Homosexuality and Teens Having Sex

[Soheran]

If your gay son has sex with his boyfriend, there is no risk of pregnancy (despite what fanfic says).

And if they've both never had sex before, and remain completely monogamous to one another forever, the risk of STDs is negligible... but why believe either?

Lesbians are even less vulnerable, as most STDs, including AIDS, cannot be transmitted via lesbian sex.

This is false. HIV and other STDs can be transfered through lesbian sex. It is the lowest-risk sex, but it is far from risk-free.

How would you react if you found out your gay teenage child was having sex, assuming you already knew he/she was gay?

I wouldn't care if any teenage child of mine, gay or straight or bi or whatever, was having sex as long as he or she was well aware of the risks and was behaving responsibly with respect to them. But that condition holds whatever his or her sexual orientation.

[Rhodmhire]

One causes the other?

[NERVUN]

My hope is that if my son is gay (And at age 2, I'm not really thinking about his sexuality right now, more about trying to convince him to eat his food without a fight), is that he absorbed the lessons I (will hopefully have) taught him. I'd prefer that he DIDN'T do it as a teen, but I'm hardly able to say that without being labled a hypocrite. But should he find someone whom he does like, then by Skuld's Holy Hammer he better use protection. And if he is too embarrased or says he's broke, I will buy them for him.

And present them to his date, wrapped up in a little bow. I'm sure that will motovate him.

oh yeah... nothing motivates a person than receiving a condom wrapped in a bow by your date's father...

When presented as an either you do this or I will do this... I'm sure it will.

*sighs* I am a little conflicted at the idea of my son being homosexual. I mean, I have such nice plans, on if I ever have a girl, about getting a beautiful katana and sharpening kit to dress the blade when my daughter brings home her date and working to catch the light jussssssssst right*. But, if my son is homosexual, I mean, can I do that for his date, or should I lend it to his date's father? See the problem?

*Yes, I'm joking here. No, I wouldn't do that* to my daughter.
*Because my wife won't let me get a katana. ~_^

[The Parkus Empire]

If your gay son has sex with his boyfriend, there is no risk of pregnancy (despite what fanfic says). Lesbians are even less vulnerable, as most STDs, including AIDS, cannot be transmitted via lesbian sex.

You mean oral sex? Oral sex is safe sex? And to think all this time I've been using oral dams when I didn't need to.

[JuNii]

My hope is that if my son is gay (And at age 2, I'm not really thinking about his sexuality right now, more about trying to convince him to eat his food without a fight), is that he absorbed the lessons I (will hopefully have) taught him. I'd prefer that he DIDN'T do it as a teen, but I'm hardly able to say that without being labled a hypocrite. But should he find someone whom he does like, then by Skuld's Holy Hammer he better use protection. And if he is too embarrased or says he's broke, I will buy them for him.

And present them to his date, wrapped up in a little bow. I'm sure that will motovate him.

oh yeah... nothing motivates a person than receiving a condom wrapped in a bow by your date's father...

When presented as an either you do this or I will do this... I'm sure it will.

*sighs* I am a little conflicted at the idea of my son being homosexual. I mean, I have such nice plans, on if I ever have a girl, about getting a beautiful katana and sharpening kit to dress the blade when my daughter brings home her date and working to catch the light jussssssssst right*. But, if my son is homosexual, I mean, can I do that for his date, or should I lend it to his date's father? See the problem?

*Yes, I'm joking here. No, I wouldn't do that* to my daughter.
*Because my wife won't let me get a katana. ~_^

psst... Bonsai... with the clippers...

Imagine the date, sitting there, waiting... while you are sitting across from him... and the room is filled with the sharp *snip*... *snip* sounds... then you just start with the quiet statements...

"you will bring my [child] home at [set time] right?"
*snip*
"these days, a lot of youngsters are soo eager... aren't they..."
*snip* *snip*
"But we know you have honor, right?"
*snip*

[Mirkana]

Lesbians are even less vulnerable, as most STDs, including AIDS, cannot be transmitted via lesbian sex.

This is false. HIV and other STDs can be transfered through lesbian sex. It is the lowest-risk sex, but it is far from risk-free.

I was unaware of this. Thank you.

[Blouman Empire]

How would you react if you found out your gay teenage child was having sex, assuming you already knew he/she was gay?

Depends on the age, how often, with who and why.

[Blouman Empire]

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I'd be fine with it, though I'm not sure how my parents would react if they found out I have had gay sex before.

You're Asian right?

