What Does Sex Mean to You?

[Calimera II]

So what if two humans one male and one female have both been drinking?

I'm not sure. I'm a virgin and I plan never getting drunk.

If it is violent, abusive, threatening, pushy somehow, it is abusive. Just like a drunk person beating another drunk person.

If it is not, though, there's no power dynamics. So it's just mindless action that both might or might not regret.

I honestly do not think most of us "plan" on getting drunk, it just happens and you learn from it.

[Firsthome]

So what if two humans one male and one female have both been drinking?

I'm not sure. I'm a virgin and I plan never getting drunk.

If it is violent, abusive, threatening, pushy somehow, it is abusive. Just like a drunk person beating another drunk person.

If it is not, though, there's no power dynamics. So it's just mindless action that both might or might not regret.

I agree

Oh. And scow creek is wrong about guys Being sluts

[Benuty]

Something that is nobodies damn business.

[Sun Wukong]

I'm not sure. I'm a virgin and I plan never getting drunk.

If it is violent, abusive, threatening, pushy somehow, it is abusive. Just like a drunk person beating another drunk person.

If it is not, though, there's no power dynamics. So it's just mindless action that both might or might not regret.

I agree

Oh. And scow creek is wrong about guys Being sluts

They're tramps. Huge difference.

[Degenerate Heart of HetRio]

Spoken like a feminist-indoctrinated 21 year old spewing the party line.

Let me let you in on a secret, oh ye of little sexual experience: when people engage in sex, they don't play "Mother May I? They don't ask a series of questions:
"May I touch your boob?
May I suck on your nipple?
May I touch your twat?
May I pull out my dick?"
May I rub against you?
May I insert this into your wide open legs?"

No, they simply progress from one act to another as they respond to each other's physicality. Consent is RARELY, IF EVER, "Verbal." That is a legal FANTASY created by feminists which slam-dunk convict young men who have done nothing wrong.

Do you think your non-intentional maybe but still misogyny-tainted MRA-like discourse scares my sense of ethics?

Of course you need to ask someone if they want sex before actually starting to engage in it. And generally, giving a time to listen or mention your and your partner's specifics, that might include a significant barrier, if it's your first time.

That people disrespect this is no excuse to not have this standard. You are not entitled to other people's bodies. How hard is to understand that?

[Soldati Senza Confini]

I'm territorial in certain aspects, but I have the confidence to pull it off. It also is reassuring that if my wife wants to have a casual fling that she can be open about it and not go behind my back and do it, as that'd be more painful to me than her telling me she wants to sleep with another man up front and asking for my consent.

In other words, I appreciate upfront communication than back stabbing. Then again that's me and my perception of things after living through a lot of shit.

Oh, I understand. Keeping things honest is always a must in a relationship. More so in open relationships.

Yea, and I mean, I won't feel bad as in "what does he have that I don't?" because all I expect from my partner under such an arrangement is that she thinks I'm the best fuck in the planet and that she loves me for who I am

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

Oh, I understand. Keeping things honest is always a must in a relationship. More so in open relationships.

Yea, and I mean, I won't feel bad as in "what does he have that I don't?" because all I expect from my partner under such an arrangement is that she thinks I'm the best fuck in the planet and that she loves me for who I am

That's what we need. The point of view from a polyamorous person.

[Soldati Senza Confini]

I agree

Oh. And scow creek is wrong about guys Being sluts

They're tramps. Huge difference.

We're tramps?

[Firsthome]

Spoken like a feminist-indoctrinated 21 year old spewing the party line.

Let me let you in on a secret, oh ye of little sexual experience: when people engage in sex, they don't play "Mother May I? They don't ask a series of questions:
"May I touch your boob?
May I suck on your nipple?
May I touch your twat?
May I pull out my dick?"
May I rub against you?
May I insert this into your wide open legs?"

No, they simply progress from one act to another as they respond to each other's physicality. Consent is RARELY, IF EVER, "Verbal." That is a legal FANTASY created by feminists which slam-dunk convict young men who have done nothing wrong.

Do you think your non-intentional maybe but still misogyny-tainted MRA-like discourse scares my sense of ethics?

Of course you need to ask someone if they want sex before actually starting to engage in it. And generally, giving a time to listen or mention your and your partner's specifics, that might include a significant barrier, if it's your first time.

That people disrespect this is no excuse to not have this standard. You are not entitled to other people's bodies. How hard is to understand that?

Shhhhh shhh....

Scow dusna know how people really work.

Hees nickname in school wus 85

[Degenerate Heart of HetRio]

I honestly do not think most of us "plan" on getting drunk, it just happens and you learn from it.

I had cheap wine headache without getting drunk so I will avoid alcohol altogether to the most part.

[Scow Creek]

Of course you need to ask someone if they want sex before actually starting to engage in it.

I'll bet sex with you is as exciting and spontaneous as sex with Dr. Sheldon Cooper.

[Calimera II]

I honestly do not think most of us "plan" on getting drunk, it just happens and you learn from it.

I had cheap wine headache without getting drunk so I will avoid alcohol altogether to the most part.

Sure it was because of the wine? And how many glasses did you drink?

[Sun Wukong]

No, it works the same both ways.

Consent for sex is voluntary, sober, enthusiastic, verbal, non-coerced, continual, active, honest and isn't taking in the place of an important power relationship (especially so when there's a significant, inherent cognitive difference: people shift from adolescent to adult brains at the 18-25 age bracket).

