Kelinfort wrote:Ostroeuropa wrote:
I'd say that gender is socially constructed and people gravitate toward the one they think best describes them and that they identify with.
The reason theres more MTFs than FTMs is that it's simply more desirable to be a woman than a man.
I'm not alleging that they can decide which they want. Only that it is influenced by society and the information they take in.
Identifying as a woman despite male sexual organs doesn't account for transphobia. I think were our identities as men or women able to account for transphobia and transness we'd probably see less people identifying.
But people who are born with a penis and who think "I'm a woman. It makes me feel better. It feels right. This is who I am."
They're doing that, in part, because it's simply more desirable to be a woman.
It's an internal process utilizing external data points. You don't have to deal with transphobia when merely feeling like a woman inside your own brain, you're just dealing with running a thought chain where you're a woman, and if it makes you feel good and happier, well, theres a reason.
Because it's a better life.
Same as imagining being a billionaire or eating a tub of ice cream or petting a puppy.
(Note, i'm not saying they are "Imagining" being a woman. Being a woman or a man is a thought based thing, same as imagination, and it's effects on feelings are the same as imagination. I may have butchered this explanation.)
Wow that's fucking offensive to trans women.
How do you figure?
I'm not denying they are women. I'm explaining that I think part of the reason they identify as such is emotionally based.
And part of that emotional justification is based on women having it easier and having a more desirable lifestyle.
Imagine yourself being castrated.
Now imagine yourself being given a dollar.
Which makes you happier?
Being happy with ones identity is an important part of it. This all seems pretty self-evident to me.