Do gays get "easy" sex easier...than straights? If so...nice

[Especially Dirty Hippies]

Seven years?

Seven fucking years?

The idea is that you repress it enough to like guys too, rather than just develooping the perfectly straight side taste for pre-op/non-op transgirls and non-Western third genders (such as the Latin American travesti).

Christ, are there people who get Post Doctoral Fellowship Grants to Yale to study this classification system?

[Lordieth]

Isn't there this whole "straight-acting" gay thing? That's a thing, right?

I feel this may be verging on the stereotypical. To a certain social crowd, yes, but I'm sure there are many out and proud "normal" (for want of a better word) gay men.

I've met a few I didn't know were gay until long after I met them, and I was surprised. Either my gaydar doesn't work, or gay people can be as normal as anyone else.

People are sometimes surprised to find out I'm bisexual. It's not something I shout about, though. I think gay people can be pretty normal. I think too many people hear gay and think "gay extrovert".

[Condunum]

...Yea... Futa porn is not an okay thing.

Any porn is not an okay thing.

You say that now...

[Greed and Death]

Provided they have an area where gays tend to congregate, yes. Because the major risk of sex pregnancy is not applicable to them.

However I have read that lesbians have the most difficulty getting into sexual relationships, however this was in maxim so take with a grain of salt when they discuss lesbians.

On Maxim, I think you're caveat is caveegreat.

I'm just realizing what a dick I am as a human being for never having really thought of pregnancy as the major risk, not because I love children, but I'd rather have a bastard child than AIDS.

Your risk for HIV is significantly lower.
http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/statistics/basics/ataglance.html 1.1 million Americans have HIV. That is roughly 1/3 of a percentage point.
Now factor in a low transmission rate.
http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/policies/law/risk.html

The risk of HIV is far lower than pregnancy.

[Especially Dirty Hippies]

No can do.

You can't do that in a TG? Well that blows.. and not in any manner that makes the situation any better.

The rules are there for a reason. The insurance doesn't cover the damage from the Mistelemr Effect, so everybody just has to stay calm.

Stay. Calm.



CALM THE FUCK DOWN!!!!!!

[Condunum]

You can't do that in a TG? Well that blows.. and not in any manner that makes the situation any better.

The rules are there for a reason. The insurance doesn't cover the damage from the Mistelemr Effect, so everybody just has to stay calm.

Stay. Calm.



CALM THE FUCK DOWN!!!!!!

God dammit it's one of these threads again.

[Oneracon]

Doesn't change the fact that socially gay men are expected to be either slim and effeminate twinks or toned musclemen, and if you deviate from that...

Isn't there this whole "straight-acting" gay thing? That's a thing, right?

I feel this may be verging on the stereotypical. To a certain social crowd, yes, but I'm sure there are many out and proud "normal" (for want of a better word) gay men.

The only thing that makes a guy gay is that he wants to do sexy things with other guys... that's it. Unfortunately societal expectations (which as you stated are stereotypes) are that gay men have to be slim and effeminate or buff gym-users, always impeccably dressed, drink fancy drinks, and love to go shopping with their "girlfraaaaaaaaaaaands".

It's not correct, or acceptable, but that's the archetype that remains in the western societal mindset.

[Lemon Cheese]

Bah, getting laid isn't that hard.

[Especially Dirty Hippies]

Your risk for HIV is significantly lower.
http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/statistics/basics/ataglance.html 1.1 million Americans have HIV. That is roughly 1/3 of a percentage point.
Now factor in a low transmission rate.
http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/policies/law/risk.html

The risk of HIV is far lower than pregnancy.

In risk, I factor not just likelihood of occurrence, but a coefficient of the scalar of how bad the situation would be if it happened.

If I get a girl pregnant, that's 18% of my income and trying to relearn how to relate to another human being.

If I get AIDS, I might die.

[Luveria]

The idea is that you repress it enough to like guys too, rather than just develooping the perfectly straight side taste for pre-op/non-op transgirls and non-Western third genders (such as the Latin American travesti).

Christ, are there people who get Post Doctoral Fellowship Grants to Yale to study this classification system?

Probably.

Any porn is not an okay thing.

You say that now...

It's important to clarify, just so people aren't misled into thinking all porn but X is okay.

I've met a few I didn't know were gay until long after I met them, and I was surprised. Either my gaydar doesn't work, or gay people can be as normal as anyone else.

People are sometimes surprised to find out I'm bisexual. It's not something I shout about, though. I think gay people can be pretty normal. I think too many people hear gay and think "gay extrovert".

Whenever I encounter someone who is all like "omg look at me, I'm BISEXUAL! (or any other sexual orientation)", before anyone brought it up at all, I automatically assume one of two options;

1) They are making it very obvious they want to get laid.

2) They have never been laid.

[Tekania]

Hmmm, a guy braging about his sexual exploits to other guys. OF course it's all true.

[Yes Im Biop]

No, Auctually it's quite a bit harder

[Lordieth]

People are sometimes surprised to find out I'm bisexual. It's not something I shout about, though. I think gay people can be pretty normal. I think too many people hear gay and think "gay extrovert".

Whenever I encounter someone who is all like "omg look at me, I'm BISEXUAL! (or any other sexual orientation)", before anyone brought it up at all, I automatically assume one of two options;

1) They are making it very obvious they want to get laid.

2) They have never been laid.