Lack of consent is sexual abuse.

Simples.

Spoken like a feminist-indoctrinated 21 year old spewing the party line.

Let me let you in on a secret, oh ye of little sexual experience: when people engage in sex, they don't play "Mother May I? They don't ask a series of questions:
"May I touch your boob?
May I suck on your nipple?
May I touch your twat?
May I pull out my dick?"
May I rub against you?
May I insert this into your wide open legs?"

No, they simply progress from one act to another as they respond to each other's physicality. Consent is RARELY, IF EVER, "Verbal." That is a legal FANTASY created by feminists which slam-dunk convict young men who have done nothing wrong.

Urg. You're doing it wrong.

Replace "may I" with "I'm going to" and encourage a positive response ("I'm going to suck your tits" is followed by "yeah, suck my tits," or somesuch.) Not only does it unambiguously clear up consent issues, it's fucking hot.

[The 502nd SS]

Of course you need to ask someone if they want sex before actually starting to engage in it.

I'll bet sex with you is as exciting and spontaneous as sex with Dr. Sheldon Cooper.

By that you mean it doesn't happen.

[Soldati Senza Confini]

Yea, and I mean, I won't feel bad as in "what does he have that I don't?" because all I expect from my partner under such an arrangement is that she thinks I'm the best fuck in the planet and that she loves me for who I am

That's what we need. The point of view from a polyamorous person.

I might be polyamorous, I dunno

I just think polygamy is great, but I'm not sure if I'm into polyamory.

[Degenerate Heart of HetRio]

Of course you need to ask someone if they want sex before actually starting to engage in it.

I'll bet sex with you is as exciting and spontaneous as sex with Dr. Sheldon Cooper.

Virgin/dull in bed >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>³ *abyss* >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>³ *hell* >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>³ toxic, barren alternative dimensions >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>³ rapists

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

Yet another thread that turns into a match between non-feminists and feminists. Should I start keeping score?

[Calimera II]

Spoken like a feminist-indoctrinated 21 year old spewing the party line.

Let me let you in on a secret, oh ye of little sexual experience: when people engage in sex, they don't play "Mother May I? They don't ask a series of questions:
"May I touch your boob?
May I suck on your nipple?
May I touch your twat?
May I pull out my dick?"
May I rub against you?
May I insert this into your wide open legs?"

No, they simply progress from one act to another as they respond to each other's physicality. Consent is RARELY, IF EVER, "Verbal." That is a legal FANTASY created by feminists which slam-dunk convict young men who have done nothing wrong.

Urg. You're doing it wrong.

Replace "may I" with "I'm going to" and encourage a positive response ("I'm going to suck your tits" is followed by "yeah, suck my tits," or somesuch.) Not only does it unambiguously clear up consent issues, it's fucking hot.

Uhm.. I think it's pretty dumb to ask permission for everything, if someone doesn't like what his partner is doing he/she will say it and that's it.

[Soldati Senza Confini]

Spoken like a feminist-indoctrinated 21 year old spewing the party line.

Let me let you in on a secret, oh ye of little sexual experience: when people engage in sex, they don't play "Mother May I? They don't ask a series of questions:
"May I touch your boob?
May I suck on your nipple?
May I touch your twat?
May I pull out my dick?"
May I rub against you?
May I insert this into your wide open legs?"

No, they simply progress from one act to another as they respond to each other's physicality. Consent is RARELY, IF EVER, "Verbal." That is a legal FANTASY created by feminists which slam-dunk convict young men who have done nothing wrong.

Urg. You're doing it wrong.

Replace "may I" with "I'm going to" and encourage a positive response ("I'm going to suck your tits" is followed by "yeah, suck my tits," or somesuch.) Not only does it unambiguously clear up consent issues, it's fucking hot.

I find instinctual response hotter.

If my partner is into it and we don't have to speak our minds out I find it much better than speaking. Then again it requires for both partners to look at each other as people and pay attention to one another.

[Degenerate Heart of HetRio]

Sure it was because of the wine? And how many glasses did you drink?

250ml diluted in water, with sugar.

My liver is very fragile from past antibiotics overuse.

[Novia Soviet Socialist Republic]

Yet another thread that turns into a match between non-feminists and feminists. Should I start keeping score?

Yes. We'll need a commentator too.

[Nanatsu no Tsuki]

That's what we need. The point of view from a polyamorous person.

I might be polyamorous, I dunno

I just think polygamy is great, but I'm not sure if I'm into polyamory.

Then you're ok with your partner having others but not yourself?

[Firsthome]

I'll bet sex with you is as exciting and spontaneous as sex with Dr. Sheldon Cooper.

Virgin/dull in bed >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>³ *abyss* >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>³ *hell* >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>³ toxic, barren alternative dimensions >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>³ rapists

You are smart

Scow is a whore

The end

[Bahlz]

sex is a gift from god to celebrate marriage and children and it shouldn't be abused.

[Sun Wukong]

Urg. You're doing it wrong.

Replace "may I" with "I'm going to" and encourage a positive response ("I'm going to suck your tits" is followed by "yeah, suck my tits," or somesuch.) Not only does it unambiguously clear up consent issues, it's fucking hot.

Uhm.. I think it's pretty dumb to ask permission for everything, if someone doesn't like what his partner is doing he/she will say it and that's it.

Well you don't ask permission for everything, but you do keep a running dialog. Silent sex is boring.