I'm a zoomer with half-boomer mentality. Can agree that many millennials are fucked up.
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by State of Turelisa » Sat Jun 20, 2020 11:08 am
Alcala-Cordel wrote:Kids shouldn't have to grow up terrified of being abused. Positive reinforcement is proven to be a better method of parenting, and there are much better ways to punish them.
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by Katganistan » Sat Jun 20, 2020 2:58 pm
Kowani wrote:State of Turelisa wrote:
But fear of the rod reinforces good behaviour.
Actually, it doesn’t do that either.
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by Geneviev » Sat Jun 20, 2020 8:49 pm
by Kowani » Sat Jun 20, 2020 9:05 pm
Geneviev wrote:State of Turelisa wrote:
But fear of the rod reinforces good behaviour.
Fear isn't something that children should experience. If corporal punishment is used, parents need to be very careful that the children only learn that their behavior is wrong, not to fear their parents or anything else.
by Geneviev » Sat Jun 20, 2020 9:08 pm
Kowani wrote:Geneviev wrote:Fear isn't something that children should experience. If corporal punishment is used, parents need to be very careful that the children only learn that their behavior is wrong, not to fear their parents or anything else.
I literally just posted, last page about how corporal punishment doesn’t teach kids that behavior is wrong.
by Kowani » Sat Jun 20, 2020 9:10 pm
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by Kowani » Sat Jun 20, 2020 9:26 pm
Geneviev wrote:Kowani wrote:…No, it doesn’t. It’s an inherent thing about corporal punishment. There’s no more way to “do it right” then there is a right way to walk on Jupiter.
From your source: “The studies do not discriminate well between non-abusive and overly severe types of corporal punishment,” Larzelere says. “You get worse outcomes from corporal punishment than from alternative disciplinary techniques only when it is used more severely or as the primary discipline tactic.”
by Geneviev » Sat Jun 20, 2020 9:30 pm
Kowani wrote:Geneviev wrote:From your source: “The studies do not discriminate well between non-abusive and overly severe types of corporal punishment,” Larzelere says. “You get worse outcomes from corporal punishment than from alternative disciplinary techniques only when it is used more severely or as the primary discipline tactic.”
Did you read the context of that quote? Because it’s pretty clear that that’s the minority view-being the member of the task force who disagreed with their findings.
by Page » Sat Jun 20, 2020 10:58 pm
Comfed wrote:All of the arguments about hardening the relationship between parent and child miss one critcal thing: hitting people is wrong.
by Page » Sat Jun 20, 2020 11:07 pm
Kowani wrote:Geneviev wrote:Fear isn't something that children should experience. If corporal punishment is used, parents need to be very careful that the children only learn that their behavior is wrong, not to fear their parents or anything else.
I literally just posted, last page about how corporal punishment doesn’t teach kids that behavior is wrong.
by Nobel Hobos 2 » Sun Jun 21, 2020 2:47 am
Page wrote:Kowani wrote:I literally just posted, last page about how corporal punishment doesn’t teach kids that behavior is wrong.
Trying to condition a child to not do certain things is no excuse to hit them but what is even worse is that so many people hit their kids at such a young age that their brains are literally incapable of making the connection between being hit and the action.
Last time I argued about this on the internet, it might have been here or maybe Reddit, I don't remember, someone admitted to hitting their 18 month old kid. And I told them that at that age the kid is incapable of comprehending why they're being hit and that they were inflicting pain and fear on their kid for nothing.
by Nobel Hobos 2 » Sun Jun 21, 2020 3:03 am
by Purpelia » Sun Jun 21, 2020 4:18 am
Nobel Hobos 2 wrote:State of Turelisa wrote:
But fear of the rod reinforces good behaviour.
"Fear of the rod discourages bad behaviour" would make sense.
But what you're saying is that any behaviour which is not punished with pain and fear, is good behaviour.
I really can't agree with that. There are degrees of good and bad, there are different kinds of good and bad which a child must choose between. Maybe they all come down to how they will treat other people when they're adult (or maybe religion intrudes with other ideas of good and bad), but all the child's life there will be degrees of good and bad. Judgement that can never find the in-between nor choose the middle course, is amoral judgement.
by Nobel Hobos 2 » Sun Jun 21, 2020 4:24 am
Purpelia wrote:Nobel Hobos 2 wrote:
"Fear of the rod discourages bad behaviour" would make sense.
But what you're saying is that any behaviour which is not punished with pain and fear, is good behaviour.
I really can't agree with that. There are degrees of good and bad, there are different kinds of good and bad which a child must choose between. Maybe they all come down to how they will treat other people when they're adult (or maybe religion intrudes with other ideas of good and bad), but all the child's life there will be degrees of good and bad. Judgement that can never find the in-between nor choose the middle course, is amoral judgement.
I believe he is using "good behavior" in the sense of "opposite of bad behavior" as opposed to referring to specific "good behaviors". As in, punishment makes people generally be on not-bad behavior.
by Purpelia » Sun Jun 21, 2020 4:31 am
Nobel Hobos 2 wrote:And that's still kind of rubbish. Don't you think parents should show degrees of approval and disapproval, so the kid knows that x behaviour, while wrong, is clearly less wrong they y behaviour? And of course on the positive side, that harmless pleasures are less good than an act which helps another?
The moral compass should have a few degrees between "punishably wrong" and "virtuous good deeds" don't you think?
by Nobel Hobos 2 » Sun Jun 21, 2020 4:37 am
Purpelia wrote:Nobel Hobos 2 wrote:And that's still kind of rubbish. Don't you think parents should show degrees of approval and disapproval, so the kid knows that x behaviour, while wrong, is clearly less wrong they y behaviour? And of course on the positive side, that harmless pleasures are less good than an act which helps another?
The moral compass should have a few degrees between "punishably wrong" and "virtuous good deeds" don't you think?
I do not see how what you say and what he said contradict one another. His is just a subset of yours.
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