United Muscovite Nations wrote:Old Tyrannia wrote:I basically agree with your position, then, although I feel that extramarital sex should only be a resort if marriage is for some reason not an available option and both parties intend the relationship to be a permanent one- essentially, a common-law marriage. I do understand that it is difficult in the modern world for Christians who are seeking a meaningful relationship to uphold traditional moral standards with regards to sex and marriage.
I'd rather use the term "premarital" than "extramarital", because the former is much more exclusive than the latter.
But yes, I think the genuine mutual desire to get married is enough to be married in a Christian sense, and as such relations between two such people are licit.
That's... very out of line with Orthodox teaching. Marriage is a sacrement, and not simply the desire to be together. But what is and isn't precisely sinful is a better held in the CDT. I'm assuming you're taking this position because, as we've had discussion on before, there's no dogmatic council ruling on it, so you can pick whatever position you want? To be okay with fornication is pretty heterodox in my opinion.





