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by Czechanada » Wed Nov 28, 2012 7:34 pm
by Spreewerke » Wed Nov 28, 2012 7:35 pm
by Cannot think of a name » Wed Nov 28, 2012 7:36 pm
Bombadil wrote:The Campbell Nation wrote:
Did she flat out ask you to be more dominant? Or is this some interpretation?
Quite, I broke up with someone once because I always had to think of things to do, whenever I'd ask 'what should we do today' she'd reply 'what do you want to do?' beyond just coming up with an idea regardless. It became very tiring.
It doesn't necessarily mean 'dominant', it could mean proactive.
by Bombadil » Wed Nov 28, 2012 7:36 pm
Spreewerke wrote:I have found that the best way to keep a relationship going is to focus on the relationship. Through my current one, I've gained the best friend I could ever ask for.
by New England and The Maritimes » Wed Nov 28, 2012 7:37 pm
Bombadil wrote:Spreewerke wrote:I have found that the best way to keep a relationship going is to focus on the relationship. Through my current one, I've gained the best friend I could ever ask for.
I'v found the best way to keep a relationship going is to find ample time where I don't have to focus on the relationship.
Soviet Haaregrad wrote:Some people's opinions are based on rational observations, others base theirs on imaginative thinking. The reality-based community ought not to waste it's time refuting delusions.
by Stronbollia » Wed Nov 28, 2012 7:38 pm
The Campbell Nation wrote:I have asked my friends for advice but there problem is they don't want to hurt my feelings wrong so they don't always give the best advice. So I thought "Hey maybe NSG might give me painfully true and needed answers" But yea I see what your saying. And thank you Campbell for your advice, you seem pretty nice yourself. And she wants me to be more dominant so I am trying for her to make her happy and all.
You're very welcome. Of course, by acting like a gentleman, you could appear more dominant perhaps? Or at least looking out for her, which would definitely earn you some man points. I'm thinking like, taking her into town, and say, getting the door for her, lending her your jacket, helping her cross the street. Of course maybe she doesn't like these things.
Did she flat out ask you to be more dominant? Or is this some interpretation?
And by all means, ask away. I'm taking notes here. But I wouldn't put strategies straight into the field, especially since none of us know your unique position. That's the thing with relationships.
And the Internet in general.
by Czechanada » Wed Nov 28, 2012 7:38 pm
by Spreewerke » Wed Nov 28, 2012 7:42 pm
Bombadil wrote:Spreewerke wrote:I have found that the best way to keep a relationship going is to focus on the relationship. Through my current one, I've gained the best friend I could ever ask for.
I'v found the best way to keep a relationship going is to find ample time where I don't have to focus on the relationship.
by Cannot think of a name » Wed Nov 28, 2012 7:43 pm
by Choronzon » Wed Nov 28, 2012 7:43 pm
Spreewerke wrote:Bombadil wrote:
I'v found the best way to keep a relationship going is to find ample time where I don't have to focus on the relationship.
That is quite true, as well. There are simply times when either person has to have their own time. Fortunately, my girlfriend and I have more or less worked that out to where we don't ever have issues with it.
by Czechanada » Wed Nov 28, 2012 7:43 pm
Stronbollia wrote:The Campbell Nation wrote:
You're very welcome. Of course, by acting like a gentleman, you could appear more dominant perhaps? Or at least looking out for her, which would definitely earn you some man points. I'm thinking like, taking her into town, and say, getting the door for her, lending her your jacket, helping her cross the street. Of course maybe she doesn't like these things.
Did she flat out ask you to be more dominant? Or is this some interpretation?
And by all means, ask away. I'm taking notes here. But I wouldn't put strategies straight into the field, especially since none of us know your unique position. That's the thing with relationships.
And the Internet in general.
Well actually she did flat out tell me to be more dominant because that's what she likes and then she also told me to take control and all. She said she personally feels a man should dominant a relationship and that's what she likes/is attracted too. And I said ok, but ive been being the nice supportive guy that agrees with what she wants to make her happy so I need to transistion a little bit out of that I guess
by New England and The Maritimes » Wed Nov 28, 2012 7:44 pm
Cannot think of a name wrote:New England and The Maritimes wrote:Men get garages because women don't like garages.
I would date the shit out of a woman who likes garages...um, providing the current one doesn't work out...but there are women out there who like garages. Hell, I had a roommate who would spend an afternoon swapping engines. She was already engaged, though...
