The Future for Homosexuality

[The Alma Mater]

...no, you can't. This 'it's a choice' thing be bullshit of the highest order.

being a homosexual is just wanting to have sex with people of the same sex, right?

Being sexually attracted to them and falling in love with them - yes.

I dont know about you, but I cannot force myself to feel attracted to random persons. If you know the secret to such control you would make millions.

[Imperial Union of America]

being a homosexual is just wanting to have sex with people of the same sex, right?

Being sexually attracted to them and falling in love with them - yes.

I dont know about you, but I cannot force myself to feel attracted to random persons. If you know the secret to such control you would make millions.

Well, when it comes to being gay, it's just something you want to do, i guess. You don't 'fall in love' with a person of the same sex like that, i mean, there are some dudes out there i love but i don't have sex with them.

[Salandriagado]

......no.

If you don't want to have sex with people of the same sex, then you're not a homosexual, right?

Wrong. In the same way that you can be heterosexual while not wanting to have sex with people of the opposite sex.

[Thermodolia]

...no, you can't. This 'it's a choice' thing be bullshit of the highest order.

being a homosexual is just wanting to have sex with people of the same sex, right?

Homosexuality is a sexual, romantic, and emotional attraction to members of the same sex. So no it's not that.

[Imperial Union of America]

If you don't want to have sex with people of the same sex, then you're not a homosexual, right?

Wrong. In the same way that you can be heterosexual while not wanting to have sex with people of the opposite sex.

Yes, all people are heterosexual unless they choose to have sex with the opposite sex.

[Salandriagado]

Being sexually attracted to them and falling in love with them - yes.

I dont know about you, but I cannot force myself to feel attracted to random persons. If you know the secret to such control you would make millions.

Well, when it comes to being gay, it's just something you want to do, i guess. You don't 'fall in love' with a person of the same sex like that, i mean, there are some dudes out there i love but i don't have sex with them.

If you think it's a choice: make it. Make yourself gay. Cause yourself to feel sexual attraction to someone of the same sex? Can't do it? Guess it's not a fucking choice then, is it?

Alternatively: tell me when you chose to be heterosexual. Because you absolutely, 100% did not start out that way. Children start out asexual, and everything else comes later. Tell me when you made that decision, specifically. If you can't, it's not a fucking decision.

[Salandriagado]

Wrong. In the same way that you can be heterosexual while not wanting to have sex with people of the opposite sex.

Yes, all people are heterosexual unless they choose to have sex with the opposite sex.

Incorrect. I am asexual.

[Imperial Union of America]

being a homosexual is just wanting to have sex with people of the same sex, right?

Homosexuality is a sexual, romantic, and emotional attraction to members of the same sex. So no it's not that.[/quote

Romance = sex, right? If there's no sex, there's no 'romance' and in any case, you can be completely heterosexual and have emotional attachments to members of your sex.

[The Princes of the Universe]

Incorrect. I am asexual.

I envy you.

[Thermodolia]

Being sexually attracted to them and falling in love with them - yes.

I dont know about you, but I cannot force myself to feel attracted to random persons. If you know the secret to such control you would make millions.

Well, when it comes to being gay, it's just something you want to do, i guess. You don't 'fall in love' with a person of the same sex like that, i mean, there are some dudes out there i love but i don't have sex with them.

Well duh. Your straight of course you wouldn't want to do that with a dude. I work this same way in reverse, I'm gay and I wouldn't want to ever be with a woman.

[Imperial Union of America]

Yes, all people are heterosexual unless they choose to have sex with the opposite sex.

Incorrect. I am asexual.

I think assexuality is probably something that all human beings should want to achieve in their lifetime, from a moral point of view.

[Salandriagado]

Homosexuality is a sexual, romantic, and emotional attraction to members of the same sex. So no it's not that.

Romance = sex, right? If there's no sex, there's no 'romance' and in any case, you can be completely heterosexual and have emotional attachments to members of your sex.[/quote]

No, romance and sex absolutely aren't the same thing. I'm rather disturbed that you can't tell the difference.

[Genivaria]

......no.

If you don't want to have sex with people of the same sex, then you're not a homosexual, right?

Homosexuality is an innate attraction to people of the same gender, heterosexuality is an innate attraction to people of the opposite gender.
While we do not currently know all the factors that effect ones sexuality we do know that it is certainly not a choice in the same way what clothes you wear is a choice.

[The Alma Mater]

Wrong. In the same way that you can be heterosexual while not wanting to have sex with people of the opposite sex.

