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by Evil Dictators Happyland » Wed Sep 26, 2018 4:27 am
by Soldati Senza Confini » Wed Sep 26, 2018 4:39 am
Evil Dictators Happyland wrote:The original point was that women were barely considered people for centuries of European society, and we kept the social traditions from that era even after they made no sense.
It's like the QWERTY keyboard: it was put in place so that typewriter keys wouldn't get stuck on each other, so why is it on everything now even though it slows down typing for no particular reason? Tradition, that's why.
Tekania wrote:Welcome to NSG, where informed opinions get to bump-heads with ignorant ideology under the pretense of an equal footing.
by Costa Fierro » Wed Sep 26, 2018 4:53 am
Evil Dictators Happyland wrote:The original point was that women were barely considered people for centuries of European society, and we kept the social traditions from that era even after they made no sense.
Soldati Senza Confini wrote:True, and I mean, tradition is not such a bad thing. Sometimes tradition makes sense.
In this case, tradition is being challenged around the world in regards of "who makes the first move", and that's not a bad thing, but it is not a good thing either as in "it's progress", it just is, and some folks are happier for it, but some others stick to it.
by Costa Fierro » Wed Sep 26, 2018 4:57 am
Soldati Senza Confini wrote:Just say it already: you think we're stupid fools for falling in love.
There, was that so hard?
The Holy Therns wrote:Must be a terrible answer, then.
Soldati Senza Confini wrote:No, you don't have respect for people who devote their lives to science and the betterment of humanity.
by Soldati Senza Confini » Wed Sep 26, 2018 4:57 am
Costa Fierro wrote:Evil Dictators Happyland wrote:The original point was that women were barely considered people for centuries of European society, and we kept the social traditions from that era even after they made no sense.
Not really. A limited example of dating largely did occur when royal dynasties and influential families were looking for a husband for their daughters or wives for their sons, in the sense that the daughter of a family would be formally "introduced" into the secluded upper echelons of society to find a suitor and marry him, if she wasn't given away like a prized cow to another royal family for political reasons. Modern dating concepts, in particular the idea of the "man romantically courting his love" are relatively recent in that they've really only existed since the 19th century. They're not rooted in some patriarchal traditions, but likely in the minds of some people who sold romance novels.Soldati Senza Confini wrote:True, and I mean, tradition is not such a bad thing. Sometimes tradition makes sense.
In this case, tradition is being challenged around the world in regards of "who makes the first move", and that's not a bad thing, but it is not a good thing either as in "it's progress", it just is, and some folks are happier for it, but some others stick to it.
I wouldn't say "around the world". That would imply all societies have the same concepts as Western societies do, and there is enough social introspection to be aware of the "roles" in which men and women play during courtship. That simply doesn't exist.
Tekania wrote:Welcome to NSG, where informed opinions get to bump-heads with ignorant ideology under the pretense of an equal footing.
by Scomagia » Wed Sep 26, 2018 10:52 am
by Costa Fierro » Wed Sep 26, 2018 6:01 pm
Scomagia wrote:That is such an impotent argument.
If you think you can't, maybe you need to find a way to post your point in a way that isn't deliberately inflammatory.
by Scomagia » Wed Sep 26, 2018 6:05 pm
Costa Fierro wrote:Scomagia wrote:That is such an impotent argument.
It's not an impotent argument if what I could say could get me banned. It's being on the good side of moderation.If you think you can't, maybe you need to find a way to post your point in a way that isn't deliberately inflammatory.
Then it's not really airing a controversial opinion isn't it?
by Costa Fierro » Wed Sep 26, 2018 6:13 pm
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by Costa Fierro » Thu Sep 27, 2018 4:55 am
Scomagia wrote:Never meet anyone by that logic, since everyone could fuck you over. Just stay in a cave and talk to a volleyball.
by Northeast American Federation » Thu Sep 27, 2018 9:13 am
Costa Fierro wrote:Scomagia wrote:Never meet anyone by that logic, since everyone could fuck you over. Just stay in a cave and talk to a volleyball.
It doesn't mean you can't go out and have a social life, no one says you can't hang out with friends or have a hobby that involves other people, but it means that your social life doesn't have to revolve around the need to find someone to date or to have sex with.
Oddly enough, not becoming neurotic about how you look and how people perceive you and just enjoying yourself seems to be a lot more fulfilling.
by Wild mike » Thu Sep 27, 2018 9:50 am
by Northeast American Federation » Thu Sep 27, 2018 9:53 am
Wild mike wrote:I love how some if the comments are post is how drink some alcohol and go for it. Or you gotta get to know the other person. Either way you have to go up to the other person to real to them and get to know them. And some people will take it as being hot on, so no matter what is like a lose cause. It's the risk of rejection people has to go through.
by LimaUniformNovemberAlpha » Thu Sep 27, 2018 12:05 pm
Northeast American Federation wrote:Wild mike wrote:I love how some if the comments are post is how drink some alcohol and go for it. Or you gotta get to know the other person. Either way you have to go up to the other person to real to them and get to know them. And some people will take it as being hot on, so no matter what is like a lose cause. It's the risk of rejection people has to go through.
The risk of rejection is one thing. What's different now is that a guy's sloppy attempts can end up getting lumped in as being sexual harassment, and then it's off to court for the crime of not having smooth enough lines. When that risk starts becoming a factor, guys are much more hesitant to do anything than they were when the only thing to worry about was rejection.
Trollzyn the Infinite wrote:1. The PRC is not a Communist State, as it has shown absolutely zero interest in achieving Communism.
2. The CCP is not a Communist Party, as it has shown absolutely zero interest in achieving Communism.
3. Xi Jinping and his cronies are not Communists, as they have shown absolutely zero interest in achieving Communism.
How do we know this? Because the first step toward Communism is Socialism, and none of the aforementioned are even remotely Socialist in any way, shape, or form.
by Northeast American Federation » Thu Sep 27, 2018 12:16 pm
LimaUniformNovemberAlpha wrote:Northeast American Federation wrote:The risk of rejection is one thing. What's different now is that a guy's sloppy attempts can end up getting lumped in as being sexual harassment, and then it's off to court for the crime of not having smooth enough lines. When that risk starts becoming a factor, guys are much more hesitant to do anything than they were when the only thing to worry about was rejection.
Yeah, even before I heard of how child support law worked it had a lot less to do with rejection and a lot more to do with being considered inappropriate to put her on the spot in a public place vs. people assuming the worst if we met in a private place.
by Costa Fierro » Thu Sep 27, 2018 5:49 pm
Northeast American Federation wrote:But this is [insert current year here], you can't imply that people can seek something other than sex in their interpersonal relations. That's just so old fashioned and puritan.
by Northeast American Federation » Thu Sep 27, 2018 5:51 pm
Costa Fierro wrote:Northeast American Federation wrote:But this is [insert current year here], you can't imply that people can seek something other than sex in their interpersonal relations. That's just so old fashioned and puritan.
Or even find solace in one's own company. I really can't understand that mindset. Sex is not the be all and end all of a social life, or even existence.
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