I am a virgin too. Perhaps a bit old for one at 22. Most lose that in a new york minute in high school.
But, a lot of the reason for me still being a virgin is because I place a large emotional attachment to sex and has been stated. If I just want pleasure, there are easier ways of doing it. I would be thrilled if I wait until marriage and only have one special partner. But, I dont think I am going to go out of my way to avoid it either if I just so happen to find the one for me. I have a friend who has had many partners, and the life style does not appeal to me. I only need one woman. And really dont care to have more.