a lot more purpose than...whatever.... You should try it.

But looking at your siggy I realize you are quite possibly rabid, so reasoning with you may not be on the list of options. Hmmm...

It took us millions of years for our brains to evolve and allow us to enjoy many different types of pleasure, so what is wrong with enjoying our evolutionary victory?

[CTALNH]

Funny thing is, married people have A LOT more time to learn what pleases each other in the bedroom than folks who have casual sex.

Mind giving everyone some proof?

I would want to see a virgin woman doing it with a virgin guy!
Oh the horror of the aftermath!