So you would pretty much be disowned then

[The Parkus Empire]

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I'd be fine with it, though I'm not sure how my parents would react if they found out I have had gay sex before.

You're Asian right?

So you would pretty much be disowned then

Even if his parents were a gay couple?

[Blouman Empire]

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I'd be fine with it, though I'm not sure how my parents would react if they found out I have had gay sex before.

You're Asian right?

So you would pretty much be disowned then

Even if his parents were a gay couple?

Yes even if his parents were a gay couple.

It was more a dig at him having sex while only 14 not necessarily gay sex.

[Ifreann]

One causes the other?

Yes, being a teenager causes sex. Well, so teenagers hope.

[Tunizcha]

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I'd be fine with it, though I'm not sure how my parents would react if they found out I have had gay sex before.

You're Asian right?

So you would pretty much be disowned then

My mother would beat me with a fucking stick. Or whip my ankles. Somewhere where no one can see.

[Sel Appa]

If I had a homosexual son, he would not have a boyfriend.

[KenKenpachi]

Something I've been thinking about recently.

In general, most parents will disapprove of their teenage kids having sex. The most common reasons outside of religion are:
- Risk of pregnancy
- Risk of STDs
- Not emotionally mature enough

Here's my question - what happens when you throw homosexuality into the mix?

If your gay son has sex with his boyfriend, there is no risk of pregnancy (despite what fanfic says). Lesbians are even less vulnerable, as most STDs, including AIDS, cannot be transmitted via lesbian sex.

How would you react if you found out your gay teenage child was having sex, assuming you already knew he/she was gay?

hmm....If they were staight I would be dissapointed, maybe slap them around as I raised them better, and if the get pregnant damn well better marry or I'll kill the doer. If I found out they were homosexual and got them doing that, well if I seen no sex I would disown them tell them to leave. In the later seeing the sex...I would most likely snap beat them to death or near to death automatically. I'm not a nice person am I?

I had a nephew actully who has mood problems he laid his hand on me and grabed my throat, I damn near beat him to death that day, it was automatic no anger. So if someone I raised turned against me I wouldn't take that well, on no sir. Not well at All.

My mother would beat me with a fucking stick. Or whip my ankles. Somewhere where no one can see.

Tell her to use Oranges leaves no proof. Edit I seen someone asked even if they were gay? Most Asians do not look favorly on homosexuality, in fact I knew a Girl who was Japanese and a Lesibian. Parents reply when she told them, forced arranged marrige, and her husband pretty much has his way with her 100%.

[Skaladora]

If I had a homosexual son, he would not have a boyfriend.

Why?

[The Parkus Empire]

If I had a homosexual son, he would not have a boyfriend.

A bit oppressive, don't you think?

[Mirkana]

hmm....If they were staight I would be dissapointed, maybe slap them around as I raised them better, and if the get pregnant damn well better marry or I'll kill the doer. If I found out they were homosexual and got them doing that, well if I seen no sex I would disown them tell them to leave. In the later seeing the sex...I would most likely snap beat them to death or near to death automatically. I'm not a nice person am I?

I had a nephew actully who has mood problems he laid his hand on me and grabed my throat, I damn near beat him to death that day, it was automatic no anger. So if someone I raised turned against me I wouldn't take that well, on no sir. Not well at All.

You disgust me.

My mother would beat me with a fucking stick. Or whip my ankles. Somewhere where no one can see.

Tell her to use Oranges leaves no proof. Edit I seen someone asked even if they were gay? Most Asians do not look favorly on homosexuality, in fact I knew a Girl who was Japanese and a Lesibian. Parents reply when she told them, forced arranged marrige, and her husband pretty much has his way with her 100%.

Somehow I get the feeling that you think her being stuck in an arrangd marriage is a good thing.

[The Parkus Empire]

Something I've been thinking about recently.

In general, most parents will disapprove of their teenage kids having sex. The most common reasons outside of religion are:
- Risk of pregnancy
- Risk of STDs
- Not emotionally mature enough

Here's my question - what happens when you throw homosexuality into the mix?

If your gay son has sex with his boyfriend, there is no risk of pregnancy (despite what fanfic says). Lesbians are even less vulnerable, as most STDs, including AIDS, cannot be transmitted via lesbian sex.

How would you react if you found out your gay teenage child was having sex, assuming you already knew he/she was gay?

hmm....If they were staight I would be dissapointed, maybe slap them around as I raised them better, and if the get pregnant damn well better marry or I'll kill the doer. If I found out they were homosexual and got them doing that, well if I seen no sex I would disown them tell them to leave. In the later seeing the sex...I would most likely snap beat them to death or near to death automatically. I'm not a nice person am I?

