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Postby Replevion » Fri May 22, 2015 9:09 am

Val Halla wrote:What we need is one big house for all the beautiful people here. :3

Fabulous Rainicorns wrote:I hate spring and summer. It keeps getting warmer and I can't wear as many layers and it's harder to cover up things I don't want people to see.

I know that won't always be an issue for you! :hug:


Indeed so.

Meanwhile over here in transfeminine land, I'm like sundresses, fuck yesssss. I'm the most comfortable I've ever been. And just in time, it's going to friggin' 90s all next week. :blink: :oops:
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Postby Val Halla » Fri May 22, 2015 9:13 am

Replevion wrote:
Val Halla wrote:What we need is one big house for all the beautiful people here. :3


I know that won't always be an issue for you! :hug:


Indeed so.

Meanwhile over here in transfeminine land, I'm like sundresses, fuck yesssss. I'm the most comfortable I've ever been. And just in time, it's going to friggin' 90s all next week. :blink: :oops:

You have a time machine. Sell it so we can get the house. For the cause!

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Val Halla wrote:What we need is one big house for all the beautiful people here. :3


I know that won't always be an issue for you! :hug:


That house would be super awesome.

I wish my mom would let me get a binder, but she thinks it's not safe or something.

I dunno what a binder is…
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Postby Replevion » Fri May 22, 2015 9:30 am

Val Halla wrote:
Fabulous Rainicorns wrote:
That house would be super awesome.

I wish my mom would let me get a binder, but she thinks it's not safe or something.

I dunno what a binder is…


A binder is a thing transmasculine people use to make their chests look flatter. And they can indeed be unhealthy if done improperly and/or with excessive tightness.
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Postby Val Halla » Fri May 22, 2015 9:31 am

Replevion wrote:
Val Halla wrote:
I dunno what a binder is…


A binder is a thing transmasculine people use to make their chests look flatter. And they can indeed be unhealthy if done improperly and/or with excessive tightness.

Would wearing baggy tops help him?
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Postby Bottle » Fri May 22, 2015 9:41 am

Replevion wrote:
Val Halla wrote:
I dunno what a binder is…


A binder is a thing transmasculine people use to make their chests look flatter. And they can indeed be unhealthy if done improperly and/or with excessive tightness.

Even "good" binders are still dangerous if worn too long at a stretch, and binding is a particularly risky proposition for anyone whose body is still growing. There can be issues with permanently damaging blood vessels, connective tissues, and even ribs. It's also possible to compress the spine, leading to pain and possible nerve damage, or to collapse a lung.

Speaking as someone who has daydreamed about taking a deli slicer to their chest, I absolutely understand the appeals of binding. But I worry about the huge increase in young people using binders because there is so much potential for injury.
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Postby Fabulous Rainicorns » Fri May 22, 2015 9:55 am

Val Halla wrote:
Replevion wrote:
A binder is a thing transmasculine people use to make their chests look flatter. And they can indeed be unhealthy if done improperly and/or with excessive tightness.

Would wearing baggy tops help him?


It doesn't make a difference, or is possibly worse, depending on the shirt. Sometimes baggier shirts tend to have wrinkles and folds in places I don't want them.
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Postby Fabulous Rainicorns » Fri May 22, 2015 9:56 am

Bottle wrote:
Replevion wrote:
A binder is a thing transmasculine people use to make their chests look flatter. And they can indeed be unhealthy if done improperly and/or with excessive tightness.

Even "good" binders are still dangerous if worn too long at a stretch, and binding is a particularly risky proposition for anyone whose body is still growing. There can be issues with permanently damaging blood vessels, connective tissues, and even ribs. It's also possible to compress the spine, leading to pain and possible nerve damage, or to collapse a lung.

Speaking as someone who has daydreamed about taking a deli slicer to their chest, I absolutely understand the appeals of binding. But I worry about the huge increase in young people using binders because there is so much potential for injury.


I'm aware of the risks, but if I'm going to do it anyway, I may as well get a proper binder and lower the risks at least a little bit.

And I haven't grown in years, so I don't think growing is too much of an issue.
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Postby Bottle » Fri May 22, 2015 9:56 am

Fabulous Rainicorns wrote:
Val Halla wrote:Would wearing baggy tops help him?


It doesn't make a difference, or is possibly worse, depending on the shirt. Sometimes baggier shirts tend to have wrinkles and folds in places I don't want them.

