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by Kelinfort » Fri Jun 13, 2014 8:17 am
by Murkwood » Fri Jun 13, 2014 8:21 am
Hurdegaryp wrote:Stagnant Axon Terminal wrote:Exactly, I have never seen a feminist dismiss an issue because "it only affects men!"
Because how about there are no issues that only affect men.
But, but... Murky and his ilk are the real victims here, people! If only women would know their place, all of this would not have been necessary! Do you think those guys like to send anonymous rape threats to independent women?
Degenerate Heart of HetRio wrote:Murkwood, I'm surprised you're not an anti-Semite and don't mind most LGBT rights because boy, aren't you a constellation of the worst opinions to have about everything? o_o
Benuty wrote:I suppose Ken Ham, and the league of Republican-Neocolonialist-Zionist Catholics will not be pleased.
Soldati senza confini wrote:Did I just try to rationalize Murkwood's logic? Please shoot me.
by Naretion » Fri Jun 13, 2014 8:59 am
The men's rights movement has been involved in a variety of areas related to law (including family law, parenting, reproduction and domestic violence), government services (including education, compulsory military service and social safety nets), and health that they believe discriminate against men.
by New Edom » Fri Jun 13, 2014 9:19 am
Naretion wrote:The men's rights movement has been involved in a variety of areas related to law (including family law, parenting, reproduction and domestic violence), government services (including education, compulsory military service and social safety nets), and health that they believe discriminate against men.
I definitely find good in this. I don't see why so many people think they're a hate group if they're pushing for things that make sense like this. In a draft- men have to serve, and women don't. For insurance of any kind, men have to pay more than women. In court after a divorce, women almost always win. And a woman can easily get away with abusing a man in a relationship.
If those are the kinds of the things they are pushing to be fixed. I don't see what everybody hates about them. Those are very valid concerns.
by Avenio » Fri Jun 13, 2014 9:40 am
Destiny Island wrote:At least they're not TERFs.
by Murkwood » Fri Jun 13, 2014 10:04 am
Degenerate Heart of HetRio wrote:Murkwood, I'm surprised you're not an anti-Semite and don't mind most LGBT rights because boy, aren't you a constellation of the worst opinions to have about everything? o_o
Benuty wrote:I suppose Ken Ham, and the league of Republican-Neocolonialist-Zionist Catholics will not be pleased.
Soldati senza confini wrote:Did I just try to rationalize Murkwood's logic? Please shoot me.
by Avenio » Fri Jun 13, 2014 10:31 am
by Murkwood » Fri Jun 13, 2014 10:33 am
Avenio wrote:
Probably not the best examples to use in your random aside to your own thread, since women have historically considered to be too weak, stupid and emotionally unstable to serve in the military (including combat roles) and to work industrial jobs. Women are discouraged from going for positions in either of those fields as a result of those lingering attitudes, and hence the gender disparity.
Degenerate Heart of HetRio wrote:Murkwood, I'm surprised you're not an anti-Semite and don't mind most LGBT rights because boy, aren't you a constellation of the worst opinions to have about everything? o_o
Benuty wrote:I suppose Ken Ham, and the league of Republican-Neocolonialist-Zionist Catholics will not be pleased.
Soldati senza confini wrote:Did I just try to rationalize Murkwood's logic? Please shoot me.
by Avenio » Fri Jun 13, 2014 10:42 am
Murkwood wrote:Avenio wrote:
Probably not the best examples to use in your random aside to your own thread, since women have historically considered to be too weak, stupid and emotionally unstable to serve in the military (including combat roles) and to work industrial jobs. Women are discouraged from going for positions in either of those fields as a result of those lingering attitudes, and hence the gender disparity.
What I'm trying to say is that men don't always have it 100% perfect. They have the most homicide deaths, for example.
by Rutuba » Fri Jun 13, 2014 11:40 am
by Aequalitia » Fri Jun 13, 2014 12:22 pm
Rutuba wrote:Male privilege exists, and so does female privilege. Since traditional gender roles are different for men and for women, it is obvious that in some fields one gender will have it easier than the other. Gender roles are not something intentionally created by men in order to oppress women (or vice versa), they are a product of gender co-operation in a particular culture throughout the ages.
by Tahar Joblis » Fri Jun 13, 2014 12:36 pm
Murkwood wrote:Hurdegaryp wrote:But, but... Murky and his ilk are the real victims here, people! If only women would know their place, all of this would not have been necessary! Do you think those guys like to send anonymous rape threats to independent women?
