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by New haven america » Mon Dec 17, 2018 4:11 pm
by Neutraligon » Mon Dec 17, 2018 4:17 pm
one of my boyfriends I met through helping him in class. We grew apart eventually but are still friends.Western Vale Confederacy wrote:Neutraligon wrote:not really. Kinda hard to meet people like that.
The quirk with liking socially awkward shy guys is that they don't tend to really actively approach people unless they consider it necessary, but they are usually quite talkative once you befriend 'em (like me).
A matter of initiative, I suppose!
by Western Vale Confederacy » Mon Dec 17, 2018 4:18 pm
Neutraligon wrote:one of my boyfriends I met through helping him in class. We grew apart eventually but are still friends.Western Vale Confederacy wrote:
The quirk with liking socially awkward shy guys is that they don't tend to really actively approach people unless they consider it necessary, but they are usually quite talkative once you befriend 'em (like me).
A matter of initiative, I suppose!
by Neutraligon » Mon Dec 17, 2018 4:20 pm
well, I did introduce him to his current boyfriend... they have been going steady for about 3 years.
by Western Vale Confederacy » Mon Dec 17, 2018 4:21 pm
by New haven america » Mon Dec 17, 2018 4:25 pm
Western Vale Confederacy wrote:Scomagia wrote:I expect it isn't terribly uncommon for a woman to label a man a "faggot" for spurning her advances. People are often quite shitty when they get shot down.
I was often labelled as "gay" (I am bisexual, but certainly not homosexual) for merely being introverted and either not being particularly dominant when conversing with women, or not really conversing with women at all when I did not see a valid reason to talk to 'em.
Women have this bizarre tendency of labelling any men who isn't some overly dominant initiator "gay".
by Liriena » Mon Dec 17, 2018 4:30 pm
Neutraligon wrote:Liriena wrote:I can't really speak for women where you're from. I do know that there are many women who are attracted to proactive, confident men, at least at first glance, and these are traits that are prevalent, or at least appear prevalent at first, in aggressively dominant machos.
That's been changing a lot around my area lately, or at least I think it has, but it's definitely still tough for socially awkward men.
Not sure why, but I have a thing for socially awkward shy guys.
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by Liriena » Mon Dec 17, 2018 4:31 pm
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by Esternial » Mon Dec 17, 2018 4:32 pm
by New haven america » Mon Dec 17, 2018 4:36 pm
by Bombadil » Mon Dec 17, 2018 8:10 pm
Galloism wrote:The Black Forrest wrote:
*shrugs* I have refused a couple offers. Didn't know them that well blah blah blah.
I think the worst I saw was disappointment.......
You're lucky.
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