It's kind of a case by case thing what's best for the kids. When a couple in my extended family divorced, two of their kids seemed just as happy not to have their dad around, but the 3rd kid missed his dad.
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by Nazi Flower Power » Tue May 16, 2023 9:11 pm
by GuessTheAltAccount » Wed May 17, 2023 4:03 am
Kernen wrote:Thus serving as a major cost and time barrier.
Bombadil wrote:My girlfriend wanted me to treat her like a princess, so I arranged for her to be married to a stranger to strengthen our alliance with Poland.
by Stellar Colonies » Wed May 17, 2023 4:48 am
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by The Second Order of Life » Wed May 17, 2023 4:54 am
Stellar Colonies wrote:Gaybeans wrote:I can't tell if the spiel above is serious or not. I am really hoping it's not cause oof.
Well, it depends on if you consider thinking "humans are artificially preventing themselves from living forever orgies as bonobos" and "men are sexually obsessed rape monkeys" a serious opinion.
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by Kernen » Wed May 17, 2023 5:03 am
GuessTheAltAccount wrote:Kernen wrote:Thus serving as a major cost and time barrier.
Okay, now this sounds like the most relevant criticism I've heard thus far.
However, even that leaves a further question... if we're subsidizing marriage to encourage monogamy, why can't we subsidize legal representation in the context of divorce for the same reason? In most other contexts, you can't have a subsidy without scrutiny. You receive welfare, you have to prove you're not on drugs. You work in the fire department, you get integrity tests. Why is marriage treated differently? Why do we subsidize it to encourage monogamy, but have so much less scrutiny as to whether people are living up to the monogamy ideals we subsidize? Why do we subsidize it to encourage monogamy, but treat a spouse who divorced over their partner's infidelity no differently from a partner who divorced because they wanted to vary up their sexual partners in a way that just barely doesn't constitute infidelity any longer?
by GuessTheAltAccount » Wed May 17, 2023 5:07 am
Stellar Colonies wrote:Gaybeans wrote:I can't tell if the spiel above is serious or not. I am really hoping it's not cause oof.
Well, it depends on if you consider thinking "humans are artificially preventing themselves from living forever orgies as bonobos", "men are sexually obsessed rape monkeys", and "statutory rape isn't so bad if it's woman-on-man" serious opinions.
Bombadil wrote:My girlfriend wanted me to treat her like a princess, so I arranged for her to be married to a stranger to strengthen our alliance with Poland.
by Incelastan » Wed May 17, 2023 5:38 am
GuessTheAltAccount wrote:Ethel mermania wrote:
And how are you going to enforce it?
Force abortions on anyone pregnant without a license?
Don't be ridiculous. There is no need whatsoever for resorting to something so drastic as that. There are plenty of would-be adoptive parents willing to adopt newborns. They can take care of the newborns the biological parents have been deemed unqualified to parent.
That said, Americans still haven't boycotted China, so I'm going to take their supposed indignation at forced abortions with a grain of salt.Incelastan wrote:
Lauren Boebert's husband: Free at last, free at last!
All jokes aside, funny how the self-appointed "guardians of virtue" never seem to embody their own morals.
by GuessTheAltAccount » Wed May 17, 2023 5:46 am
Incelastan wrote:1. It’s not hypocrisy to call out hypocrisy. It is just a fair rebuke. You pose as some moral paragon according to your insane death cult morality, you deserve to get called out when you fall short of it.
2. I assumed that he would it liberating as my initial reaction because I can’t imagine being in love with a woman like Lauren Boebert. Beyond her vague resemblance to Lacey Chabert, what does she have to offer a man? Certainly not a winsome personality or any kind of grace, charm, or elegance or intellect. She is an extremely unpleasant individual in every context in which I see her. Maybe sentimentality? Maybe he doesn’t want to have to lose custody or pay her when she’s already got a Congressional salary probably larger than his own income. I can’t begin to fathom wanting to keep her because of genuine, unrequited affection.
Bombadil wrote:My girlfriend wanted me to treat her like a princess, so I arranged for her to be married to a stranger to strengthen our alliance with Poland.
by Ethel mermania » Wed May 17, 2023 5:53 am
Nazi Flower Power wrote:Adamede wrote:As a child of a failed marriage, being raised in disfunctional family isn't ideal.
It's kind of a case by case thing what's best for the kids. When a couple in my extended family divorced, two of their kids seemed just as happy not to have their dad around, but the 3rd kid missed his dad.
by Incelastan » Wed May 17, 2023 5:55 am
GuessTheAltAccount wrote:Incelastan wrote:1. It’s not hypocrisy to call out hypocrisy. It is just a fair rebuke. You pose as some moral paragon according to your insane death cult morality, you deserve to get called out when you fall short of it.
2. I assumed that he would it liberating as my initial reaction because I can’t imagine being in love with a woman like Lauren Boebert. Beyond her vague resemblance to Lacey Chabert, what does she have to offer a man? Certainly not a winsome personality or any kind of grace, charm, or elegance or intellect. She is an extremely unpleasant individual in every context in which I see her. Maybe sentimentality? Maybe he doesn’t want to have to lose custody or pay her when she’s already got a Congressional salary probably larger than his own income. I can’t begin to fathom wanting to keep her because of genuine, unrequited affection.
Firstly, I would hope you can fix your quote tags so as not to inadvertently look like you're repeating what I'm saying.
Secondly, what you consider lovable may differ from what others consider lovable.
Thirdly, what you consider proper morality may differ from what others consider proper morality.
