by Arborlawn » Thu Feb 03, 2011 1:51 pm
by Fionnuala_Saoirse » Thu Feb 03, 2011 1:52 pm
by Cosmopoles » Thu Feb 03, 2011 1:52 pm
by UCUMAY » Thu Feb 03, 2011 1:52 pm
by Vetalia » Thu Feb 03, 2011 1:54 pm
by Arborlawn » Thu Feb 03, 2011 1:55 pm
Cosmopoles wrote:What possible justification is there for hitting your wife or husband?
by Arkinesia » Thu Feb 03, 2011 1:55 pm
UCUMAY wrote:I don't feel like hitting anyone is appropriate. Unless it's consensual.
Cosmopoles wrote:What possible justification is there for hitting your wife or husband?
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by Wolny Kraj » Thu Feb 03, 2011 1:57 pm
Arborlawn wrote:So, in 1950's America, a lot of husbands spanked their wives. Is this really Spousal Abuse? And, can we allow it? If we can't allow it, what should the penalties be? Fire away.
I personally, don't see anything wrong with it. Just as long as there are no bruises or broken bones or extreme brutality. I also don't see anything wrong with a wife slapping her husband in the face, once again, as long as there are bruises or broken bones or extreme brutality. As for penalties, there really shouldn't be any, unless of course there are any bruises or broken bones or extreme brutality.
So, tell me how wrong I am!
This is also about Spousal Abuse, just so ya know.
by Virabia » Thu Feb 03, 2011 1:58 pm
Arkinesia wrote:UCUMAY wrote:I don't feel like hitting anyone is appropriate. Unless it's consensual.
Meow.Cosmopoles wrote:What possible justification is there for hitting your wife or husband?
A valid question, and one I can't answer because I don't know of one. I can see spanking being used on kids (but not abused!) but that's something kids should grow out of…there shouldn't be a reason to spank your spouse unless you want to get nasty, and that's your thing.
by Ashmoria » Thu Feb 03, 2011 1:58 pm
Arborlawn wrote:So, in 1950's America, a lot of husbands spanked their wives. Is this really Spousal Abuse? And, can we allow it? If we can't allow it, what should the penalties be? Fire away.
I personally, don't see anything wrong with it. Just as long as there are no bruises or broken bones or extreme brutality. I also don't see anything wrong with a wife slapping her husband in the face, once again, as long as there are bruises or broken bones or extreme brutality. As for penalties, there really shouldn't be any, unless of course there are any bruises or broken bones or extreme brutality.
So, tell me how wrong I am!
This is also about Spousal Abuse, just so ya know.
by Of the Quendi » Thu Feb 03, 2011 1:58 pm
by Alien Space Bats » Thu Feb 03, 2011 1:59 pm
by Vetalia » Thu Feb 03, 2011 2:00 pm
Ashmoria wrote:at least they did in the movies.
by The Norwegian Blue » Thu Feb 03, 2011 2:00 pm
by The Soviet Technocracy » Thu Feb 03, 2011 2:00 pm
Wolny Kraj wrote:Arborlawn wrote:So, in 1950's America, a lot of husbands spanked their wives. Is this really Spousal Abuse? And, can we allow it? If we can't allow it, what should the penalties be? Fire away.
I personally, don't see anything wrong with it. Just as long as there are no bruises or broken bones or extreme brutality. I also don't see anything wrong with a wife slapping her husband in the face, once again, as long as there are bruises or broken bones or extreme brutality. As for penalties, there really shouldn't be any, unless of course there are any bruises or broken bones or extreme brutality.
So, tell me how wrong I am!
This is also about Spousal Abuse, just so ya know.
Spousal abuse makes me sick. I want to beat any guy who does it. (or if it's a rare case where the wife does it, then I'd have a female friend of mine beat her, since I personally wouldn't be able to do that)
Alien Space Bats wrote:Are we talking about spanking as a means of achieving sexual arousal, or as a means of enforcing authority within a marriage (or relationship)?
If the former (and consensual), spank, yank, and crank away. If the latter, it is absolutely abusive and should be punishable by law.
I mean, should we allow employers to spank or strike their employees as a means of motivating them? Of course not. A contractual bond, even one that acknowledges one contracting party as superior (which employment does, BTW, while marriage does not) still doesn't justify the use of force to maintain discipline.
by New Manvir » Thu Feb 03, 2011 2:01 pm
Cosmopoles wrote:What possible justification is there for hitting your wife or husband?
by Cosmopoles » Thu Feb 03, 2011 2:02 pm
Arborlawn wrote:What possible justification could there be to not hit your wife or husband? If you have the equal ability to do it with the equal regulations of the law, it is completely equal in nature.
by Arborlawn » Thu Feb 03, 2011 2:04 pm
Alien Space Bats wrote:Are we talking about spanking as a means of achieving sexual arousal, or as a means of enforcing authority within a marriage (or relationship)?
If the former (and consensual), spank, yank, and crank away. If the latter, it is absolutely abusive and should be punishable by law.
I mean, should we allow employers to spank or strike their employees as a means of motivating them? Of course not. A contractual bond, even one that acknowledges one contracting party as superior (which employment does, BTW, while marriage does not) still doesn't justify the use of force to maintain discipline.
by The Soviet Technocracy » Thu Feb 03, 2011 2:05 pm
Arborlawn wrote:Alien Space Bats wrote:Are we talking about spanking as a means of achieving sexual arousal, or as a means of enforcing authority within a marriage (or relationship)?
If the former (and consensual), spank, yank, and crank away. If the latter, it is absolutely abusive and should be punishable by law.
I mean, should we allow employers to spank or strike their employees as a means of motivating them? Of course not. A contractual bond, even one that acknowledges one contracting party as superior (which employment does, BTW, while marriage does not) still doesn't justify the use of force to maintain discipline.
So you are comparing marriage to employer - employee relationship? Interesting.
Honesty, I believe that SHE can hit HIM as long as HE can hit HER, and vice versa. If either brake the law about it, they go to jail if it is done a night, or they both get fined if done during the day. No bruises, no broken bones, no extreme brutality.
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