I had a nephew actully who has mood problems he laid his hand on me and grabed my throat, I damn near beat him to death that day, it was automatic no anger. So if someone I raised turned against me I wouldn't take that well, on no sir. Not well at All.

My mother would beat me with a fucking stick. Or whip my ankles. Somewhere where no one can see.

Tell her to use Oranges leaves no proof. Edit I seen someone asked even if they were gay? Most Asians do not look favorly on homosexuality, in fact I knew a Girl who was Japanese and a Lesibian. Parents reply when she told them, forced arranged marrige, and her husband pretty much has his way with her 100%.

This is one of the people I am supposed to be "defending".
*sigh* Pretty close to the type of person I'll be fighting.

[Tunizcha]

If I had a homosexual son, he would not have a boyfriend.

A bit oppressive, don't you think?

Well, maybe he wouldn't have a boyfriend because he would be horrendously ugly like his father.
I kid, I kid.

[KenKenpachi]

You disgust me.

Somehow I get the feeling that you think her being stuck in an arrangd marriage is a good thing.

Why thank you, Its my pleassure. And in a manner yes. All have a duty they must fallow above personal needs and wants. But in any case it was an example. In fact My wife is Chinese and her people find it "just tolerable" that I'm white (apperance wise) if I had been anythingelse they told me they would have dragged her home no matter what. And that wasn't a fringe thing I find most of her family *a large one might I add* doesn't trust blacks at all. Much less homosexuality apperantly in the home land that can get you a good beating. As it shames the Family honor.

[The Parkus Empire]

If I had a homosexual son, he would not have a boyfriend.

A bit oppressive, don't you think?

Well, maybe he wouldn't have a boyfriend because he would be horrendously ugly like his father.
I kid, I kid.

Looks would be the least of his father's problems.

[Karsol]

Something I've been thinking about recently.

In general, most parents will disapprove of their teenage kids having sex. The most common reasons outside of religion are:
- Risk of pregnancy
- Risk of STDs
- Not emotionally mature enough

Here's my question - what happens when you throw homosexuality into the mix?

If your gay son has sex with his boyfriend, there is no risk of pregnancy (despite what fanfic says). Lesbians are even less vulnerable, as most STDs, including AIDS, cannot be transmitted via lesbian sex.

How would you react if you found out your gay teenage child was having sex, assuming you already knew he/she was gay?

hmm....If they were staight I would be dissapointed, maybe slap them around as I raised them better, and if the get pregnant damn well better marry or I'll kill the doer. If I found out they were homosexual and got them doing that, well if I seen no sex I would disown them tell them to leave. In the later seeing the sex...I would most likely snap beat them to death or near to death automatically. I'm not a nice person am I?

I had a nephew actully who has mood problems he laid his hand on me and grabed my throat, I damn near beat him to death that day, it was automatic no anger. So if someone I raised turned against me I wouldn't take that well, on no sir. Not well at All.


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...I pity your children, and who ever bears or gives you a child should be jailed.

[Sith Korriban]

Well, I'd be exceedingly startled, given it's my firm intention to never have children...

But if I did theoretically produce offspring who turned out gay/lesbian/bi, I'd want to make sure their partner wasn't pressuring them into sex and that they genuinely felt ready for it. If they were ready, then as long as they're careful and use protection, they could go ahead.

...and then be just as embarrassed as any theoretical straight offspring as their mother tells them what a cute couple they and their partner are.

[The Parkus Empire]

Why thank you, Its my pleassure. And in a manner yes. All have a duty they must fallow above personal needs and wants. But in any case it was an example. In fact My wife is Chinese and her people find it "just tolerable" that I'm white (apperance wise) if I had been anythingelse they told me they would have dragged her home no matter what. And that wasn't a fringe thing I find most of her family *a large one might I add* doesn't trust blacks at all. Much less homosexuality apperantly in the home land that can get you a good beating. As it shames the Family honor.

Yeah, my family would be pretty pissed if I were gay or married an African American, too. It's actually kind of interesting if one enjoys history, because it's like a part of the dark ages that still lives on in society.

[Karsol]

Depending what age I caught my son/daughter having sex I would either have them over my knee 8-12, lecture them on safe practice 12-16, tell them to keep down the noise 16-?

And I would be a hypocrite if I punished them for being gay.