Fourthly, affection isn't the only reason to get your vows of monogamy on the record. One can still see it as in their mutual interest to have unprotected sex only with each other and no one else. If you're wondering why, perhaps the best answer would be to ask why the average person non-ironically suggests a classmate date the girl who's bullying him.
by GuessTheAltAccount » Wed May 17, 2023 4:02 pm
Incelastan wrote:GuessTheAltAccount wrote:Firstly, I would hope you can fix your quote tags so as not to inadvertently look like you're repeating what I'm saying.
Secondly, what you consider lovable may differ from what others consider lovable.
Thirdly, what you consider proper morality may differ from what others consider proper morality.
Fourthly, affection isn't the only reason to get your vows of monogamy on the record. One can still see it as in their mutual interest to have unprotected sex only with each other and no one else. If you're wondering why, perhaps the best answer would be to ask why the average person non-ironically suggests a classmate date the girl who's bullying him.
1. The point isn’t my moral code vs. hers. It’s her apparent hypocrisy in failing her own standards.
2. Again, that may well be true of him and his tastes in women. My point is that I can’t begin to understand his apparent tastes in women and my intuitive reaction was to imagine a sense of relief.
Bombadil wrote:My girlfriend wanted me to treat her like a princess, so I arranged for her to be married to a stranger to strengthen our alliance with Poland.
by Katganistan » Wed May 17, 2023 8:16 pm
Floofybit wrote:Divorce MUST be harder to accomplish unless in cases of extreme harm
by Ors Might » Wed May 17, 2023 8:25 pm
by Katganistan » Wed May 17, 2023 8:35 pm
Floofybit wrote:Divorce should at the very least be harder when the couple has a child to take care of
Floofybit wrote:Ethel mermania wrote:1. What if they don't qualify?
2. You are going to take a newborn from their parents and give it to whom?
3. What if mom is 16?
1. If a person does not have the resources, the government will help them out and give them the funds needed.
2. Care facilities that are heavily overseered by the government to make the sure the children are being taken care of properly.
3. the same process will be done for something over 18 without a license.
Saiwana wrote:Floofybit wrote:Sure, I wouldn't be against criminalising unprotected sex without a license.
If that law was on the books, I'd be in favor of the police not actively wasting resources investigating rule violations on that, but taking people to jail/prison if other people snitch on them or sent in proof that they had sex outside of marriage. If the burden of proof was on defendant to prove innocence, that'd cost legal system even less.
I'd want to be a smart despot like Palpatine where you can let the people have just enough liberties to distract them from being too dissatisfied with your rule to want to overthrow- but enforce the stuff that does actually matter for keeping the regime in control and power.
GuessTheAltAccount wrote:Stellar Colonies wrote:Well, it depends on if you consider thinking "humans are artificially preventing themselves from living forever orgies as bonobos", "men are sexually obsessed rape monkeys", and "statutory rape isn't so bad if it's woman-on-man" serious opinions.
Firstly, if there's a difference between "horny enough to risk ruining their whole lives, and going into dire poverty and all one's ambitions being ruined, by having sex before he can afford kids" and "horny enough to not always have the willpower to turn down a homewrecker," then there's a difference between either of those things and any supposed instinct to force oneself on the unwilling. Bonobos have said orgies but still respect consent.
Secondly, the first of these doubles as a reason why a guy is more likely to enjoy, and less likely to be traumatized by, that sort of age gap thing. Again, as long as she doesn't resort to literal coercion.
Thirdly, as much as people pretend the sexes are equally picky about partners, or are of comparable sex drive, I question their sincerity in this belief, by their choice in insults in other contexts. Their reactions to any males who express negative stereotypes about cheerleaders is "having difficulties getting laid, eh", not "having difficulties finding a woman who'll stay with you afterwards eh?" I rarely see anything similar said to women whose opinions one doesn't like (indeed, in this very thread, they give Lauren Boebert grief for divorcing her husband, not questioning her ability to find casual partners). Their reaction to any males who express any concern in the slightest about girls dating "bad boys" causing other boys to imitate said "bad boys" is "you're just jealous." Something you don't as often hear said about women, and even when it is said, it doesn't land quite as well.
Tell you what. When the average person can prove the sincerity of their belief that the sexes are equally horny and equally picky, maybe then I'll take their condemnation of my worldview seriously. XD
by Ifreann » Thu May 18, 2023 10:20 am
Katganistan wrote:FFS why should people be forced to stay in a marriage they are miserable in? I mean what kind of dystopian bullshit is that? "Unless your spouse is abusing you or unfaithful, fuck you, suffer?"Floofybit wrote:Divorce MUST be harder to accomplish unless in cases of extreme harm
Why? What possible good is there in assuring someone is trapped in a miserable relationship? Increase of suicide? Increase of murder?Ifreann wrote:Just so. The marriage they want is not a partnership between equals, but the purchase of a domestic and sexual servant.
Hence the attack on abortion as well.
by Bradfordville » Thu May 18, 2023 11:20 am
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by Luziyca » Thu May 18, 2023 2:59 pm
by Eahland » Thu May 18, 2023 5:45 pm
Luziyca wrote:In my opinion, divorce should be no-fault: if both parties agree to end a relationship, and don't want to be married anymore, then they should be able to end their marriage without much hassle.
by Kernen » Thu May 18, 2023 6:25 pm
by Ethel mermania » Thu May 18, 2023 6:55 pm
Kernen wrote:This thread is full of people so confidently wrong about how divorce works that it's physically painful. On both sides.
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Bombadil wrote:A long time ago there was a thread on whether a plane can take off on a treadmill - a remarkable amount of pilots didn't know how a plane works.
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