Soviet Haaregrad wrote:Some people's opinions are based on rational observations, others base theirs on imaginative thinking. The reality-based community ought not to waste it's time refuting delusions.
by Bombadil » Wed Nov 28, 2012 7:45 pm
by Cannot think of a name » Wed Nov 28, 2012 7:45 pm
Stronbollia wrote:The Campbell Nation wrote:
You're very welcome. Of course, by acting like a gentleman, you could appear more dominant perhaps? Or at least looking out for her, which would definitely earn you some man points. I'm thinking like, taking her into town, and say, getting the door for her, lending her your jacket, helping her cross the street. Of course maybe she doesn't like these things.
Did she flat out ask you to be more dominant? Or is this some interpretation?
And by all means, ask away. I'm taking notes here. But I wouldn't put strategies straight into the field, especially since none of us know your unique position. That's the thing with relationships.
And the Internet in general.
Well actually she did flat out tell me to be more dominant because that's what she likes and then she also told me to take control and all. She said she personally feels a man should dominant a relationship and that's what she likes/is attracted too. And I said ok, but ive been being the nice supportive guy that agrees with what she wants to make her happy so I need to transistion a little bit out of that I guess
by Vareiln » Wed Nov 28, 2012 7:46 pm
Spreewerke wrote:I have found that the best way to keep a relationship going is to focus on the relationship. Through my current one, I've gained the best friend I could ever ask for.
by Ethel mermania » Wed Nov 28, 2012 7:48 pm
by Stronbollia » Wed Nov 28, 2012 7:49 pm
Czechanada wrote:Stronbollia wrote:[quote="The Campbell
Well actually she did flat out tell me to be more dominant because that's what she likes and then she also told me to take control and all. She said she personally feels a man should dominant a relationship and that's what she likes/is attracted too. And I said ok, but ive been being the nice supportive guy that agrees with what she wants to make her happy so I need to transistion a little bit out of that I guess
Then smack her and constantly remind her of her inadequacies. That's dominance all women want.
by Natair » Wed Nov 28, 2012 7:49 pm
by Cannot think of a name » Wed Nov 28, 2012 7:50 pm
New England and The Maritimes wrote:Cannot think of a name wrote:I would date the shit out of a woman who likes garages...um, providing the current one doesn't work out...but there are women out there who like garages. Hell, I had a roommate who would spend an afternoon swapping engines. She was already engaged, though...
It totally defeats the purpose of getting any time to yourself.
by Ethel mermania » Wed Nov 28, 2012 7:51 pm
Cannot think of a name wrote:Stronbollia wrote:
Well actually she did flat out tell me to be more dominant because that's what she likes and then she also told me to take control and all. She said she personally feels a man should dominant a relationship and that's what she likes/is attracted too. And I said ok, but ive been being the nice supportive guy that agrees with what she wants to make her happy so I need to transistion a little bit out of that I guess
Hmm...considering this, might I humbly suggest making a rather forceful inquiry regarding her pants and why they are still on.
by Tiltjuice » Wed Nov 28, 2012 7:51 pm
by New England and The Maritimes » Wed Nov 28, 2012 7:53 pm
Cannot think of a name wrote:New England and The Maritimes wrote:It totally defeats the purpose of getting any time to yourself.
I can still have time to myself, I'm more than one interest, but then I could have a chick with her own sweet ride who doesn't roll her eyes when I talk about my sweet ride and instead of 'humoring' me and my car she can adjust the brakes because she's tired of my lazy ass pumping the pedal every time we stop. Or if a race comes on I can watch it without anyone going, "How long is this going to be on?" or "Turn it down, the sounds of the engines is driving me crazy..."
I can have alone time without having to have an interest that repels my significant other. Not that I have managed to date someone who doesn't hate most of the shit I'm into, but I maintain it's possible.
Soviet Haaregrad wrote:Some people's opinions are based on rational observations, others base theirs on imaginative thinking. The reality-based community ought not to waste it's time refuting delusions.
by Nanatsu no Tsuki » Wed Nov 28, 2012 7:54 pm
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by The walkers » Wed Nov 28, 2012 7:56 pm
by Bombadil » Wed Nov 28, 2012 7:56 pm
Cannot think of a name wrote:..but then I could have a chick with her own sweet ride who doesn't roll her eyes when I talk about my sweet ride..
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