What Does Sex Mean to You?

[Soldati Senza Confini]

I think sex is whatever someone wants to make out of it.

That being said, it depends. Casual sex to me is nothing more than sex, pleasure and comfort from another person without any emotional connections attached. With my girlfriend/wife? Sex is a pleasurable experience and a deep emotional connection with her.

I'm also someone who wouldn't mind a swingers or open-marriage lifestyle however, so that makes more sense from where I am coming from.

[Scow Creek]

Don't you fucking dare. Shut your stupid fucking mouth if you want to minimize sexual assault.

Oh PUH-LEEZE. He merely pointed out the obvious: the word "rape" has been redefined to appease a radical anti-male, feminist theology that has no basis in reality.

*MOST* sex, in all times, at all places, throughout the history of the world, takes place after a few drinks. This is life. This is normal. This is reality. The notion that a women can physically consent and go through with sex acts, and then wake up with regrets and be counselled by her Women's Studies Center that she has been "raped' is politically correct BULLSHIT.

Amazing how MEN are "responsible" for every decision they make after having some drinks, but *WOMEN* are relieved from *all* responsibility after having one drink.

[Frisiiland]

Why be angry at me as if I stabbed a baby with a bayonet?

Did you?

No.

[The 502nd SS]

Then hook up with another guy. Guys are sluts and don't care :-)

I know, I am one....

Sorry but I don't roll that way

Hmm, I could always go behind my parents backs and have party while they are taking a trip. Then I could invite a girl I'm interested in and I'm pretty sure she wouldn't mind.

[Torisakia]

Amazing how MEN are "responsible" for every decision they make after having some drinks, but *WOMEN* are relieved from *all* responsibility after having one drink.

I guess that's how the current generation works.

[Scow Creek]

Then hook up with another guy. Guys are sluts and don't care :-)

I know, I am one....

Sorry but I don't roll that way

Mouths and asses dont have genders. Close your eyes if you need to..

[Calimera II]

Sorry but I don't roll that way

Mouths and asses dont have genders. Close your eyes if you need to..

Well.. I consider it normal to be picky.

[The 502nd SS]

Sorry but I don't roll that way

Mouths and asses dont have genders. Close your eyes if you need to..

please stay away from me. If you try to get close to me like that, I will stab you with my Ka Bar

[Calimera II]

Mouths and asses dont have genders. Close your eyes if you need to..

please stay away from me. If you try to get close to me like that, I will stab you with my Ka Bar

Why don't you go to a bar or club then, if you really want to have more intimate contact with girls?

[Sun Wukong]

Mouths and asses dont have genders. Close your eyes if you need to..

please stay away from me. If you try to get close to me like that, I will stab you with my Ka Bar

I assume that's a cleverly disguised euphemism.

Which I accept.

[Degenerate Heart of HetRio]

Amazing how MEN are "responsible" for every decision they make after having some drinks, but *WOMEN* are relieved from *all* responsibility after having one drink.

No, it works the same both ways.

Consent for sex is voluntary, sober, enthusiastic, verbal, non-coerced, continual, active, honest and isn't taking in the place of an important power relationship (especially so when there's a significant, inherent cognitive difference: people shift from adolescent to adult brains at the 18-25 age bracket).

Lack of consent is sexual abuse.

Simples.

[Soldati Senza Confini]

Then hook up with another guy. Guys are sluts and don't care :-)

I know, I am one....

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

I think sex is whatever someone wants to make out of it.

That being said, it depends. Casual sex to me is nothing more than sex, pleasure and comfort from another person without any emotional connections attached. With my girlfriend/wife? Sex is a pleasurable experience and a deep emotional connection with her.

I'm also someone who wouldn't mind a swingers or open-marriage lifestyle however, so that makes more sense from where I am coming from.

You said very well. Sex is indeed what those involved make it to be.

On the issue of open-relationships, I contemplated them once but I don't think I am cut out for that. I am somewhat territorial and not really into romantically loving more than one person at the time. Open relationships take a certain frame of mind and a huge degree of security in oneself that I don't have. Confidence, I want to say.

[The 502nd SS]

please stay away from me. If you try to get close to me like that, I will stab you with my Ka Bar

Why don't you go to a bar or club then, if you really want to have more intimate contact with girls?

I don't have my driver's licence yet and I would have a panic attack most likely.

[Scow Creek]

If you try to get close to me like that, I will stab you with my Ka Bar

Is that anything like K-Y?

[Calimera II]

Why don't you go to a bar or club then, if you really want to have more intimate contact with girls?

I don't have my driver's licence yet and I would have a panic attack most likely.

Do you life in the middle of nowhere then? When I go to a club or bar I usually go on bike.

[Enterovirus D68]

Amazing how MEN are "responsible" for every decision they make after having some drinks, but *WOMEN* are relieved from *all* responsibility after having one drink.

No, it works the same both ways.

