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Viennaria
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Need Somebody to Lean On?

Postby Viennaria » Wed May 12, 2021 5:32 am

Most general discussion threads are strictly anti-personal drama. This thread is just the opposite. Let's face it: 2020-21 has been a hard and stressful year, and many people have been broken mentally.

I am here to listen to your troubles/problems/drama. I can listen, I can respond, I can do my best to comfort. I know this is very awkward to most people, but I am here to help those who feel comfortable sharing.

Only share what you feel comfortable sharing. I will not judge you, nor will anyone else. I am only here to help. If you want to share your problems, but not to everyone, just TG me.
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Postby Viennaria » Wed May 12, 2021 5:35 am

As I said, I know this may feel awkward, but if you want to, just don't post at all or just TG Me.
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Postby The Reformed American Republic » Wed May 12, 2021 5:42 am

Viennaria wrote:As I said, I know this may feel awkward, but if you want to, just don't post at all or just TG Me.

I wouldn't post anything here, as the internet is not known to offer people sympathy.
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Postby North Sonovia » Wed May 12, 2021 5:43 am

The Reformed American Republic wrote:
Viennaria wrote:As I said, I know this may feel awkward, but if you want to, just don't post at all or just TG Me.

I wouldn't post anything here, as the internet is not known to offer people sympathy.

Imagine the internet started actually sympathizing for someone.
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Postby Palcania » Wed May 12, 2021 5:44 am

The Reformed American Republic wrote:
Viennaria wrote:As I said, I know this may feel awkward, but if you want to, just don't post at all or just TG Me.

I wouldn't post anything here, as the internet is not known to offer people sympathy.


You could tell your pain to people on 2B2T

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Postby Viennaria » Wed May 12, 2021 5:45 am

lol true though but they would probably just listen then kill you and take your stuff. But yes, the internet is famously unforgivingly rude and unsympathetic.
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Postby The Reformed American Republic » Wed May 12, 2021 5:57 am

Palcania wrote:
The Reformed American Republic wrote:I wouldn't post anything here, as the internet is not known to offer people sympathy.


You could tell your pain to people on 2B2T

I'm not in pain, but if I was, and went to them, they would probably act like /b/ and tell me to "kys" or something like that.
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Postby Serkin » Wed May 12, 2021 6:04 am

Don't mind me...

Although I don't like talking much about my problems or, if I do, it's just me snapping out in the moment, but I guess I could let a bit of it out over here... So, lately, it may sounds stupid, but I'm getting stressed and mad over small things happening to me. I get in a discussion with a friend? I end up being stressed because I feel like I was the one whi caused it. Someone tells me something negative just as a joke? I take it too seriously.

I also feel like crying most of the time.

I want to point out that I normally bottle up my feelings and never show others about it, simply not to worry others. Yes, it does hurt, but I have been doing this for a lot of time and not even venting through text or writing helps. I don't want to tell my parents because I know what they will blame and they will be wrong. And I simply can't tell them 'I want to talk with a psychologist.

I... guess I'm hurting myself by not telling anyone or letting anything out.
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Postby Grand Proudhonia » Wed May 12, 2021 6:10 am

Im very hungry right now, how do I solve such an issue?
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Postby Serkin » Wed May 12, 2021 6:11 am

Grand Proudhonia wrote:Im very hungry right now, how do I solve such an issue?


Eat. That's all.
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Led by Commander Manuel Carvajal, Serkin is a nation with an anti-neko policy, after the victory of the Reformist Faction in the Serkinian Civil war, against the Monarchists and Communists.

This is all I can tell you for now.

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Postby Viennaria » Wed May 12, 2021 6:12 am

Serkin wrote:Don't mind me...

Although I don't like talking much about my problems or, if I do, it's just me snapping out in the moment, but I guess I could let a bit of it out over here... So, lately, it may sounds stupid, but I'm getting stressed and mad over small things happening to me. I get in a discussion with a friend? I end up being stressed because I feel like I was the one whi caused it. Someone tells me something negative just as a joke? I take it too seriously.

