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Postby The Floridian Coast » Sat Mar 12, 2011 7:25 pm

From my research, and personal stories I've been told about experiences in "gay conversion" or "gay cures", groups which try to make gay people hetero, most seem to rely on classical conditioning, which is to say that they base their therapy upon punishing gay urges until the person is conditioned to no longer respond to gay feelings.

Some of these gay conversion groups essentially use a style that seems reminiscent of A Clockwork Orange.

So my question for debate is this: Assuming adults have the right to subject themselves to such abuse, do they have the right to subject their children to it? Should a parent have a right to send their child to a "gay cure" place, where active harm is inflicted as part of the "cure"?

In my opinion, no. Abuse by proxy is nonetheless abuse. I think any gay conversion group which has subjects under the age of 18 should be shut down, and that both the group and the parents would be complicit to child abuse. Your opinions?
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Postby Wamitoria » Sat Mar 12, 2011 7:26 pm

No. Adults can subject themselves to such treatments, but forcing their children to do so is abuse and nothing more.
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Postby Ashmoria » Sat Mar 12, 2011 7:26 pm

no

it should be illegal to send your kid to a scam treatment.
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Postby Buurdland » Sat Mar 12, 2011 7:27 pm

No. It should not be forced on anyone. If they chose to have it done, fine. Nobody should have to be Alex.
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Postby Buffett and Colbert » Sat Mar 12, 2011 7:27 pm

No. I read about one where there were no licensed doctors, psychiatrists, or anything on-campus. Just people who've gone through the camp itself.
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Postby Takaram » Sat Mar 12, 2011 7:30 pm

All of the ex-gay crap is complete and utter bullshit. They may be able to trick themselves into thinking that it works, but they're still gay. That people force this on their children is disgusting and horrid.

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Postby Sucrati » Sat Mar 12, 2011 7:30 pm

No, it's abuse, plain and simple...
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Postby Deus in Machina » Sat Mar 12, 2011 7:31 pm

Definitely not. I will throw a parade when there is no longer any market for these camps at all. But until then, it should be prohibited to subject children to such treatment.

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Postby Jesus And The Saints (Ancient) » Sat Mar 12, 2011 7:33 pm

Redemption is available for all of God's Children, and a parent would be a foul parent indeed if they allowed their child to sink into such depravity & rejection of God's Laws. Your opinion is of no consequence...their is God's Law & there is accepting The Serpent's Tongue as Truth. If my child were infected with such sin, I would do everything in my power to force it from them, if not just to save them, than to prevent it from spreading to other's.
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Postby Wamitoria » Sat Mar 12, 2011 7:33 pm

Jesus And The Saints wrote:Redemption is available for all of God's Children, and a parent would be a foul parent indeed if they allowed their child to sink into such depravity & rejection of God's Laws. Your opinion is of no consequence...their is God's Law & there is accepting The Serpent's Tongue as Truth. If my child were infected with such sin, I would do everything in my power to force it from them, if not just to save them, than to prevent it from spreading to other's.

I'm going to assume that you're a puppet and react accordingly.

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Postby Takaram » Sat Mar 12, 2011 7:34 pm

Jesus And The Saints wrote:Redemption is available for all of God's Children, and a parent would be a foul parent indeed if they allowed their child to sink into such depravity & rejection of God's Laws. Your opinion is of no consequence...their is God's Law & there is accepting The Serpent's Tongue as Truth. If my child were infected with such sin, I would do everything in my power to force it from them, if not just to save them, than to prevent it from spreading to other's.


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Postby Deus in Machina » Sat Mar 12, 2011 7:34 pm

Jesus And The Saints wrote:Redemption is available for all of God's Children, and a parent would be a foul parent indeed if they allowed their child to sink into such depravity & rejection of God's Laws. Your opinion is of no consequence...their is God's Law & there is accepting The Serpent's Tongue as Truth. If my child were infected with such sin, I would do everything in my power to force it from them, if not just to save them, than to prevent it from spreading to other's.

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Postby Isolated China » Sat Mar 12, 2011 7:35 pm

The Floridian Coast wrote:From my research, and personal stories I've been told about experiences in "gay conversion" or "gay cures", groups which try to make gay people hetero, most seem to rely on classical conditioning, which is to say that they base their therapy upon punishing gay urges until the person is conditioned to no longer respond to gay feelings.

Some of these gay conversion groups essentially use a style that seems reminiscent of A Clockwork Orange.

So my question for debate is this: Assuming adults have the right to subject themselves to such abuse, do they have the right to subject their children to it? Should a parent have a right to send their child to a "gay cure" place, where active harm is inflicted as part of the "cure"?

In my opinion, no. Abuse by proxy is nonetheless abuse. I think any gay conversion group which has subjects under the age of 18 should be shut down, and that both the group and the parents would be complicit to child abuse. Your opinions?

