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[New Terricon]

At the risk of sounding a somewhat insecure or insensitive, I ask this question:
How can I not be so antisemitic? I have always considered myself on getting along just fine with most ethnic groups except one: Jews. I in no way dislike or despise the Jewish race, religion, culture, ect. But yet, time and time again does it seem to me that I walk away from Jewish people who seem a little offended by my presence. Is there anything you can suggest to somebody who just wants to get in on the loving of the Jewish people?

I'm afraid that you're being a bit to vague their friend... if you could perhaps tell me of a recent conversation you had?

Besides that as you said 'Jewish people' we're just people like you.

The most recent guilt fest happened like this:

I mentioned to a mentor of mine that I do not care for some Jewish cuisine. And as if "Jewish" was a trigger word, he showed scorn in my comment and reminded me that he has many Jewish family members. But I in no way implied any resentment of Judaism itself.

[Vazdaria]

I'm afraid that you're being a bit to vague their friend... if you could perhaps tell me of a recent conversation you had?

Besides that as you said 'Jewish people' we're just people like you.

The most recent guilt fest happened like this:

I mentioned to a mentor of mine that I do not care for some Jewish cuisine. And as if "Jewish" was a trigger word, he showed scorn in my comment and reminded me that he has many Jewish family members. But I in no way implied any resentment of Judaism itself.

What???You don't like bagels?

[Menassa]

I'm afraid that you're being a bit to vague their friend... if you could perhaps tell me of a recent conversation you had?

Besides that as you said 'Jewish people' we're just people like you.

The most recent guilt fest happened like this:

I mentioned to a mentor of mine that I do not care for some Jewish cuisine. And as if "Jewish" was a trigger word, he showed scorn in my comment and reminded me that he has many Jewish family members. But I in no way implied any resentment of Judaism itself.

*shrug*

I'd say that's more the person than an actual issue.

[Atlanticatia]

At the risk of sounding a somewhat insecure or insensitive, I ask this question:
How can I not be so antisemitic? I have always considered myself on getting along just fine with most ethnic groups except one: Jews. I in no way dislike or despise the Jewish race, religion, culture, ect. But yet, time and time again does it seem to me that I walk away from Jewish people who seem a little offended by my presence. Is there anything you can suggest to somebody who just wants to get in on the loving of the Jewish people?

Um, just realize that Jews aren't any different from other people solely bc of their religion or ethnicity.

[Benuty]

At the risk of sounding a somewhat insecure or insensitive, I ask this question:
How can I not be so antisemitic? I have always considered myself on getting along just fine with most ethnic groups except one: Jews. I in no way dislike or despise the Jewish race, religion, culture, ect. But yet, time and time again does it seem to me that I walk away from Jewish people who seem a little offended by my presence. Is there anything you can suggest to somebody who just wants to get in on the loving of the Jewish people?

Um, just realize that Jews aren't any different from other people solely bc of their religion or ethnicity.

Possibly a relic of cultural tribalism. It seems to taint many things today because it refuses to die.

[Atlanticatia]

Um, just realize that Jews aren't any different from other people solely bc of their religion or ethnicity.

Possibly a relic of cultural tribalism. It seems to taint many things today because it refuses to die.

Yup.

although, I do wonder where some people get their ideas from, though. I remember my mom told me a woman asked her if she had horns when they first moved to my area, because she'd never met a Jew and wasn't sure. Like, what? Most anti-semitism is based upon the most random things, such as that, or believing Jews are taking something away from everyone else.

[Menassa]

Possibly a relic of cultural tribalism. It seems to taint many things today because it refuses to die.

Yup.

although, I do wonder where some people get their ideas from, though. I remember my mom told me a woman asked her if she had horns when they first moved to my area, because she'd never met a Jew and wasn't sure. Like, what? Most anti-semitism is based upon the most random things, such as that, or believing Jews are taking something away from everyone else.

It's got to do with the Satan thing...

http://taylormarshall.com/wp-content/up ... oses-2.jpg

[Vazdaria]

Yup.

although, I do wonder where some people get their ideas from, though. I remember my mom told me a woman asked her if she had horns when they first moved to my area, because she'd never met a Jew and wasn't sure. Like, what? Most anti-semitism is based upon the most random things, such as that, or believing Jews are taking something away from everyone else.

It's got to do with the Satan thing...

http://taylormarshall.com/wp-content/up ... oses-2.jpg

I thought that was a picture of Neptune??? In art class we learned that was Neptune.....MY TEACHERS LIED TO ME!!!

[Lyanica]

I'm afraid that you're being a bit to vague their friend... if you could perhaps tell me of a recent conversation you had?

Besides that as you said 'Jewish people' we're just people like you.

The most recent guilt fest happened like this:

I mentioned to a mentor of mine that I do not care for some Jewish cuisine. And as if "Jewish" was a trigger word, he showed scorn in my comment and reminded me that he has many Jewish family members. But I in no way implied any resentment of Judaism itself.

Well, just the fact that you're here admitting that you want to get along with Jews is probably the biggest step. It also sounds like you may be over-thinking or over-perceiving a bit, and a situation like the foods thing isn't really your fault so much. If you want to grow comfortable around Jews, maybe find something from Jewish culture that appeals to you personally. Research is the best tool to ease discomfort. Maybe it's schnitzel or matzah ball soup, maybe its the value of Tikun Olam (repairing the world), but something will strike you and help you better relate to and understand Jews.