I also feel like crying most of the time.

I want to point out that I normally bottle up my feelings and never show others about it, simply not to worry others. Yes, it does hurt, but I have been doing this for a lot of time and not even venting through text or writing helps. I don't want to tell my parents because I know what they will blame and they will be wrong. And I simply can't tell them 'I want to talk with a psychologist.

I... guess I'm hurting myself by not telling anyone or letting anything out.


Well, I have actually been facing a very similar problem recently. Yes, the worst thing to do is bottle them up, but it certainly isn't easy to let them out. I can definitely relate, though. I know that you will not take life advice from someone online, but I really do recommend finding a close friend and telling them a bit about it, even if not directly. If they truly are a good friend, they may adapt to help you, or at least listen to you. The thing that has comforted me the most is having somebody to listen to me talk about my problems, but not vent. It really helps to have someone trusted to simply talk to. Also if anyone tries to post anything derogatory on here, I can get them in trouble with the mods, so I'm sure there won't be much judgment. Also, awesome flag
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Postby Viennaria » Wed May 12, 2021 6:13 am

Grand Proudhonia wrote:Im very hungry right now, how do I solve such an issue?

I highly suggest taking some food to your mouth, chopping it into a fine sludge with your teeth and spit, let it fall down a pipe in your throat, be dissolved by your stomach, slide down more tubes, and come out the backside.
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Postby Grand Proudhonia » Wed May 12, 2021 6:15 am

Viennaria wrote:
Grand Proudhonia wrote:Im very hungry right now, how do I solve such an issue?

I highly suggest taking some food to your mouth, chopping it into a fine sludge with your teeth and spit, let it fall down a pipe in your throat, be dissolved by your stomach, slide down more tubes, and come out the backside.

Instruction unclear, I am now choking
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Postby Serkin » Wed May 12, 2021 6:28 am

Viennaria wrote:
Serkin wrote:Don't mind me...

Although I don't like talking much about my problems or, if I do, it's just me snapping out in the moment, but I guess I could let a bit of it out over here... So, lately, it may sounds stupid, but I'm getting stressed and mad over small things happening to me. I get in a discussion with a friend? I end up being stressed because I feel like I was the one whi caused it. Someone tells me something negative just as a joke? I take it too seriously.

I also feel like crying most of the time.

I want to point out that I normally bottle up my feelings and never show others about it, simply not to worry others. Yes, it does hurt, but I have been doing this for a lot of time and not even venting through text or writing helps. I don't want to tell my parents because I know what they will blame and they will be wrong. And I simply can't tell them 'I want to talk with a psychologist.

I... guess I'm hurting myself by not telling anyone or letting anything out.


Well, I have actually been facing a very similar problem recently. Yes, the worst thing to do is bottle them up, but it certainly isn't easy to let them out. I can definitely relate, though. I know that you will not take life advice from someone online, but I really do recommend finding a close friend and telling them a bit about it, even if not directly. If they truly are a good friend, they may adapt to help you, or at least listen to you. The thing that has comforted me the most is having somebody to listen to me talk about my problems, but not vent. It really helps to have someone trusted to simply talk to. Also if anyone tries to post anything derogatory on here, I can get them in trouble with the mods, so I'm sure there won't be much judgment. Also, awesome flag


I used to do that with a friend, but now that friend (who at the moment lives in Dubai, so we have a loooong distance now) seems to be really busy and I almost don't talk to her anymore...

Also, thanks, I was just experimenting with the flag designer.
The Reformist Military Republic of Serkin.

Led by Commander Manuel Carvajal, Serkin is a nation with an anti-neko policy, after the victory of the Reformist Faction in the Serkinian Civil war, against the Monarchists and Communists.

This is all I can tell you for now.


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