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Postby Neo Arcad » Sat Mar 12, 2011 7:35 pm

I will not be an active part of this debate until you give me a poll. :p
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Postby Takaram » Sat Mar 12, 2011 7:36 pm

Neo Arcad wrote:I will not be an active part of this debate until you give me a poll. :p


Do you enjoy seeing the overwhelming opinion of NSG in poll form more than text form?

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Postby Izandai » Sat Mar 12, 2011 7:36 pm

Takaram wrote:
Jesus And The Saints wrote:Redemption is available for all of God's Children, and a parent would be a foul parent indeed if they allowed their child to sink into such depravity & rejection of God's Laws. Your opinion is of no consequence...their is God's Law & there is accepting The Serpent's Tongue as Truth. If my child were infected with such sin, I would do everything in my power to force it from them, if not just to save them, than to prevent it from spreading to other's.


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Postby Neo Arcad » Sat Mar 12, 2011 7:36 pm

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Jesus And The Saints wrote:Redemption is available for all of God's Children, and a parent would be a foul parent indeed if they allowed their child to sink into such depravity & rejection of God's Laws. Your opinion is of no consequence...their is God's Law & there is accepting The Serpent's Tongue as Truth. If my child were infected with such sin, I would do everything in my power to force it from them, if not just to save them, than to prevent it from spreading to other's.

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It's called "free speech". If you don't agree it doesn't mean he's trolling. What if he really believes that?

That said, physical harm? REALLY?!?! WTF, man. W.T.F...
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Postby Neo Arcad » Sat Mar 12, 2011 7:37 pm

Takaram wrote:
Neo Arcad wrote:I will not be an active part of this debate until you give me a poll. :p


Do you enjoy seeing the overwhelming opinion of NSG in poll form more than text form?


I'm a poll troll. Give me a poll. :lol:
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Postby Meryuma » Sat Mar 12, 2011 7:37 pm

What do you mean by "child"? If someone is old enough to be gay, they're probably old enough to make decisions for themself. However, parents sending their kids to anti-gay "therapy" is bad, because of the immense psychological damage heaped on top of the coercion in involved in sending them somewhere against their will, which makes it worse then it would usually be-and it's usually pretty damn awful.
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Postby Takaram » Sat Mar 12, 2011 7:39 pm

Meryuma wrote:What do you mean by "child"? If someone is old enough to be gay, they're probably old enough to make decisions for themself. However, parents sending their kids to anti-gay "therapy" is bad, because of the immense psychological damage heaped on top of the coercion in involved in sending them somewhere against their will, which makes it worse then it would usually be-and it's usually pretty damn awful.


I think that, by child, he means a minor. A gay person under the age of 18 is still subject to the whims of his parents, and could be legally forced to go.

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Postby Consaria » Sat Mar 12, 2011 7:39 pm

Yes. These camps are despicable, but as long as they do not practice abuse then the parents have a right to send their kids there,
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Postby Genivar » Sat Mar 12, 2011 7:39 pm

Wamitoria wrote:
Jesus And The Saints wrote:Redemption is available for all of God's Children, and a parent would be a foul parent indeed if they allowed their child to sink into such depravity & rejection of God's Laws. Your opinion is of no consequence...their is God's Law & there is accepting The Serpent's Tongue as Truth. If my child were infected with such sin, I would do everything in my power to force it from them, if not just to save them, than to prevent it from spreading to other's.

I'm going to assume that you're a puppet and react accordingly.

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Postby Deus in Machina » Sat Mar 12, 2011 7:40 pm

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It's called "free speech". If you don't agree it doesn't mean he's trolling. What if he really believes that?

That said, physical harm? REALLY?!?! WTF, man. W.T.F...

I suppose it's possible that those are his or her actual beliefs, but it comes across as very trollish to me. They're writing comes across like really bad attempt at sounding like a medieval crusader. 'accepting the Serpent's Tongue'? Please. Nobody really talks like that.

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Postby Takaram » Sat Mar 12, 2011 7:41 pm

Consaria wrote:Yes. These camps are despicable, but as long as they do not practice abuse then the parents have a right to send their kids there,


On could argue that these camps are causing psychological abuse. Being told that you are evil for being yourself and are going to go to hell unless you lie can be quite traumatic.

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Postby Buffett and Colbert » Sat Mar 12, 2011 7:41 pm

Meryuma wrote:If someone is old enough to be gay,

There is no age at which you are "old enough to be gay." Nor does being gay mark having reached a specific milestone developmentally. Just as there is no age at which you are old enough to be straight, the notion is ridiculous.

In this regard, there is really only an age at which you are old enough to be horny, to put it bluntly. :meh:
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