As an aside about the foods thing, certain Jewish foods also disagree with me... Like canned gefiltah fish.... So don't be embarrassed about that Not liking the food is not the same as being discriminatory.

[Menassa]

The most recent guilt fest happened like this:

I mentioned to a mentor of mine that I do not care for some Jewish cuisine. And as if "Jewish" was a trigger word, he showed scorn in my comment and reminded me that he has many Jewish family members. But I in no way implied any resentment of Judaism itself.

Well, just the fact that you're here admitting that you want to get along with Jews is probably the biggest step. It also sounds like you may be over-thinking or over-perceiving a bit, and a situation like the foods thing isn't really your fault so much. If you want to grow comfortable around Jews, maybe find something from Jewish culture that appeals to you personally. Research is the best tool to ease discomfort. Maybe it's schnitzel or matzah ball soup, maybe its the value of Tikun Olam (repairing the world), but something will strike you and help you better relate to and understand Jews.

As an aside about the foods thing, certain Jewish foods also disagree with me... Like canned gefiltah fish.... So don't be embarrassed about that Not liking the food is not the same as being discriminatory.

Yeah well everyone has their ideas of Tikun Olam.

[Atlanticatia]

What's everyone's favorite Jewish holiday?

Rosh Hashanah is my favorite, although Hanukkah is a close second.

[Menassa]

What's everyone's favorite Jewish holiday?

Rosh Hashanah is my favorite, although Hanukkah is a close second.

Nobody but the Talmudic Rabbis would say Yom Kippur.

I'm a fan of Simchas Torah and Pesach.

[Benuty]

What's everyone's favorite Jewish holiday?

Rosh Hashanah is my favorite, although Hanukkah is a close second.

Ah yes holiday, what is this mystical word you bring from the land of the Englanders?

Personally, I prefer the entirety of Passover.

I know it seems like a rather stereotypical choice, but the beauty (as in the metaphorical, and the symbolic message) of it makes it simply worth the vast amount of time it takes up.

[Atlanticatia]

What's everyone's favorite Jewish holiday?

Rosh Hashanah is my favorite, although Hanukkah is a close second.

Ah yes holiday, what is this mystical word you bring from the land of the Englanders?

Personally, I prefer the entirety of Passover.

I know it seems like a rather stereotypical choice, but the beauty (as in the metaphorical, and the symbolic message) of it makes it simply worth the vast amount of time it takes up.

I always remember bringing peanut butter-and-jelly on matzo for lunch during Passover when I was in elementary school, heh.

It does have quite a beautiful message, though.

[Menassa]

Ah yes holiday, what is this mystical word you bring from the land of the Englanders?

Personally, I prefer the entirety of Passover.

I know it seems like a rather stereotypical choice, but the beauty (as in the metaphorical, and the symbolic message) of it makes it simply worth the vast amount of time it takes up.

I always remember bringing peanut butter-and-jelly on matzo for lunch during Passover when I was in elementary school, heh.

It does have quite a beautiful message, though.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gebrochts

[Ethel mermania]

What's everyone's favorite Jewish holiday?

Rosh Hashanah is my favorite, although Hanukkah is a close second.

Passover. It is the Jewish thanksgiving.

[Maryginia]

What's everyone's favorite Jewish holiday?

Rosh Hashanah is my favorite, although Hanukkah is a close second.

Passover. It is the Jewish thanksgiving.

For me It's Purim and Hannukah.

[Lost heros]

What's everyone's favorite Jewish holiday?

Rosh Hashanah is my favorite, although Hanukkah is a close second.

Passover. It is the Jewish thanksgiving.

To be fair, almost every Jewish Holiday includes a large feast.

[Maryginia]

Passover. It is the Jewish thanksgiving.

To be fair, almost every Jewish Holiday includes a large feast.

One of My friends, and I were discussing this, we both agreed half of Jewish Holidays are parties and feasts, the other half of them are fasts to recover from the ill effects possible brought upon ourselves.

[Ethel mermania]

Passover. It is the Jewish thanksgiving.

To be fair, almost every Jewish Holiday includes a large feast.

We suffered, we overcame, let's eat.

For my family we all got together and had the seder together, my grandmother and aunts would cook. Grandpa Lead the service, happy childhood memory.

[Menassa]

What's everyone's favorite Jewish holiday?

Rosh Hashanah is my favorite, although Hanukkah is a close second.

Passover. It is the Jewish thanksgiving.

Thought that was Shabbat.

[Ethel mermania]

Passover. It is the Jewish thanksgiving.

Thought that was Shabbat.

Not in the American sense, no. Can't cook on shabbat, whole family does not gather for a feast on shabbat. we don't do an entire service at home on shabbat.

[Lyanica]

I do love Purim... We make the best Hamantaschen with chocolate spread filling.... Mmmmm

[Vazdaria]

Never Forget

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

Remembering those who perished, 70 years ago, today.

I have a question. I am not Jewish, although IIRC, some ancestors of mine were so perhaps it's odd that I'm here asking this, but I was curious. Individually, how do each of you deal with antisemitism? Particularly stereotypes and jokes?