Aphryss wrote:Grenartia wrote:
Wait. Why is a psychiatrist talking to you about the side effects of SRS?
HRT causes irreversible infertility after a while, you don't need SRS to spike the ol' baby cannon. And since some people are concerned about having kids in the future, it's a reasonable concern to raise in a psych assessment.
Of course, my psychiatrist went a step further and was like "You know it'll be harder to find romantic or sexual relationships, right?"
I knew it could cause infertility, but not that it was guaranteed.
Aphryss wrote:Fabulous Rainicorns wrote:I feel like I should post here more often, but never have anything new to say. I hate that I'm not actually doing anything but I can't actually do anything yet and I'm extremely resistant to seeing a therapist for no good reason.
Use the thread as you need to, is my opinion. You're always welcome here.
What I personally do.
Nature-Spirits wrote:Soldati Senza Confini wrote:
Wait a second, Facebook makes you give them PID as a way to change your name?!
I don't remember that being a thing.
Sort of. If they have reason to suspect that you're not using your real name, then they'll ask for ID, and they may shut down your account.
I'm not surprised that you wouldn't know, though, since trans people are among the only ones who are actually affected by that policy on a regular basis. A cis person can change their name to whatever they want without issue, usually; however, Facebook follows up on reports when a lot of people report a single thing, so if a hundred people report a trans person's name as "not their real name" because they want to be transphobic pieces of shit, then Facebook will ask for ID.
There are a lot of unsavoury things that Facebook does, actually, but I still use it because it's the foundation for most of my social network. I'd lose touch with most of my friends without it.
To be fair, a lot of cis people are affected by the policy as well, especially ones trying to get away from an abuser/stalker.
Nature-Spirits wrote:Aphryss wrote:Cisgender women are less shitty that way than cisgender men, then? Or is it the fact that they're necessarily lesbians that means they're more likely to be not transphobic?
IMO, cis men and cis women are shitty in different ways wrt transmisogyny and relationships. Cis men are more likely to beat you up because they're afraid that their attraction to you makes them gay. Cis women are more likely to be TERFs who want to keep that precious gold star of theirs.
Generalisations, of course. Lots of cis people are great, but I've heard too many horror stories.
Be trans, date trans.
Not really. There's an extremely high correlation between gun ownership and suicide. Considering how high the attempted suicide rate is for us already, I wouldn't call it a reasonable suggestion at all. Lets also not forget the shit transwomen face without having guns (to say nothing about if you're a black and a transwoman. Hell, even for us white transfolk who aren't suicidal, we'd probably get shit from the cops for being legally armed). I'll stick to martial arts, tasers/stun guns, (legal) knives, and improvised weapons, and recommend the same.