Eastfield Lodge wrote:Purgatio wrote:
No, but interpersonal obligations are very different from social obligations. We have child support obligations and alimony obligations because society, including me, believes in the importance of family obligations, and the immorality of child abandonment or spousal abandonment demands that certain interpersonal obligations be put in place so that family obligations don't become meaningless. But interpersonal obligations are very different from societal obligations. A parent being required to take care of and support their own child and give that child personalised support as his or her parent? I like that. Forcing that parent to support every single child in the nation through taxes, children he or she has no relationship or connection to? Immoral and disgusting and reprehensible.
Forcibly tying one person's fate to that of another through the law undermines that <<< This still sounds like it's applicable to any form of relationship, personal or societal.
No, its not, the big difference is the "forcibly" part. You can choose your interpersonal obligations to some extent. Spousal maintenance obligations require you to consent to a marriage first. As for child support, not everyone chooses to be a biological parent, but I'm someone who supports generous access to birth control and abortion, in such a system parentage is very much a choice and if you choose to procreate and have a child, it is fair to ensure the child is looked after and has a family to call his own. Very different proposition to force you to support everyone regardless of any personal or unique familial relationship to you, like your own child.






