Souseiseki wrote:Sedgistan wrote:You're not the only one. Contrary to popular belief, we're not a hivemind, and there are a few people on the team (myself included) who dislike the "misgendering" ruling. I find it stupid that we allow people to argue that you're the gender of your birth - a widespread view - yet punish people when they use the pronouns appropriate to that belief. I think we've given an unnecessary protection to a vocal group of players, some of whom are too easily offended and need to grow a thicker skin. Anyhow, while I've tried to get this changed on a few occasions, I'm very much in a minority within the team; the majority think the rule is a good thing and should stay in place. I'm afraid you're unlikely to see any movement on this.
let's just say we too are constrained in regards to the exact extent we can voice our true opinions about you and how we would like to address you, though one does legitimately wonder what your reaction would be were we to choose a random player and (like say, you or ostro) and start exclusively referring to them as female despite any protestations. would they need to grow a thicker skin or is there a rough threshold of how angry it needs to make them before it becomes actionable? does our intent matter?
Ostro actually doesn't get offended by that, or he didn't last time someone tried it. He told them it was OK.