Yes, all people are heterosexual unless they choose to have sex with the opposite sex.

That is not how biology works.

[Imperial Union of America]

Homosexuality is a sexual, romantic, and emotional attraction to members of the same sex. So no it's not that.

Romance = sex, right? If there's no sex, there's no 'romance' and in any case, you can be completely heterosexual and have emotional attachments to members of your sex.

No, romance and sex absolutely aren't the same thing. I'm rather disturbed that you can't tell the difference.[/quote]

No, i'm not sure what 'romance' is. All my relationships with women in that way had more to do with emotional attachment and sex than 'romance'.

[Genivaria]

Incorrect. I am asexual.

I think assexuality is probably something that all human beings should want to achieve in their lifetime, from a moral point of view.

What the actual fuck

[Gages Icelandic Army]

Being sexually attracted to them and falling in love with them - yes.

I dont know about you, but I cannot force myself to feel attracted to random persons. If you know the secret to such control you would make millions.

Well,ONE: when it comes to being gay, it's just something you want to do[/b], i guess. TWO: You don't 'fall in love' with a person of the same sex like that, i mean, THREE: there are some dudes out there i love but i don't have sex with them.

ONE: I believe the phrase is... introspective illusion. Homosexuals tell you they can't choose, you say you could in their shoes, you trust yourself more. I don't think that's a wise way to go about this.
TWO: Can't prove it. And any 2 homosexuals who have promised to spend the REST OF THEIR LIVES TOGETHER would tell you different.
THREE: There are gay dudes that love each other that don't have sex. There are girls that straight dudes love that don''t have sex. What's your point?

[Conserative Morality]

I think assexuality is probably something that all human beings should want to achieve in their lifetime, from a moral point of view.

That's moral weakness right there.

[Thermodolia]

Homosexuality is a sexual, romantic, and emotional attraction to members of the same sex. So no it's not that.

Romance = sex, right? If there's no sex, there's no 'romance' and in any case, you can be completely heterosexual and have emotional attachments to members of your sex.[/quote]
No romance =/= sex. There can be romance without sex and vice versa. Yes, yes you can. But homosexuality is the presence of a sexual and romantic and emotional attraction to members of the same sex.

[Imperial Union of America]

I think assexuality is probably something that all human beings should want to achieve in their lifetime, from a moral point of view.

What the actual fuck

I have a very high amount of respect for the asexual, they have reached a level of morality and detachment that most humans will never attain. Without the strains or distractions of 'romance' and sex. They are of a higher order, in my opinion.

[Salandriagado]

What the actual fuck

I have a very high amount of respect for the asexual, they have reached a level of morality and detachment that most humans will never attain. Without the strains or distractions of 'romance' and sex. They are of a higher order, in my opinion.

Two points:

1) Asexual =/= Aromantic.

2) This is utter and complete bollocks. I'm emotionally attached to any number of people. I just don't have any desire to stick my penis in them.

[Gages Icelandic Army]

Wrong. In the same way that you can be heterosexual while not wanting to have sex with people of the opposite sex.

Yes, all people are heterosexual unless they choose to have sex with the opposite sex.

The desire to have sex is brought out by a stimulus. There are men who's body is sexually aroused by other men. This reaction doesn't require conscious thinking or even a quick realization of what is happening. Their body just responds that way. You can't think your way into being sexually interested. You can only expose your mind to think that will stimulate its desire for sex.

[Killdash]

Romance = sex, right? If there's no sex, there's no 'romance' and in any case, you can be completely heterosexual and have emotional attachments to members of your sex.

No, romance and sex absolutely aren't the same thing. I'm rather disturbed that you can't tell the difference.

No, i'm not sure what 'romance' is. All my relationships with women in that way had more to do with emotional attachment and sex than 'romance'.[/quote]


Really? So you've never, say, felt attracted to a woman to didn't feel attracted back? Or you've never been with anyone where you think "Say, the sex thing is great, but I actually like this person as a person too, and want to do other things beside sex, while also not having sex?"

[Genivaria]

What the actual fuck

I have a very high amount of respect for the asexual, they have reached a level of morality and detachment that most humans will never attain. Without the strains or distractions of 'romance' and sex. They are of a higher order, in my opinion.

Your standard of 'higher' is arbitrary and makes no fucking sense.

[Great Kauthar]

the op

You don't develop sexual hormones until you hit puberty and as much as I like the idea of a heterogenous society, no, this isn't possible.