Katganistan wrote:The Holy Mercurian Empire wrote:
I'm perfectly willing to admit that RWDT's idea of "friendly banter" was problematic. That doesn't change the image problem.
For one example, take your signature. I am a religious person with strong views about the nature of the family and its place in society. Given what I've said about watching those views being violently and suddenly punted out the Overton window, I also have the tendency to assume that people will attempt to silence me. I suspect that most socially conservative religious people come to the table with similar assumptions.
Now, when I see your sig, this tendency causes me to assume that I am one of the zealots to whom you refer - and thus that I will have to "deal with it" accordingly.
You and I have had next to no interactions, and solely due to the nature of my views and your presentation of yourself, you've already convinced me that you are an outsider to be feared.
Now, perhaps you'll reveal yourself to be tolerant of - or even open-minded towards - my views. But the point is that you've already alienated me, without even trying. And without a visible counterbalance, my assumption will be that the entire moderation team will be like you - out to "correct" my "zealotry." This is what I mean by an "image problem."
I put it to you that, while part of the RWDT's problem was its unwillingness to submit to the rules, part of it was also distrust of the mods. And that distrust may well have been due to the way you present yourselves. Most of you seem to be social liberals, and if any of you are traditional conservatives, they're not publically presenting themselves as such - causing the mod team to be viewed as a single monolithic block of outsiders. And that, more than any other factor, resulted in hostility towards the mods. Hostility that was only reinforced every time you moderated the thread.
If you want traditional conservatives to trust that the system will work for them, you need to overcome the "presumption of hostility" that many of us bring to the table. If you don't care about us, then you need to come out and admit that we aren't welcome here. It's up to you which option to go with, but I don't see a third one.
If you are alienated by making an assumption about my views without ever interacting with me, that's a you thing, not a me thing.
Furthermore, you're making a lot of assumptions about conservatives not being welcome on the site. Conservatives are welcome on the site. What is not welcome is flaming and trolling. There are plenty of conservatives who make their points -- points that people might find disagreeable -- without resorting to flames and trolling. These conservatives are not warned, and when people complain of their position, they are told to discuss it because it is not breaking the rules.
If some conservatives find it difficult to make their point without calling their opponents names, that is not a bias against conservatives, it is correcting rule-breaking behavior.
If to improve our PR we are supposed to embrace people trolling and flaming, then our PR will not be improving.
Tbh the rule against trolling is enforced weirdly. If I have a point to make which I know nobody will agree with, I have to explain it with way too much detail so I don't get accused of 'trolling'