Rape threats are like death threats: horrific and sent by troubled individuals. Almost every MRA condemn them.
Kaylea wrote:MRAs are vile, vile, utterly vile, misogynists pretending to be normal people. Who make up claims to attract sympathy and spend 90% lying about feminists and trying to undermine women's issues. They should throw them all in a big fire so the world can be rid of their toxic, malcontent, spite-driven behaviour. =)
New England and The Maritimes wrote:Rape him.
Erin Pizzey wrote: Because of my opposition to the hijacking of the refuge movement, I was a target for abuse. Anywhere I spoke there was a contingent of screaming, heckling feminists waiting for me. Hounslow Council decided to proceed against me in court and I was packed to go to prison for most of the twelve years that I ran my refuge. Abusive telephone calls to my home, death threats and bomb scares, became a way of living for me and for my family. Finally, the bomb squad, asked me to have all my mail delivered to their head quarters. The final outrage occurred when I was asked to travel to Aberdeen University to stand as a candidate for the post of Rector for the University in 1981. I was hopeful that I could have an influence on the young students at the university. At the polling booths Scottish Women’s Aid made it their business to hand out leaflets claiming that I believed that women ‘invited violence,’ and ‘provoked male violence,’ this was the gist of their message.
...
Exhausted and disillusioned at the growing hostility towards men in the Courts and the lack of support for family life from the government, I went reluctantly into exile with my children and grandchildren. My plan was to go to Santa Fe, New Mexico to write novels. I thought then that I could reach the people who read my non-fiction in my novels. Very soon I was running another refuge nearby and working against sexual abusers and paedolphiles. I found to my cost that Santa Fe was sufficiently lawless to attract these dangerous people. When I returned to England for the publication of my book ‘PRONE TO VIOLENCE,’ I was met with a solid wall of feminist demonstrators. ‘ALL MEN ARE RAPISTS,’ ‘ALL MEN ARE BATTERERS,’ read the placards. The police insisted that I have an escort all round England for my book tour. By then I knew that my position in America could not be permanent. The women’ movement there was even stronger and their strangle hold over the refuges( called shelters) and access to government and state resources was almost absolute. Although I was invited to lecture, every time I did the gender feminists were waiting to invade my workshops and to heckle my speeches. The threats and the persecution began again. Finally, one of my dogs was shot on Christmas day on my property, and I knew the time had come to leave.
by Aequalitia » Fri Jun 13, 2014 12:44 pm
Tahar Joblis wrote: -snip-
The idea that the MRM presents a credible threat of anti-female violence rests on a foundation of things like trying to classify Elliot Rodgers (anti-PUA website member with no relationship to the MRM) as an MRA.
by Tahar Joblis » Fri Jun 13, 2014 12:47 pm
Avenio wrote:Destiny Island wrote:At least they're not TERFs.
As has been noted, the MR movement is not exactly that far removed from them. You don't see AVFM or some subreddit banding together to donate to the Trevor Project or advocate for the rights of trans men - the issues that the MR movement is beholden to is largely by straight men, for straight men.
Tahar Joblis wrote:Grenartia wrote:
I've already pointed out, by fighting for total gender equality. Most notably, a gender-neutral definition of rape.
But let me ask you this. How is MRM fighting for ciswomen? Transwomen? Transmen? Those of us outside the gender binary? People of every sexual orientation aside from heterosexuals?
In much the same way that some feminists fought "for" cismen, transwomen, transmen, et cetera: By attacking particular gender-specific privileges. There is an article titled "From woman to man to red pill" that you might look up. Is helping ciswomen a goal of the MRM? Not particularly. Do transmen and transwomen have many of the same issues men do? Yes; transmen in success at being treated as male, and transwomen in failure to be treated as female. (And those with non-binary identities will typically be treated as male some reasonable fraction of the time.)