Consent for sex is voluntary, sober, enthusiastic, verbal, non-coerced, continual, active, honest and isn't taking in the place of an important power relationship (especially so when there's a significant, inherent cognitive difference: people shift from adolescent to adult brains at the 18-25 age bracket).

Lack of consent is sexual abuse.

Simples.

So what if two humans one male and one female have both been drinking?

[Degenerate Heart of HetRio]

Then hook up with another guy. Guys are sluts and don't care :-)

As a bi-pan neutrois, I missed NSG's occasional innocent shades of bi-curiosity.

[Sun Wukong]

If you try to get close to me like that, I will stab you with my Ka Bar

Is that anything like K-Y?

I believe it's used by used by Bene Gesserit Proctors in their death-alternative test of human awareness.

[Torisakia]

No, it works the same both ways.

Consent for sex is voluntary, sober, enthusiastic, verbal, non-coerced, continual, active, honest and isn't taking in the place of an important power relationship (especially so when there's a significant, inherent cognitive difference: people shift from adolescent to adult brains at the 18-25 age bracket).

Lack of consent is sexual abuse.

Simples.

So what if two humans one male and one female have both been drinking?

Probably just goes back to that 'consent' thing.

[Degenerate Heart of HetRio]

So what if two humans one male and one female have both been drinking?

I'm not sure. I'm a virgin and I plan never getting drunk.

If it is violent, abusive, threatening, pushy somehow, it is abusive. Just like a drunk person beating another drunk person.

If it is not, though, there's no power dynamics. So it's just mindless action that both might or might not regret.

[Soldati Senza Confini]

I think sex is whatever someone wants to make out of it.

That being said, it depends. Casual sex to me is nothing more than sex, pleasure and comfort from another person without any emotional connections attached. With my girlfriend/wife? Sex is a pleasurable experience and a deep emotional connection with her.

I'm also someone who wouldn't mind a swingers or open-marriage lifestyle however, so that makes more sense from where I am coming from.

You said very well. Sex is indeed what those involved make it to be.

On the issue of open-relationships, I contemplated them once but I don't think I am cut out for that. I am somewhat territorial and not really into romantically loving more than one person at the time. Open relationships take a certain frame of mind and a huge degree of security in oneself that I don't have. Confidence, I want to say.

I'm territorial in certain aspects (such as my girlfriend/wife loving me and thinking I'm the best), but I have the confidence to pull it off. It also is reassuring that if my wife wants to have a casual fling that she can be open about it and not go behind my back and do it, as that'd be more painful to me than her telling me she wants to sleep with another man up front and asking for my consent.

In other words, I appreciate upfront communication than back stabbing. Then again that's me and my perception of things after living through a lot of shit.

[Scow Creek]

Amazing how MEN are "responsible" for every decision they make after having some drinks, but *WOMEN* are relieved from *all* responsibility after having one drink.

No, it works the same both ways.

Consent for sex is voluntary, sober, enthusiastic, verbal, non-coerced, continual, active, honest and isn't taking in the place of an important power relationship (especially so when there's a significant, inherent cognitive difference: people shift from adolescent to adult brains at the 18-25 age bracket).

Lack of consent is sexual abuse.

Simples.

Spoken like a feminist-indoctrinated 21 year old spewing the party line.

Let me let you in on a secret, oh ye of little sexual experience: when people engage in sex, they don't play "Mother May I? They don't ask a series of questions:
"May I touch your boob?
May I suck on your nipple?
May I touch your twat?
May I pull out my dick?"
May I rub against you?
May I insert this into your wide open legs?"

No, they simply progress from one act to another as they respond to each other's physicality. Consent is RARELY, IF EVER, "Verbal." That is a legal FANTASY created by feminists which slam-dunk convict young men who have done nothing wrong.

[The 502nd SS]

If you try to get close to me like that, I will stab you with my Ka Bar

Is that anything like K-Y?

No its a combat knife used by the USMC and I carry it with me every where I go(except school) and I will use it in self defense.

I don't have my driver's licence yet and I would have a panic attack most likely.

Do you life in the middle of nowhere then? When I go to a club or bar I usually go on bike.

Well no but I don't know any place thats a reasonable distance and my parents would interrogate when I get home.

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

You said very well. Sex is indeed what those involved make it to be.

On the issue of open-relationships, I contemplated them once but I don't think I am cut out for that. I am somewhat territorial and not really into romantically loving more than one person at the time. Open relationships take a certain frame of mind and a huge degree of security in oneself that I don't have. Confidence, I want to say.

I'm territorial in certain aspects, but I have the confidence to pull it off. It also is reassuring that if my wife wants to have a casual fling that she can be open about it and not go behind my back and do it, as that'd be more painful to me than her telling me she wants to sleep with another man up front and asking for my consent.

In other words, I appreciate upfront communication than back stabbing. Then again that's me and my perception of things after living through a lot of shit.

Oh, I understand. Keeping things honest is always a must in a relationship. More so in open relationships.