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Gender appropriation?

Postby Parhe » Thu May 05, 2016 7:05 pm

Social Injustice wrote:As the problem of cultural appropriation (such as the wearing of Native American headdresses by insensitive hipsters) is being rightfully shamed; it lead me to question the idea of gender appropriation.

There exists many gay and transsexual men adopting feminine traits and "identifying" as Women; yet however sincere they may be, why are they allowed to appropriate the identity of women, when in truth they can have little (if any) true idea of what it is to be a Woman? At best their knowledge of the problems, and persecution of Women is not only academic, but also viewed from a position of male privilege.

An example of this could be that of "Caitlin" Jenner who seems to have used this to not only promote the media attention (and Ratings) of "The Kardashians", but perhaps to distract from His court case involving the death resulting from His reckless driving.
This example also leads to the question of those disingenuous enough to use this as a way to escape from checking their privilege.

So what do you think about this NS?

Are you only against transexuals, man to woman, or men in general adopting "feminine traits?" Going to assume you have an issue with both, since gay men don't usually identify as women.

You are basically supporting the continuation of gender roles and division of characteristics and habits between feminine and masculine. If you think that is what is best for women, then, well, speechless.
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Postby Giovenith » Thu May 05, 2016 7:08 pm

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Neutraligon wrote:Oh and, you are acting like being trans is not a real thing.

Science has proven it's simply a mental disorder.


Not since 2012 it hasn't. And as someone has already pointed out, science's recommendation for the treatment of the phenomena known as gender dysphoria is to help the afflicted transition to their preferred gender.

Don't just blindly assume that science must agree with your personal moral judgments.
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Postby Neutraligon » Thu May 05, 2016 7:09 pm

So will the OP come back and actually respond to this thread, or are they just going to post and run?
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Postby The Forsworn Knights » Thu May 05, 2016 7:10 pm

New haven america wrote:Ban males. *Nod*

But then we will all appropriate your culture to avoid getting kicked out of the bedroom at two in the morning naked.
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Postby Threlizdun » Thu May 05, 2016 7:11 pm

I am not fucking "appropriating" femininity. I am a woman. Who the hell do you think you are to tell me what I am. Stop with the reactionary bullshit you pass off as "feminism". If you only stand for the rights of cis women you aren't a fucking feminist. There is nothing "radical" about refusing to accept the consensus amongst the psychiatric community that trans women are women. You're bullshit gender essentialism was the same fucking justification given to me be the person who sexually assaulted me. Chessmistress, I have told you numerous times already to shut the fuck up about this issue. You aren't a feminist. You aren't an ally. You don't know what the fuck you are talking about. If you want to help women, stop talking.
EDIT: I mistook this is another one of CM's puppets. While my point still stands, I apologize for my tone.
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Postby The Forsworn Knights » Thu May 05, 2016 7:13 pm

Threlizdun wrote:I am not fucking "appropriating" femininity. I am a woman. Who the hell do you think you are to tell me what I am. Stop with the reactionary bullshit you pass off as "feminism". If you only stand for the rights of cis women you aren't a fucking feminist. There is nothing "radical" about refusing to accept the consensus amongst the psychiatric community that trans women are women. You're bullshit gender essentialism was the same fucking justification given to me be the person who sexually assaulted me. Chessmistress, I have told you numerous times already to shut the fuck up about this issue. You aren't a feminist. You aren't an ally. You don't know what the fuck you are talking about. If you want to help women, stop talking.

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Postby The Serbian Empire » Thu May 05, 2016 7:13 pm

Giovenith wrote:No gender owns anything. Do whatever you want.

And quit trying to pretend like we can't see a bush-beating argument for transphobia fifty miles away.

At least it's not in the Transgender thread.

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Freedom in Unition wrote:Science has proven it's simply a mental disorder.

Medical science also recommends sex reassignment as a highly effective treatment for gender dysphoria. Disorders are simply things that cause distress to the person, it is not an ethical judgment.

And even where this to be the case, the radical freedom to choose who you want to be is something to be supported. If someone wants to change their sex, what's it to you, bub? It neither breaks your leg nor picks your pocket.

And the distress makes the matter life or death for many. For others like myself, it's transition before it gets to that point and I have a family that would unravel. It's a lot easier to transition when one doesn't have a SO and kids.
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Postby Esternial » Thu May 05, 2016 7:13 pm

Threlizdun wrote:I am not fucking "appropriating" femininity. I am a woman. Who the hell do you think you are to tell me what I am. Stop with the reactionary bullshit you pass off as "feminism". If you only stand for the rights of cis women you aren't a fucking feminist. There is nothing "radical" about refusing to accept the consensus amongst the psychiatric community that trans women are women. You're bullshit gender essentialism was the same fucking justification given to me be the person who sexually assaulted me. Chessmistress, I have told you numerous times already to shut the fuck up about this issue. You aren't a feminist. You aren't an ally. You don't know what the fuck you are talking about. If you want to help women, stop talking.