I only ever see the need to mention it when it seems pertinent to the conversations. Sometimes it doesn't need to be said, really. When you like someone and they like you, the writing is kind of on the wall, so to speak. There's also the argument of it being "trendy", although I can't say I've ever quite understood that.

[Hetalian Indie Rio de Janeiro]

The idea is that you repress it enough to like guys too, rather than just develooping the perfectly straight side taste for pre-op/non-op transgirls and non-Western third genders (such as the Latin American travesti).

Christ, are there people who get Post Doctoral Fellowship Grants to Yale to study this classification system?

I'm mostly just guessing.

I know about trans* people because I went deep to discover this winter (summer for you) I'm one.

[Especially Dirty Hippies]

Hmmm, a guy braging about his sexual exploits to other guys. OF course it's all true.

This makes scary good sense to explain this thing.

[Luveria]

Hmmm, a guy braging about his sexual exploits to other guys. OF course it's all true.

I rarely ever encounter gay or bisexual people bragging about their sexual exploits. Usually they are quite tight-lipped about it and won't bring it up unless directly asked. But I've come across no shortage of heterosexual men and women bragging about their sexual exploits when no one asked.

Maybe it's because gay and bisexual males are so accustomed to everyone looking down upon it they say nothing, or they know how it looks constantly hearing about it from heterosexuals.

Whenever I encounter someone who is all like "omg look at me, I'm BISEXUAL! (or any other sexual orientation)", before anyone brought it up at all, I automatically assume one of two options;

1) They are making it very obvious they want to get laid.

2) They have never been laid.

I only ever see the need to mention it when it seems pertinent to the conversations. Sometimes it doesn't need to be said, really. When you like someone and they like you, the writing is kind of on the wall, so to speak. There's also the argument of it being "trendy", although I can't say I've ever quite understood that.

My main reasoning is, if they are very eager to have you know their sexual orientation without you ever bringing it up, doesn't it indicate they are looking for sex? Why else would someone need to know the sexual orientation of someone they just met?

[Especially Dirty Hippies]

Whenever I encounter someone who is all like "omg look at me, I'm BISEXUAL! (or any other sexual orientation)", before anyone brought it up at all, I automatically assume one of two options;

1) They are making it very obvious they want to get laid.

2) They have never been laid.

You know who's never been laid? The enemies of the Trans Hit Squad fans who voted Brony Porn.

Okay, so seriously...I'm hearing...no? Gay guys don't get laid more?

[Oneracon]

Okay, so seriously...I'm hearing...no? Gay guys don't get laid more?

Correct.

[Lordieth]

I only ever see the need to mention it when it seems pertinent to the conversations. Sometimes it doesn't need to be said, really. When you like someone and they like you, the writing is kind of on the wall, so to speak. There's also the argument of it being "trendy", although I can't say I've ever quite understood that.

My main reasoning is, if they are very eager to have you know their sexual orientation without you ever bringing it up, doesn't it indicate they are looking for sex? Why else would someone need to know the sexual orientation of someone they just met?

I see your reasoning. You could argue though that heterosexuality being more common, that a lot of people make the default assumption that you are heterosexual until they have any indication otherwise. Maybe sex is a strong part of it, but from an orientation point of view it's probably hard to casually meet someone and drop subtle hints.

[Tekania]

Hmmm, a guy braging about his sexual exploits to other guys. OF course it's all true.

I rarely ever encounter gay or bisexual people bragging about their sexual exploits. Usually they are quite tight-lipped about it and won't bring it up unless directly asked. But I've come across no shortage of heterosexual men and women bragging about their sexual exploits when no one asked.

Maybe it's because gay and bisexual males are so accustomed to everyone looking down upon it they say nothing, or they know how it looks constantly hearing about it from heterosexuals.

True, in a strange environment they are unlikely to bring it up or discuss it as much a straight person would due to perceived potential threat. But I imagine they would act just like their heterosexual counterparts in an environment where there is no perceived threat.

[Blasveck]

Well this is certainly an......original question.

Depends on your local "scene" I guess. I don't see any particular reason to think gay people have it any easier.

[Holy Ascension]

Well... if you were to go by demographics, then no.

However, purely speculatively, there might be an increased correlation of successful flirtation-coitus amongst gays as opposed to the more common flirtation-rejection amongst straights. Perhaps the lack of potential sexual partners has increased the chances of sexual encounters.

Or, maybe it's just easier to get in men's pants.

[Hetalian Indie Rio de Janeiro]

My main reasoning is, if they are very eager to have you know their sexual orientation without you ever bringing it up, doesn't it indicate they are looking for sex? Why else would someone need to know the sexual orientation of someone they just met?

I probably scared my childhood friends when I came out to them without a necessity at age 13, then?

[Oneracon]

I rarely ever encounter gay or bisexual people bragging about their sexual exploits. Usually they are quite tight-lipped about it and won't bring it up unless directly asked. But I've come across no shortage of heterosexual men and women bragging about their sexual exploits when no one asked.

Maybe it's because gay and bisexual males are so accustomed to everyone looking down upon it they say nothing, or they know how it looks constantly hearing about it from heterosexuals.

True, in a strange environment they are unlikely to bring it up or discuss it as much a straight person would due to perceived potential threat. But I imagine they would act just like their heterosexual counterparts in an environment where there is no perceived threat.

Or it could be that some people are more comfortable discussing their sexual exploits than others?

[Especially Dirty Hippies]

Okay, so seriously...I'm hearing...no? Gay guys don't get laid more?

Correct.

Okay, that's easy to remember.