Your gender identity and sexual orientation?

[Senyosu]

Straight male?

Are you not sure?

Honestly I think not everyone is completely heterosexual. Heteromantic (love a specific gender and sex)? Maybe.

[Aahmerica]

Straight male?

Are you not sure?

Last time i called myself a straigt male i offended someone, and they went bat shit on me.

[Senyosu]

1. I hope your mom realizes one day that it's who you are, no matter who you are born as and that she'd love you regardless.

2. This is kinda late, but happy day of remembrance anyway. 3. Best wishes and don't let the demands of others hinder who you identify as and how you wish to present yourself to others.

1. I think she would eventually. Its just in the short term that worries me. I think I'd have less of a problem if I were in the binary. She'd at least understand that, methinks.

2. Kind of feels weird to say "happy" for a day that's most decidedly sad, isn't it? But there's not really any other way to say what you're wanting to say. English sucks sometimes.

3. Yeah. Its really only a problem for me because I live with my mom, and if shit hits the fan, I'm out on the street. I have a cousin who's cool with me being trans, and has offered to take me in, but she lives an entire state away. And not a tiny little state you can drive across in less than an hour. I live in TN, she lives in LA, and its 8 hours between our two houses.

I'm going through something similar right now. My mom acts very similar to yours.

I would think if I came out as a pansexual now, she would hate me. We have a horrible relationship at the moment, it'll only get hellish.
I'm out and bout about furries, and she hates them, so that would be reason B

Ouch.

I've also got a pretty horrible relationship with my mom right now, mainly because she doesn't respect my choice of a name, and she's trying to get me to choose a different one.

Why's she hate it, and what's she trying to force you to change it to, if I may ask?

I'll probably never come out about pansexuality, unless I distance myself from my parents.

They're incredibly conservative and I hear them spout disgusting bullshit all the time.

Just two days ago, I approached my mom about dying my hair white.

She vomited a bunch of sexist garbage and said people would think I was gay, like it was a bad thing.

What the fuck is it with so many people's mom's being fucking overly restrictive?

Personally, as far as natural colors go, I'd prefer to dye my hair red. Unnatural colors, I'd prefer some shade of blue, or green, or maybe purple.

I have a penis, so I am a male.

OP asked for your gender, not your sex.

I attempted to get a colored earring, but guess who buts in and says never because it's gay?

For what its worth, yall are making me feel better about my own mom. She's actually ok with me being pan (she still calls me "bi", even though I've told her there's a distinction between bi and pan).

They have no right to express it.


It really pisses me off. When people literally think you're their possession until you become an *adult*

That's what life was like under my mom's mother (except, to her, it also extends past adulthood, and transfers to the kids' kids). Thank God my mom never followed that bullshit.

Helicopter parents tend to be like that.

Helicopter? My mom's mother is more like a shoulder parrot. Always over your shoulder, squawking in your ear, etc.

For a serious-ish comfort post, the parrot-shoulder parent thing almost made me pee in my pants from laughing. The mental image is quite amusing.

[Jordsindia]

Are you not sure?

Last time i called myself a straigt male i offended someone, and they went bat shit on me.

Were you on Tumblr?

Don't go on Tumblr.

[Sebastianbourg]

Are you not sure?

Last time i called myself a straigt male i offended someone, and they went bat shit on me.

Quoting myself isn't a good idea but I'll do it anyway.

Terminology is nice lest you offend someone or get odd glances from psychologists.

We shouldn't care too much about offending people unless it will impact us negatively (more often than not economically; offending your boss for example).

[Ironbarrow]

Straight male?

Are you asking a question?

[Aahmerica]

Last time i called myself a straigt male i offended someone, and they went bat shit on me.

Were you on Tumblr?

Don't go on Tumblr.

No.... Wal-Mart.

[Senyosu]

Last time i called myself a straigt male i offended someone, and they went bat shit on me.

Were you on Tumblr?

Don't go on Tumblr.

FFS stop blaming tumblr. It's only one part of tumblr for the most part, less than a fifth of that website is specific to what you are thinking right now.

[Sebastianbourg]

Straight male?

Are you asking a question?

No, he doesn't want to offend anyone.

[Senyosu]

Were you on Tumblr?

Don't go on Tumblr.

