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by Ermarian » Wed Nov 26, 2014 10:16 am
by Dyakovo » Wed Nov 26, 2014 10:24 am
Lindenholt wrote:Do people really need to specifically ask in their will to be buried as they are?
by The New World Oceania » Wed Nov 26, 2014 10:27 am
Bottle wrote:Divitaen wrote:
You have to feel sorry for people who just don't get that sex and gender are arbitrary constructs, that don't exist in a binary.
Gender is arbitrary; sex is not. Sex is binary; gender is not.
Humans are mammals. Mammals are sexually dimorphic. It is true that there are some individuals (in the human species as well as other mammalian species) that have disorders of sexual development, but this doesn't change the fact that we are sexually dimorphic as a species. Kind of like how the fact that some people are born without legs doesn't change the fact that homo sapiens is a bipedal species.
by Degenerate Heart of HetRio » Wed Nov 26, 2014 10:33 am
Bottle wrote:Gender is arbitrary; sex is not. Sex is binary; gender is not.
Humans are mammals. Mammals are sexually dimorphic. It is true that there are some individuals (in the human species as well as other mammalian species) that have disorders of sexual development, but this doesn't change the fact that we are sexually dimorphic as a species. Kind of like how the fact that some people are born without legs doesn't change the fact that homo sapiens is a bipedal species.
by Degenerate Heart of HetRio » Wed Nov 26, 2014 10:39 am
Bottle wrote:This is a problem of terminology.
I use "gender" in the second-wave sense; gender is a hierarchy, a binary imposed to maintain a power structure that is based on sex.
by Ethel mermania » Wed Nov 26, 2014 11:05 am
Lindenholt wrote:Do people really need to specifically ask in their will to be buried as they are?
by Ethel mermania » Wed Nov 26, 2014 11:08 am
by Dyakovo » Wed Nov 26, 2014 11:11 am
by Degenerate Heart of HetRio » Wed Nov 26, 2014 11:11 am
by Ethel mermania » Wed Nov 26, 2014 11:13 am
by The Alma Mater » Wed Nov 26, 2014 11:18 am
by Herskerstad » Wed Nov 26, 2014 11:25 am
by Ethel mermania » Wed Nov 26, 2014 11:27 am
by CTALNH » Wed Nov 26, 2014 11:27 am
Herskerstad wrote:The Alma Mater wrote:
What exactly do the living get out of distorting the memory of the deceased ?
In this case, it strictly speaking won't matter too much. God'll know those he resurrects be it from ashes or dirt.
I mean I am not a fan of not honoring his own wishes of course in such a situation because it is true that those should over-write the preference of the parents in my opinion, but there is nothing illegal in what Ethel is saying unless, of course, it becomes law given testimony.
by Ethel mermania » Wed Nov 26, 2014 11:29 am
by CTALNH » Wed Nov 26, 2014 11:31 am
by Alyakia » Wed Nov 26, 2014 11:32 am
by The Alma Mater » Wed Nov 26, 2014 11:35 am
by CTALNH » Wed Nov 26, 2014 11:38 am
by The Alma Mater » Wed Nov 26, 2014 11:42 am
by Nazi Flower Power » Wed Nov 26, 2014 11:59 am
Purpelia wrote:Well from my perspective its simple really. The corpse does not care. Not any more. Corpses don't have feelings. So the ceremony of burial is something that obviously exists solely for the benefit of the people still alive. Thus what ever they want to do that makes them feel better about their loss is perfectly fine by me.
by Ethel mermania » Wed Nov 26, 2014 12:05 pm
by Alyakia » Wed Nov 26, 2014 12:07 pm
Ethel mermania wrote:The Alma Mater wrote:
I get that. But why burn a fantasy image of the dead they themselves would abhor ? How can that give closure - if you cannot even acknowledge who is gone ?
People are not monolithic creatures, we change as we age. Who we are when we die is not who we are as we grow. We choose the memories we hold on to. If your kid dies at 26 from drug overdose, is that the memory your going to keep of him/her? No, your going to remember and grieve overy the smiling high school graduate, with a bright future ahead of them.
by The Alma Mater » Wed Nov 26, 2014 12:22 pm
Ethel mermania wrote:The Alma Mater wrote:
I get that. But why burn a fantasy image of the dead they themselves would abhor ? How can that give closure - if you cannot even acknowledge who is gone ?
People are not monolithic creatures, we change as we age. Who we are when we die is not who we are as we grow. We choose the memories we hold on to. If your kid dies at 26 from drug overdose, is that the memory your going to keep of him/her? No, your going to remember and grieve overy the smiling high school graduate, with a bright future ahead of them.
by Ethel mermania » Wed Nov 26, 2014 12:31 pm
Alyakia wrote:Ethel mermania wrote:People are not monolithic creatures, we change as we age. Who we are when we die is not who we are as we grow. We choose the memories we hold on to. If your kid dies at 26 from drug overdose, is that the memory your going to keep of him/her? No, your going to remember and grieve overy the smiling high school graduate, with a bright future ahead of them.
religion and gender are much like hardcore drugs
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