Rick Rollin wrote:Xerberos wrote:
You have a major assumption here, that everybody loves doing something that is productive. Some people don't. Some people would love to just sit on the couch and watch TV or play video games. Not everybody is motivated to be productive, and just because someone loves doing something, doesn't mean they will be good at it. And when I compete, I am not defining myself in terms of someone else; I am trying to be better than someone else, but that doesn't mean I'm defining myself in terms of someone else. It just means that certain parts of me are influenced by what others do.
Further complicating matters is that not everyone shares the same idea on what is productive.
Why would that complicate matters. It's productive if you and/or others find value in it.
As I said, don't let yourself be defined in terms of someone else (which is what competition is)
Choose for yourself. Be your own person: Unique not some boring clone who's primary goal is to be "X" times better at "T" than person Y in the method of person K.


