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Postby Torisakia » Thu Aug 28, 2014 4:43 pm

Alto Mantovano wrote:Question:
You find the partner of your dreams both beautiful and with a nice charachter, but when you are about to hoodly-doodly, he/she has not the genitalia you thought.
what do you do?

I probably wouldn't take the Danny Bonaduce route. But since I'm not into that, it won't/can't happen to me.
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Postby Alaizia » Thu Aug 28, 2014 4:45 pm

Alto Mantovano wrote:Question:
You find the partner of your dreams both beautiful and with a nice charachter, but when you are about to hoodly-doodly, he/she has not the genitalia you thought.
what do you do?


Ehm....In your example, what gender was the partner supposed to be?
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Postby Rebellious Fishermen » Thu Aug 28, 2014 4:47 pm

Alto Mantovano wrote:Question:
You find the partner of your dreams both beautiful and with a nice charachter, but when you are about to hoodly-doodly, he/she has not the genitalia you thought.
what do you do?



They aren't the partner of my dreams then. Clearly they would just be a best friend if that was the case.

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Postby Antarticaria » Thu Aug 28, 2014 5:26 pm

Alto Mantovano wrote:Question:
You find the partner of your dreams both beautiful and with a nice charachter, but when you are about to hoodly-doodly, he/she has not the genitalia you thought.
what do you do?



As sayth my signature I am heterosexual. So then the she would be a he and I can say that would be the deal breaker. I would apologize stay as friends then call it good.
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Postby Grenartia » Thu Aug 28, 2014 5:58 pm

Antarticaria wrote:
Alto Mantovano wrote:Question:
You find the partner of your dreams both beautiful and with a nice charachter, but when you are about to hoodly-doodly, he/she has not the genitalia you thought.
what do you do?



As sayth my signature I am heterosexual. So then the she would be a he and I can say that would be the deal breaker. I would apologize stay as friends then call it good.



Unless, of course, if she identified as a she, she wouldn't be a he, and your heterosexuality would still be intact.
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Postby Meryuma » Thu Aug 28, 2014 6:09 pm

Alto Mantovano wrote:Question:
You find the partner of your dreams both beautiful and with a nice charachter, but when you are about to hoodly-doodly, he/she has not the genitalia you thought.
what do you do?


Eh, I've been with a trans guy before, it's not some big shock.
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Postby Occupied Deutschland » Thu Aug 28, 2014 6:12 pm

Grenartia wrote:
Antarticaria wrote:

As sayth my signature I am heterosexual. So then the she would be a he and I can say that would be the deal breaker. I would apologize stay as friends then call it good.



Unless, of course, if she identified as a she, she wouldn't be a he, and your heterosexuality would still be intact.

Unless, as is likely, his heterosexuality is dependent upon genitalia and not gender identity of the person he is sleeping with.
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Postby Lies and Ignorance » Thu Aug 28, 2014 6:12 pm

Meryuma wrote:
Alto Mantovano wrote:Question:
You find the partner of your dreams both beautiful and with a nice charachter, but when you are about to hoodly-doodly, he/she has not the genitalia you thought.
what do you do?


Eh, I've been with a trans guy before, it's not some big shock.

I'm going to go out on a limb here, and say that people who treat transness the same way they'd treat HIV aren't suited for serious relationships.
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Postby Grenartia » Thu Aug 28, 2014 6:15 pm

Occupied Deutschland wrote:
Grenartia wrote:

Unless, of course, if she identified as a she, she wouldn't be a he, and your heterosexuality would still be intact.

Unless, as is likely, his heterosexuality is dependent upon genitalia and not gender identity of the person he is sleeping with.


No, its not. The genitalia might not be a preference, and indeed, might be a turn off (which, while regrettable for her, is perfectly fine), but putting that aside, if for whatever reason, he slept with her, doing so would not make him any less straight.
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Postby Koopaville » Thu Aug 28, 2014 6:17 pm

Dating is a sin. Arranged marriages are better.

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Postby Grenartia » Thu Aug 28, 2014 6:18 pm

Koopaville wrote:Dating is a sin. Arranged marriages are better.


Can't tell if being sarcastic, or just a circle.
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Postby Occupied Deutschland » Thu Aug 28, 2014 6:18 pm

Grenartia wrote:
Occupied Deutschland wrote:Unless, as is likely, his heterosexuality is dependent upon genitalia and not gender identity of the person he is sleeping with.


No, its not. The genitalia might not be a preference, and indeed, might be a turn off (which, while regrettable for her, is perfectly fine), but putting that aside, if for whatever reason, he slept with her, doing so would not make him any less straight.

Generally the point of sex is not to put genitalia aside.
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Postby Grenartia » Thu Aug 28, 2014 6:20 pm

Occupied Deutschland wrote:
Grenartia wrote:
No, its not. The genitalia might not be a preference, and indeed, might be a turn off (which, while regrettable for her, is perfectly fine), but putting that aside, if for whatever reason, he slept with her, doing so would not make him any less straight.