No.... Wal-Mart.

it was one incident

ignore it

[Jordsindia]

Were you on Tumblr?

Don't go on Tumblr.

No.... Wal-Mart.

Lolwut?

[Jordsindia]

Were you on Tumblr?

Don't go on Tumblr.

FFS stop blaming tumblr. It's only one part of tumblr for the most part, less than a fifth of that website is specific to what you are thinking right now.

Well, it is that part of Tumblr that would typically go apeshit on someone for being a 'straight male'.

[Senyosu]

FFS stop blaming tumblr. It's only one part of tumblr for the most part, less than a fifth of that website is specific to what you are thinking right now.

Well, it is that part of Tumblr that would typically go apeshit on someone for being a 'straight male'.

So? Why do you care? Enjoy the other parts of tumblr. Like the artsy and photograph part of tumblr. Or food. Food is always good.

...

Just so we are clear, do you watch Doctor Who? [suspicious glance]

[Free States of Dixon]

1. I hope your mom realizes one day that it's who you are, no matter who you are born as and that she'd love you regardless.

2. This is kinda late, but happy day of remembrance anyway. 3. Best wishes and don't let the demands of others hinder who you identify as and how you wish to present yourself to others.

1. I think she would eventually. Its just in the short term that worries me. I think I'd have less of a problem if I were in the binary. She'd at least understand that, methinks.

2. Kind of feels weird to say "happy" for a day that's most decidedly sad, isn't it? But there's not really any other way to say what you're wanting to say. English sucks sometimes.

3. Yeah. Its really only a problem for me because I live with my mom, and if shit hits the fan, I'm out on the street. I have a cousin who's cool with me being trans, and has offered to take me in, but she lives an entire state away. And not a tiny little state you can drive across in less than an hour. I live in TN, she lives in LA, and its 8 hours between our two houses.

1. Of course she would. Binary is still the norm, the unwritten toxic rule. Wish there'd be no norms like that.

2. I know right? Whatever remembrance day it is, there's always some kind of sad tone. Remembrance for the fallen, holocaust memorial Good Friday to christians... all filled with the grief of those whom were affected and who care.

3. Well, at least you have some kind of plan B for the worst case scenario. I sincerely hope you can sort things out with your mom. Family disputes can hurt badly.

[Jordsindia]

Well, it is that part of Tumblr that would typically go apeshit on someone for being a 'straight male'.

So? Why do you care? Enjoy the other parts of tumblr. Like the artsy and photograph part of tumblr. Or food. Food is always good.

...

Just so we are clear, do you watch Doctor Who? [suspicious glance]

I don't care. I was concerned maybe he stumbled in that bad part of Tumblr and was attacked by those nuts.

No, not a single episode of Doctor Who has met with my eyes.

[Grenartia]

1. I think she would eventually. Its just in the short term that worries me. I think I'd have less of a problem if I were in the binary. She'd at least understand that, methinks.

2. Kind of feels weird to say "happy" for a day that's most decidedly sad, isn't it? But there's not really any other way to say what you're wanting to say. English sucks sometimes.

3. Yeah. Its really only a problem for me because I live with my mom, and if shit hits the fan, I'm out on the street. I have a cousin who's cool with me being trans, and has offered to take me in, but she lives an entire state away. And not a tiny little state you can drive across in less than an hour. I live in TN, she lives in LA, and its 8 hours between our two houses.







Ouch.



Why's she hate it, and what's she trying to force you to change it to, if I may ask?



What the fuck is it with so many people's mom's being fucking overly restrictive?

Personally, as far as natural colors go, I'd prefer to dye my hair red. Unnatural colors, I'd prefer some shade of blue, or green, or maybe purple.



OP asked for your gender, not your sex.



For what its worth, yall are making me feel better about my own mom. She's actually ok with me being pan (she still calls me "bi", even though I've told her there's a distinction between bi and pan).



That's what life was like under my mom's mother (except, to her, it also extends past adulthood, and transfers to the kids' kids). Thank God my mom never followed that bullshit.



Helicopter? My mom's mother is more like a shoulder parrot. Always over your shoulder, squawking in your ear, etc.

For a serious-ish comfort post, the parrot-shoulder parent thing almost made me pee in my pants from laughing. The mental image is quite amusing.

