What Does Sex Mean to You?

by **Warpspace** » Sat Nov 08, 2014 2:20 am

It's a biological process which both causes pleasure for humans and often results in reproduction, and the main purpose of it is reproduction.

by **The Seleucids (Ancient)** » Sat Nov 08, 2014 5:36 am

Firsthome wrote:
The Seleucids wrote:
Meh, sex is overrated, though still a fun and relaxing thing to do.

Safe sex supposedly extends your life :3

supposedly.
I'd rather get that proven then

by **Threlizdun** » Sat Nov 08, 2014 11:59 am

DnalweN acilbupeR wrote:
Threlizdun wrote:*Sigh* It's really sad when people don't see how sexuality can be distinct from sex. There's just so much you miss out on if you hold such a view. The Flood finds women sexually attractive, and can feel physical and mental arousal from them, but doesn't actually want to have sex. Sexual things do not have to involve sex. In fact, I would argue that sexual acts that don't involve actual sex have greater potential for gratification than sex does. Of course, that is just my biased view on the subject.

I don't really get this. Is it about preferring sex other than sexual intercourse, or getting aroused from denying it from yourself?

No, sexuality does not have to involve sex at all. Looking at sexual images is an expression of sexuality. Passionately kissing is an expression of sexuality. Roleplaying is an expression of sexuality. Talking dirty is an expression of sexuality. Whipping someone is an expression of sexuality. Any act that delivers pleasure, regardless how kinky or vanilla or is, can be an expression of sexuality.

by **Ethel mermania** » Sat Nov 08, 2014 7:04 pm

Threlizdun wrote:
DnalweN acilbupeR wrote:
I don't really get this. Is it about preferring sex other than sexual intercourse, or getting aroused from denying it from yourself?

No, sexuality does not have to involve sex at all. Looking at sexual images is an expression of sexuality. Passionately kissing is an expression of sexuality. Roleplaying is an expression of sexuality. Talking dirty is an expression of sexuality. Whipping someone is an expression of sexuality. Any act that delivers pleasure, regardless how kinky or vanilla or is, can be an expression of sexuality.

Now I am getting a woodie, thanks

by **Zaldakki** » Sat Nov 08, 2014 7:06 pm

I studied for my French exam last semester by staying up the entire night before it watching French porn. Needless to say, I got 100.

by **Czechanada** » Sat Nov 08, 2014 7:08 pm

Zaldakki wrote:I studied for my French exam last semester by staying up the entire night before it watching French porn. Needless to say, I got 100.

Wouldn't have it been more efficient to have sex with a French person?

by **Zaldakki** » Sat Nov 08, 2014 7:10 pm

Czechanada wrote:
Zaldakki wrote:I studied for my French exam last semester by staying up the entire night before it watching French porn. Needless to say, I got 100.

Wouldn't have it been more efficient to have sex with a French person?

There were no French girls nearby.

by **Furry Alairia and Algeria** » Sat Nov 08, 2014 7:12 pm

Zaldakki wrote:
Czechanada wrote:
Wouldn't have it been more efficient to have sex with a French person?

There were no French girls nearby.

Almost like your incident with the image.

by **Zaldakki** » Sat Nov 08, 2014 7:13 pm

Furry Alairia and Algeria wrote:
Zaldakki wrote:There were no French girls nearby.

Almost like your incident with the image.

?

by **Furry Alairia and Algeria** » Sat Nov 08, 2014 7:21 pm

Zaldakki wrote:
Furry Alairia and Algeria wrote:Almost like your incident with the image.

?

by **Tyrandel** » Sat Nov 08, 2014 7:28 pm

Furry Alairia and Algeria wrote:
Zaldakki wrote:?

Woah. That spoiler redirected me like it was a link. Woah.
That was freaky. I am freaked out. Cool though.

by **Zaldakki** » Sat Nov 08, 2014 7:31 pm

Tyrandel wrote:
Furry Alairia and Algeria wrote:

Woah. That spoiler redirected me like it was a link. Woah.
That was freaky. I am freaked out. Cool though.

Today I learned amazingness. Putting the spoiler inside the url.

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by **Jello Biafra** » Sat Nov 08, 2014 7:34 pm

In general, I view sex as an enjoyable activity to do for fun.
In context of relationships, I view sex as something to abstain from with people outside of the relationship, as a method of demonstrating a willingness to make sacrifices for the relationship. This doesn't mean that it is the only sacrifice that could be made, but it is one that is more important to me than most other potential sacrifices. This would suggest that I do attach some emotional aspect to sex, as I would consider it a betrayal if someone I was in a relationship with had sex with someone who wasn't me, for reasons I outlined.

by **Threlizdun** » Sun Nov 09, 2014 1:56 am

Ethel mermania wrote:
Threlizdun wrote:No, sexuality does not have to involve sex at all. Looking at sexual images is an expression of sexuality. Passionately kissing is an expression of sexuality. Roleplaying is an expression of sexuality. Talking dirty is an expression of sexuality. Whipping someone is an expression of sexuality. Any act that delivers pleasure, regardless how kinky or vanilla or is, can be an expression of sexuality.

Now I am getting a woodie, thanks

Well, at least I'm good for something.

by **Alaizia** » Sun Nov 09, 2014 12:11 pm

For the record, being asexual means that you don't have a desire for sex. But if, somehow, you engaged into it completely, you will experience orgasm(s).

by **Threlizdun** » Sun Nov 09, 2014 6:14 pm

Alaizia wrote:For the record, being asexual means that you don't have a desire for sex. But if, somehow, you engaged into it completely, you will experience orgasm(s).

No, it is possible that they will experience orgasm. No one certainly will experience orgasms during sex, regardless of their orientation.

by **Harkback Union** » Thu Nov 13, 2014 3:55 am

Grenartia wrote:
Neo Philippine Empire wrote:Male or Female. Basically your biological gender.

Methinks you've severely misunderstood the OP. The OP is referring to the act of sexual intercourse. Not chromosomes or genitalia. Also, there's no such thing as "biological gender". Gender is social, sex is biological.

Also, Harkback, drop the fucking threadjack, why don'tcha?

Riiiight... It was my fault you deralied the topic when you begun arguing about rape's definition.

by **Post Cold War NATO** » Sun Apr 05, 2015 7:13 pm

*cough*I want to resurrect this thread*cough*

As a virgin the idea of having sex seems enjoyable but scary at the same time.

by **Ethel mermania** » Sun Apr 05, 2015 7:33 pm

A great way to spend a Tuesday night

by **Meryuma** » Sun Apr 05, 2015 7:42 pm

It's generally kind of a deal for me if I"m sexual with someone, i.e. I usually become pretty attached to people I have sexual desires for. For that reason I don't have casual sex personally, but it's fine if others do (I support sex-positivity and oppose slut-shaming and the repression of consensual and enjoyable behavior).

Infected Mushroom wrote:It is about trying to reach new heights of pleasure.

Some people may succeed, others may fail.

It all depends on the setting, the tools available, and with whom you work with. There is no guaranteed outcome with each engagement.

The funniest quote I've read here in a long time, though I'm pretty sure it's serious

by **Furry Alairia and Algeria** » Sun Apr 05, 2015 8:13 pm

Post Cold War NATO wrote:*cough*I want to resurrect this thread*cough*

You shouldn't.

by **Benian Republic** » Sun Apr 05, 2015 8:18 pm

Furry Alairia and Algeria wrote:
Post Cold War NATO wrote:*cough*I want to resurrect this thread*cough*

You shouldn't.

Yeah please don't.

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