Generally the point of sex is not to put genitalia aside.


Ah, but having sex with somebody of another gender, but the same dangly bits, does not make one any less straight.
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Postby Antarticaria » Thu Aug 28, 2014 6:22 pm

Grenartia wrote:
Occupied Deutschland wrote:Unless, as is likely, his heterosexuality is dependent upon genitalia and not gender identity of the person he is sleeping with.


No, its not. The genitalia might not be a preference, and indeed, might be a turn off (which, while regrettable for her, is perfectly fine), but putting that aside, if for whatever reason, he slept with her, doing so would not make him any less straight.



Fair enough. But it does not change my feelings on the hypothetical at hand.
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Postby Jumalariik » Thu Aug 28, 2014 6:23 pm

I'm too shy and uninterested to be dating, also, I'm only 15. Religion is also quite a "cock-block."
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Postby Occupied Deutschland » Thu Aug 28, 2014 6:24 pm

Grenartia wrote:
Occupied Deutschland wrote:Generally the point of sex is not to put genitalia aside.


Ah, but having sex with somebody of another gender, but the same dangly bits, does not make one any less straight.

By what definition?
Because I'd say whether one is homosexual or not is primarily dependent upon sex, though I can see why one might define it by gender.

In any case, I suppose this is getting further removed from dating isn't it? How about that dating folks?
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Postby Czechanada » Thu Aug 28, 2014 6:24 pm

For any NSGer who has gone through grad school, were there good prospects for dating?
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Postby Ethel mermania » Thu Aug 28, 2014 6:26 pm

Grenartia wrote:
Antarticaria wrote:

As sayth my signature I am heterosexual. So then the she would be a he and I can say that would be the deal breaker. I would apologize stay as friends then call it good.



Unless, of course, if she identified as a she, she wouldn't be a he, and your heterosexuality would still be intact.

i dont care how she identifies, if i grab and get a dick, i am going to have an issue with it.
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Postby Meryuma » Thu Aug 28, 2014 6:26 pm

Occupied Deutschland wrote:
Grenartia wrote:

Unless, of course, if she identified as a she, she wouldn't be a he, and your heterosexuality would still be intact.

Unless, as is likely, his heterosexuality is dependent upon genitalia and not gender identity of the person he is sleeping with.


So your orientation comes down entirely to what parts you have, regardless of any other factors? If someone had a female name, a female voice, a female voice and hairstyle and an hourglass figure and always wore dresses and skirts you'd have to be a gay guy to sleep with her just because she has a dong? Plenty of straight guys have sex with girls who have male-assigned anatomy who have no interest in males. It might not be a particular straight guy's thing but that doesn't make it gay any more than a gay dude liking Buck Angel makes him straight.
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Postby Torisakia » Thu Aug 28, 2014 7:07 pm

Jumalariik wrote:I'm too shy and uninterested to be dating, also, I'm only 15. Religion is also quite a "cock-block."

True, it does get annoying when chicks are all "THINK WITH THE HEART OF GOD" about sex. Like god dammit, take your pants off. It's what God wanted you to do.
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Postby Occupied Deutschland » Thu Aug 28, 2014 7:12 pm

Torisakia wrote:
Jumalariik wrote:I'm too shy and uninterested to be dating, also, I'm only 15. Religion is also quite a "cock-block."

True, it does get annoying when chicks are all "THINK WITH THE HEART OF GOD" about sex. Like god dammit, take your pants off. It's what God wanted you to do.

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Postby Rebellious Fishermen » Thu Aug 28, 2014 7:19 pm

Ethel mermania wrote:
Grenartia wrote:

Unless, of course, if she identified as a she, she wouldn't be a he, and your heterosexuality would still be intact.

i dont care how she identifies, if i grab and get a dick, i am going to have an issue with it.


Damn right. It honestly feels like they are trying to convince everyone to be bisexual.

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Postby Grenartia » Thu Aug 28, 2014 7:23 pm

Rebellious Fishermen wrote:
Ethel mermania wrote:i dont care how she identifies, if i grab and get a dick, i am going to have an issue with it.


Damn right. It honestly feels like they are trying to convince everyone to be bisexual.


Swing and a miss.
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Postby Rebellious Fishermen » Thu Aug 28, 2014 7:25 pm

Grenartia wrote:
Rebellious Fishermen wrote:
Damn right. It honestly feels like they are trying to convince everyone to be bisexual.


Swing and a miss.


Then quit with the harassment, lol. They have made it quite clear they aren't into dick no matter what gender the person claims.

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Postby Lies and Ignorance » Thu Aug 28, 2014 7:28 pm

Rebellious Fishermen wrote:
Ethel mermania wrote:i dont care how she identifies, if i grab and get a dick, i am going to have an issue with it.


Damn right. It honestly feels like they are trying to convince everyone to be bisexual.

Convenient how all of these hypothetical encounters with trans women y'all keep concocting involve sexual assault, objectification, and verbal abuse.

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