You are right to avoid the baggy!

http://ftmguide.rassaku.net/

Highly recommend the above Complete Illustrated Guide To Looking Like A Hot Dude.
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Postby Fabulous Rainicorns » Fri May 22, 2015 9:59 am

Bottle wrote:
Fabulous Rainicorns wrote:
It doesn't make a difference, or is possibly worse, depending on the shirt. Sometimes baggier shirts tend to have wrinkles and folds in places I don't want them.

You are right to avoid the baggy!

http://ftmguide.rassaku.net/

Highly recommend the above Complete Illustrated Guide To Looking Like A Hot Dude.

Thanks for linking that.

It days not to wear plaid. That might be an issue.
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Postby Geanna » Sat May 23, 2015 3:39 pm

Fabulous Rainicorns wrote:
Bottle wrote:You are right to avoid the baggy!

http://ftmguide.rassaku.net/

Highly recommend the above Complete Illustrated Guide To Looking Like A Hot Dude.

Thanks for linking that.

It days not to wear plaid. That might be an issue.


Looks like I'm going to scour the discussion for links like these and do a big update on the OP :p
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Postby Val Halla » Sat May 23, 2015 3:41 pm

Geanna wrote:
Fabulous Rainicorns wrote:Thanks for linking that.

It days not to wear plaid. That might be an issue.


Looks like I'm going to scour the discussion for links like these and do a big update on the OP :p

Congrats on the referendum BTW. :hug:
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Postby Jormengand » Sat May 23, 2015 3:48 pm

Val Halla wrote::hug:

Oh, hi there cutie. : 3 :hug:
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Postby Val Halla » Sat May 23, 2015 3:49 pm

Jormengand wrote:
Val Halla wrote::hug:

Oh, hi there cutie. : 3 :hug:

Well hello. :hug:
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Postby Jormengand » Sat May 23, 2015 3:55 pm

Val Halla wrote:
Jormengand wrote:Oh, hi there cutie. : 3 :hug:

Well hello. :hug:

*Snuggles up to you*. So how's you?
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Postby Val Halla » Sat May 23, 2015 3:56 pm

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Val Halla wrote:Well hello. :hug:

*Snuggles up to you*. So how's you?

I'm done with school now
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Postby Jormengand » Sat May 23, 2015 3:57 pm

Val Halla wrote:
Jormengand wrote:*Snuggles up to you*. So how's you?

I'm done with school now

Yay for no school. How's life going?
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Postby Val Halla » Sat May 23, 2015 4:03 pm

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Val Halla wrote:I'm done with school now

Yay for no school. How's life going?

Boring and slow. :/
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Postby Jormengand » Sat May 23, 2015 4:05 pm

Val Halla wrote:
Jormengand wrote:Yay for no school. How's life going?

Boring and slow. :/

Aww. :c

Butbutbut hugs! :hug:

And kisses! :kiss:
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Postby Val Halla » Sat May 23, 2015 4:07 pm

Jormengand wrote:
Val Halla wrote:Boring and slow. :/

Aww. :c

Butbutbut hugs! :hug:

And kisses! :kiss:

I agree with these statements. :hug: :kiss:
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Postby Jormengand » Sat May 23, 2015 4:10 pm

Val Halla wrote:
Jormengand wrote:Aww. :c

Butbutbut hugs! :hug:

And kisses! :kiss:

I agree with these statements. :hug: :kiss:

Ooh, you're lovely. *Snuggles*.
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Postby Val Halla » Sat May 23, 2015 4:15 pm

Jormengand wrote:
Val Halla wrote:I agree with these statements. :hug: :kiss:

Ooh, you're lovely. *Snuggles*.

Yay! *Is snuggled*
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Postby Fabulous Rainicorns » Sat May 23, 2015 4:18 pm

I ignored that thing that said plaid was bad and bought more plaid. Purple plaid. That's totally going to be more convincing than my other plaid, right?
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Postby Jormengand » Sat May 23, 2015 4:20 pm

Val Halla wrote:
Jormengand wrote:Ooh, you're lovely. *Snuggles*.

Yay! *Is snuggled*

<3
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Postby Val Halla » Sat May 23, 2015 4:21 pm

Fabulous Rainicorns wrote:I ignored that thing that said plaid was bad and bought more plaid. Purple plaid. That's totally going to be more convincing than my other plaid, right?

I'd go with whatever is comfortable. :3

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Val Halla wrote:Yay! *Is snuggled*

<3

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Postby Grenartia » Sun May 24, 2015 2:42 pm

Fabulous Rainicorns wrote:I ignored that thing that said plaid was bad and bought more plaid. Purple plaid. That's totally going to be more convincing than my other plaid, right?


Well, I guess you could wear a kilt. Its the manliest way to be pantsless. :P
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