Chill. It's not CM.

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Postby Kelinfort » Thu May 05, 2016 7:13 pm

Congrats!
You win first prize! ((A warm feeling of satisfaction!)
Lets see how long it takes for the others to figure it out!

From the OP to me for being the first to call the bait.

Ya school of fish

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Postby Trotskylvania » Thu May 05, 2016 7:14 pm

Threlizdun wrote:I am not fucking "appropriating" femininity. I am a woman. Who the hell do you think you are to tell me what I am. Stop with the reactionary bullshit you pass off as "feminism". If you only stand for the rights of cis women you aren't a fucking feminist. There is nothing "radical" about refusing to accept the consensus amongst the psychiatric community that trans women are women. You're bullshit gender essentialism was the same fucking justification given to me be the person who sexually assaulted me. Chessmistress, I have told you numerous times already to shut the fuck up about this issue. You aren't a feminist. You aren't an ally. You don't know what the fuck you are talking about. If you want to help women, stop talking.

Please don't get yourself bant over this. Chessmisstress ain't worth it.
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Postby Major-Tom » Thu May 05, 2016 7:15 pm

Threlizdun wrote:I am not fucking "appropriating" femininity. I am a woman. Who the hell do you think you are to tell me what I am. Stop with the reactionary bullshit you pass off as "feminism". If you only stand for the rights of cis women you aren't a fucking feminist. There is nothing "radical" about refusing to accept the consensus amongst the psychiatric community that trans women are women. You're bullshit gender essentialism was the same fucking justification given to me be the person who sexually assaulted me. Chessmistress, I have told you numerous times already to shut the fuck up about this issue. You aren't a feminist. You aren't an ally. You don't know what the fuck you are talking about. If you want to help women, stop talking.


People like Chess have no influence in the real world, their opinions are the vocal equivalent of an insect trying to breach a beaver dam, it's just futile for them.

Let them live in their vacuum of armchair activism, it's more fun that way. Chessmistress, and I'm not even sure this is chess, is likely some insane person from the dark depths of Sweden who's words matter as much as the Blackberry matters to consumers.

So, yeah, I dunno, pour a drink, watch some Seinfeld, and don't worry about the idiots of the world. Life is more fun that way.
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Postby The Serbian Empire » Thu May 05, 2016 7:15 pm

Threlizdun wrote:I am not fucking "appropriating" femininity. I am a woman. Who the hell do you think you are to tell me what I am. Stop with the reactionary bullshit you pass off as "feminism". If you only stand for the rights of cis women you aren't a fucking feminist. There is nothing "radical" about refusing to accept the consensus amongst the psychiatric community that trans women are women. You're bullshit gender essentialism was the same fucking justification given to me be the person who sexually assaulted me. Chessmistress, I have told you numerous times already to shut the fuck up about this issue. You aren't a feminist. You aren't an ally. You don't know what the fuck you are talking about. If you want to help women, stop talking.

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Postby Neutraligon » Thu May 05, 2016 7:16 pm

Kelinfort wrote:
Congrats!
You win first prize! ((A warm feeling of satisfaction!)
Lets see how long it takes for the others to figure it out!

From the OP to me for being the first to call the bait.

Ya school of fish


Sounds to me like something for moderation. If that is a telegram I guess a GHR is needed.
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Postby Threlizdun » Thu May 05, 2016 7:17 pm

Esternial wrote:
Threlizdun wrote:I am not fucking "appropriating" femininity. I am a woman. Who the hell do you think you are to tell me what I am. Stop with the reactionary bullshit you pass off as "feminism". If you only stand for the rights of cis women you aren't a fucking feminist. There is nothing "radical" about refusing to accept the consensus amongst the psychiatric community that trans women are women. You're bullshit gender essentialism was the same fucking justification given to me be the person who sexually assaulted me. Chessmistress, I have told you numerous times already to shut the fuck up about this issue. You aren't a feminist. You aren't an ally. You don't know what the fuck you are talking about. If you want to help women, stop talking.

Chill. It's not CM.

It is. She has said before that this is one of her puppets.
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Postby Kelinfort » Thu May 05, 2016 7:18 pm

Threlizdun wrote:
Esternial wrote:Chill. It's not CM.

It is. She has said before that this is one of her puppets.

Then the jig is up, cause she just admitted to being a professional bait and tackle store owner.

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Postby Trotskylvania » Thu May 05, 2016 7:18 pm

Kelinfort wrote:
Congrats!
You win first prize! ((A warm feeling of satisfaction!)
Lets see how long it takes for the others to figure it out!

From the OP to me for being the first to call the bait.