It is because of the tight regulation of male sexuality that transwomen face more violence than transmen; because those who object to transwomen generally see them as deviant men. Those who object to transmen generally see them as deviant women... and therefore subject them to the level of violence they would ordinarily subject a deviant woman to, which is (on average) quite a bit less.
Is the MRM unified in its consideration of transsexuals? No. There may even be MRAs who are as hostile to transsexual identity as the infamous TERFs... who remain quite alive and well.
That's gender identity. Anyone who was, is, or will be a man has a concern with systematic sexist mistreatment of men. What about sexuality?
Does the MRM fight for gay and bisexual cismen? Yes, which is why they are disproportionately represented in the movement, as I pointed out earlier in this thread; and share several areas of activism, such as intactivism. The movement to treat male circumcision as a form of genital mutilation (much like something that was once commonly called female circumcision) and ban its application to minors too young to consent is an area where the MRM and the community of gay men share common interest.
San Francisco stood ready to ban male circumcision, with the rug being pulled out from under that ballot measure by the state government. This is not an issue that feminists get passionate about, as a general rule.
Are some of what's on the MRM's agenda helpful to people who are not, were not, and will not become men? About as much as is on the feminist movement's agenda to help people who are not, were not, and will not become women.
by New London2 » Fri Jun 13, 2014 12:52 pm
Tahar Joblis wrote:
The idea that the MRM presents a credible threat of anti-female violence rests on a foundation of things like trying to classify Elliot Rodgers (anti-PUA website member with no relationship to the MRM) as an MRA.
by Aequalitia » Fri Jun 13, 2014 12:54 pm
by New London2 » Fri Jun 13, 2014 12:57 pm
by Aequalitia » Fri Jun 13, 2014 1:01 pm
by Seriong » Fri Jun 13, 2014 1:23 pm
Drawkland wrote:I think it delegitimizes true cases of sexual assault, like real dangerous cases being dismissed, "Oh it's only sexual assault"
Like racism. If everything's "racist," then you can't tell what really is racist.
Murkwood wrote:As a trans MtF Bi Pansexual Transautistic CAMAB Demiplatonic Asensual Better-Abled Planetkin Singlet Afro-Centric Vegan Socialist Therian, I'm immune from criticism.
by Avenio » Fri Jun 13, 2014 2:20 pm
Tahar Joblis wrote:It's interesting how often this claim has come up in this thread, generally without any evidence in its favor. As I have now pointed out several times, the men's rights movement actually appears to have a disproportionately large number of bisexual male participants,
Tahar Joblis wrote:and that the most passionate intactivists are drawn from the MRM, the gay community, or both.
Tahar Joblis wrote:I have also pointed out that men's issues are also issues for both transwomen (when people incorrectly fail to treat them as women) and transmen (when people correctly do treat them as men).
by Tahar Joblis » Fri Jun 13, 2014 3:10 pm
Avenio wrote:Tahar Joblis wrote:It's interesting how often this claim has come up in this thread, generally without any evidence in its favor. As I have now pointed out several times, the men's rights movement actually appears to have a disproportionately large number of bisexual male participants,
I wouldn't call it disproportionately large, at least for an internet community, since internet demographics are so skewed anyway. The most recent NSG sexuality poll came back with 17% of 1169 respondants identifying as bisexual, (twice as much as the subreddit's) and 11% identifying as gay (also just over double the subreddit's demographics).
Either way, bisexuals (particularly males) are still capable of hitching their proverbial wagons to the MRM's hobby horses, since they can and do engage in opposite-sex relationships. That's not the same thing as branching out to deal with other issues affecting men, that's having an overlapping sphere of interest.
And if the issue of circumcision is the only common ground that you can come up with in which part of the gay community shares a common interest
Taking that at face value, you appear to be one of the few people to actually care about trans issues. In your survey's question about 'most important mens' rights issues', didn't even make the top 13 responses, and is presumably lumped (if it appeared at all) in the small 'Other' category. Gender minorities also make up a vanishingly small part of the MRM community, with only 1% of respondents choosing the only gender minority available - 'Other'. To compare, that's similar to the number of users of the subreddit that are over 60 years old. Not exactly an important component of the community.
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