I mean your spouse is close family, even closer than your parents. That's what marriage means, that's the whole basis of the "hospital visits" people said were so important
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by The Parkus Empire » Fri Mar 23, 2018 8:04 pm
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by Infected Mushroom » Fri Mar 23, 2018 8:07 pm
Fartsniffage wrote:So I had a weird dream the other night and while I was unpacking it I came upon a thought that I'd like to share.
Modern marriage should have yearly terms instead of being for life.
My reasoning for this is simple, the world has changed enough in Western countries that marriage for life no longer makes any sense. 100 years ago you were about as formed at the age of 16 as you would ever be, for the vast majority of people. You knew how to farm if you were a farmer or you had a job at the local factory if you were urban. Your partner was the same. That was your life and that was it.
These days it's normal if not expected for people to have multiple jobs during their life time. To move around the city, country, even the world. A life time marriage contract is shackling people together who now have far more options as the years progress than our ancestors did. It's perfectly possible to love someone dearly but an opportunity to move away for a new job would mean forcing them to leave their own, which they may also love.
Was I eating too much cheese before I went to bed that night or do I have a point? Why or why not?
by Fartsniffage » Fri Mar 23, 2018 8:08 pm
Infected Mushroom wrote:Fartsniffage wrote:So I had a weird dream the other night and while I was unpacking it I came upon a thought that I'd like to share.
Modern marriage should have yearly terms instead of being for life.
My reasoning for this is simple, the world has changed enough in Western countries that marriage for life no longer makes any sense. 100 years ago you were about as formed at the age of 16 as you would ever be, for the vast majority of people. You knew how to farm if you were a farmer or you had a job at the local factory if you were urban. Your partner was the same. That was your life and that was it.
These days it's normal if not expected for people to have multiple jobs during their life time. To move around the city, country, even the world. A life time marriage contract is shackling people together who now have far more options as the years progress than our ancestors did. It's perfectly possible to love someone dearly but an opportunity to move away for a new job would mean forcing them to leave their own, which they may also love.
Was I eating too much cheese before I went to bed that night or do I have a point? Why or why not?
then you might as well get rid of marriage altogether
it can't be marriage at all if it needs to be renewed every year, "I propose to you that we get married... for a year anyways"
there is little difference between a marriage and a casual relationship in that event
by Internationalist Bastard » Fri Mar 23, 2018 8:09 pm
Fartsniffage wrote:Infected Mushroom wrote:
then you might as well get rid of marriage altogether
it can't be marriage at all if it needs to be renewed every year, "I propose to you that we get married... for a year anyways"
there is little difference between a marriage and a casual relationship in that event
It doesn't have to be for just one year.
A seven year marriage contract would make a lot of sense.
by Fartsniffage » Fri Mar 23, 2018 8:10 pm
Cannot think of a name wrote:I am intrigued by this idea. However, marriages that involve children seem like it would be one of those things that the more you try to account for difficulties the more you over complicate the process.
I realize that this will make me sound like an anti-same sex marriage advocate-I'm not-but perhaps there could be a half step. Because I could see a window in which I am with and committed to someone enough to want the legal protections that come with marriage but not especially into the whole 'til death do us part' bit. So rather than a 'consolation prize' for same sex couples maybe we can look at the idea of 'civil unions' for couples who want visitation rights for the person they're seeing without all the obligations of marriage or whatever that might be, something that can be easily dissolved. Maybe it would require a distinction between personal and shared property, something in the agreement that deals with that when the term is up.
Ultimately this is kind of a complicated way to make something marginally less complicated, but as a thought exercise but I'm into it.
by The Parkus Empire » Fri Mar 23, 2018 8:16 pm
by Fartsniffage » Fri Mar 23, 2018 8:19 pm
The Parkus Empire wrote:Internationalist Bastard wrote:Yeah I got that
The bringing in the gays part
I mean liberals who demanded so loudly for gay marriage, often don't even know what marriage is. Marriage is a lifelong commitment, a serious responsibility. Divorce is a perversion, a wrong, an evil. Making perversion the norm and responsibility the exception, as the OP advocates, stems from a complete absence of distinction
by Cannot think of a name » Fri Mar 23, 2018 8:22 pm
by The Parkus Empire » Fri Mar 23, 2018 8:22 pm
Fartsniffage wrote:The Parkus Empire wrote:I mean liberals who demanded so loudly for gay marriage, often don't even know what marriage is. Marriage is a lifelong commitment, a serious responsibility. Divorce is a perversion, a wrong, an evil. Making perversion the norm and responsibility the exception, as the OP advocates, stems from a complete absence of distinction
Divorce is already pretty much the norm.
by Internationalist Bastard » Fri Mar 23, 2018 8:22 pm
The Parkus Empire wrote:Internationalist Bastard wrote:Yeah I got that
The bringing in the gays part
I mean liberals who demanded so loudly for gay marriage, often don't even know what marriage is. Marriage is a lifelong commitment, a serious responsibility. Divorce is a perversion, a wrong, an evil. Making perversion the norm and responsibility the exception, as the OP advocates, stems from a complete absence of distinction
by Mujahidah » Fri Mar 23, 2018 8:24 pm
Internationalist Bastard wrote:The Parkus Empire wrote:I mean liberals who demanded so loudly for gay marriage, often don't even know what marriage is. Marriage is a lifelong commitment, a serious responsibility. Divorce is a perversion, a wrong, an evil. Making perversion the norm and responsibility the exception, as the OP advocates, stems from a complete absence of distinction
Divorce is normal
Abrahamics, like many normal things, declared it wasn’t
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by Fartsniffage » Fri Mar 23, 2018 8:25 pm
by The Parkus Empire » Fri Mar 23, 2018 8:25 pm
Internationalist Bastard wrote:The Parkus Empire wrote:I mean liberals who demanded so loudly for gay marriage, often don't even know what marriage is. Marriage is a lifelong commitment, a serious responsibility. Divorce is a perversion, a wrong, an evil. Making perversion the norm and responsibility the exception, as the OP advocates, stems from a complete absence of distinction
Divorce is normal
Abrahamics, like many normal things, declared it wasn’t
by Internationalist Bastard » Fri Mar 23, 2018 8:26 pm
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by The Parkus Empire » Fri Mar 23, 2018 8:27 pm
by Fartsniffage » Fri Mar 23, 2018 8:27 pm
United Muscovite Nations wrote:No, marriage should be for life and indissoluble.
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