Fucked up thing is that its entirely accurate.

1. I think she would eventually. Its just in the short term that worries me. I think I'd have less of a problem if I were in the binary. She'd at least understand that, methinks.

2. Kind of feels weird to say "happy" for a day that's most decidedly sad, isn't it? But there's not really any other way to say what you're wanting to say. English sucks sometimes.

3. Yeah. Its really only a problem for me because I live with my mom, and if shit hits the fan, I'm out on the street. I have a cousin who's cool with me being trans, and has offered to take me in, but she lives an entire state away. And not a tiny little state you can drive across in less than an hour. I live in TN, she lives in LA, and its 8 hours between our two houses.

1. Of course she would. Binary is still the norm, the unwritten toxic rule. Wish there'd be no norms like that.

2. I know right? Whatever remembrance day it is, there's always some kind of sad tone. Remembrance for the fallen, holocaust memorial Good Friday to christians... all filled with the grief of those whom were affected and who care.

3. Well, at least you have some kind of plan B for the worst case scenario. I sincerely hope you can sort things out with your mom. Family disputes can hurt badly.

1. Same here.

2. Agreed for all but Good Friday, but that's a topic for another thread.

3. Well, its not really a plan B at all, since I have no way of getting down there.

[Souriya Al-Assad]

Male, heterosexual/straight.

[Transyl]

I am a Female who is attracted to anyone and everyone, as long as they are good people. In my opinion you could be the most attractive person in the world, but be the most ugliest person at the same time due to your horrid attitude and actions. I don't care about looks, i care about personality, kindness, and everything of that sort.

[Senyosu]

So? Why do you care? Enjoy the other parts of tumblr. Like the artsy and photograph part of tumblr. Or food. Food is always good.

...

Just so we are clear, do you watch Doctor Who? [suspicious glance]

I don't care. I was concerned maybe he stumbled in that bad part of Tumblr and was attacked by those nuts.

No, not a single episode of Doctor Who has met with my eyes.

He shouldn't care too much either?

Tumblr in general, do not overgeneralize it. Furthermore, there are more level headed SJWs there, except it's honestly going to take effort to find them and speak to them one on one. On a more on topic note, the main thing one should walk out of learning from the gender expression and sexuality rights movement--just don't judge people beforehand via the conventional norm (gender binary and other misconceptions), that's really all there is to it. Mutual dialogue starts when personal judgments are extinguished.

[Furry Alairia and Algeria]

For what its worth, yall are making me feel better about my own mom. She's actually ok with me being pan (she still calls me "bi", even though I've told her there's a distinction between bi and pan).

She's liberal, but her only problem is me.

[Ironbarrow]

Are you asking a question?

No, he doesn't want to offend anyone.

Where does he think he is, tumblr?

[Aahmerica]

No.... Wal-Mart.

it was one incident

ignore it

That was a few years ago, I'm over it. Kinda crazy how he or shes or whatever tried to mace me with pepper spray.

I ended up just getting away and leaving, i was afraid to hit the individual for fear of being charged a hate crime.
Extremists amiright?

[Grenartia]

I am a Female who is attracted to anyone and everyone, as long as they are good people. In my opinion you could be the most attractive person in the world, but be the most ugliest person at the same time due to your horrid attitude and actions. I don't care about looks, i care about personality, kindness, and everything of that sort.

We have a word for that, its called "Pansexual".

For what its worth, yall are making me feel better about my own mom. She's actually ok with me being pan (she still calls me "bi", even though I've told her there's a distinction between bi and pan).

She's liberal, but her only problem is me.

Why?

[Senyosu]

No, he doesn't want to offend anyone.

Where does he think he is, tumblr?

why do care about sjw section of tumblr

you should be more concerned on 4chan having the capability of invading nsg

not tumblr invading nsg

just why

what have they done to you

they're only bitching about stuff

besides there are some sjws (me) who are so damn lenient

so stop overgeneralizing

[Degenerate Heart of HetRio]

why do care about sjw section of tumblr

you should be more concerned on 4chan having the capability of invading nsg

not tumblr invading nsg

just why

what have they done to you

they're only bitching about stuff

besides there are some sjws (me) who are so damn lenient

so stop overgeneralizing

I'd love to flood NSG with SJ Brazilians.