Ya school of fish

I guess that's clear malice aforethought.

It's time to send her to Coventry.
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Postby Grande Republic of Arcadia » Thu May 05, 2016 7:18 pm

Social Injustice wrote:As the problem of cultural appropriation (such as the wearing of Native American headdresses by insensitive hipsters) is being rightfully shamed; it lead me to question the idea of gender appropriation.

There exists many gay and transsexual men adopting feminine traits and "identifying" as Women; yet however sincere they may be, why are they allowed to appropriate the identity of women, when in truth they can have little (if any) true idea of what it is to be a Woman? At best their knowledge of the problems, and persecution of Women is not only academic, but also viewed from a position of male privilege.

An example of this could be that of "Caitlin" Jenner who seems to have used this to not only promote the media attention (and Ratings) of "The Kardashians", but perhaps to distract from His court case involving the death resulting from His reckless driving.
This example also leads to the question of those disingenuous enough to use this as a way to escape from checking their privilege.

So what do you think about this NS?

Listen the whole "Cailtin" Jenner bullshit is for attention if he wanted to truly become a female he would of done it and not made all of the media interviews, and I dont understand how switching gender is "Brave" it isnt all it is is that you have money and know a doctor that can cut off your balls, then they dont pay attention to real heros like soldiers who risk thier lives on the front line here is an example:
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Postby Serconas » Thu May 05, 2016 7:18 pm

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A bait so big the fish won´t be able to swallow it.

God damn OP.
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Postby Ganonsyoni » Thu May 05, 2016 7:20 pm

Grande Republic of Arcadia wrote:
Social Injustice wrote:As the problem of cultural appropriation (such as the wearing of Native American headdresses by insensitive hipsters) is being rightfully shamed; it lead me to question the idea of gender appropriation.

There exists many gay and transsexual men adopting feminine traits and "identifying" as Women; yet however sincere they may be, why are they allowed to appropriate the identity of women, when in truth they can have little (if any) true idea of what it is to be a Woman? At best their knowledge of the problems, and persecution of Women is not only academic, but also viewed from a position of male privilege.

An example of this could be that of "Caitlin" Jenner who seems to have used this to not only promote the media attention (and Ratings) of "The Kardashians", but perhaps to distract from His court case involving the death resulting from His reckless driving.
This example also leads to the question of those disingenuous enough to use this as a way to escape from checking their privilege.

So what do you think about this NS?

Listen the whole "Cailtin" Jenner bullshit is for attention if he wanted to truly become a female he would of done it and not made all of the media interviews, and I dont understand how switching gender is "Brave" it isnt all it is is that you have money and know a doctor that can cut off your balls, then they dont pay attention to real heros like soldiers who risk thier lives on the front line here is an example:
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Nice generalizations. Are you actually gonna argue or just post bait?
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Postby Souseiseki » Thu May 05, 2016 7:20 pm

Grande Republic of Arcadia wrote:Listen the whole "Cailtin" Jenner bullshit is for attention


i am extremely amused you think the OP is a fan of jenner

I dont understand how switching gender is "Brave" it isnt all it is is that you have money and know a doctor that can cut off your balls


because it's a thing people and do get murdered over when people find out

then they dont pay attention to real heros like soldiers who risk thier lives on the front line here is an example:


we live in a culture that for the most part worships soldiers, not that that is actually relevant to jenner
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Postby Threlizdun » Thu May 05, 2016 7:21 pm

Kelinfort wrote:
Threlizdun wrote:It is. She has said before that this is one of her puppets.

Then the jig is up, cause she just admitted to being a professional bait and tackle store owner.

Fuck, I checked the list she has. This isn't one of them. It's just some random person looking to piss people off.
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Postby Dread Lady Nathicana » Thu May 05, 2016 7:21 pm

Ladies and gentlemen ... this ain't no thing to be getting your assorted knickers in a twist over, seriously. Obvious bait is obvious. Remove hook from mouth, and regain thy chill. I'd hate to see anyone get smacked due to righteous indignation at pure ridiculousness. Redtext gives me a sad these days. :(

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Postby Esternial » Thu May 05, 2016 7:22 pm

Kelinfort wrote:
Congrats!
You win first prize! ((A warm feeling of satisfaction!)
Lets see how long it takes for the others to figure it out!

From the OP to me for being the first to call the bait.

Ya school of fish

I suggest submitting a GHR asap.

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Postby The Forsworn Knights » Thu May 05, 2016 7:22 pm

Dread Lady Nathicana wrote:Ladies and gentlemen ... this ain't no thing to be getting your assorted knickers in a twist over, seriously. Obvious bait is obvious. Remove hook from mouth, and regain thy chill. I'd hate to see anyone get smacked due to righteous indignation at pure ridiculousness. Redtext gives me a sad these days. :(

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