by Sanghyeok » Thu Dec 17, 2020 5:35 pm
どんな時も、赤旗の眩しさを覚えていた
Magical socialist paradise headed by an immortal, tea-loving and sometimes childish Chairwoman who happens to be the younger Ōmiya sister
by Romextly » Thu Dec 17, 2020 5:38 pm
by The 189 » Thu Dec 17, 2020 5:41 pm
Romextly wrote:Well, as a person who was regularly spanked and hit by the belt and shoe. It really hurts. And it makes you really mad at your parents. In fact, you might be really sad. But it showed me where I got wrong and my parents and I always made up. I know it's probably not very effective and some people got it worse, but I support that it shouldn't be pre meditated though it is possible that in blind anger parents may lash out
by Nekostan-e Gharbi » Thu Dec 17, 2020 5:48 pm
Sanghyeok wrote:Corporal・physical punishment of children is quite controversial. According to Global Initiative to End All Corporal Punishment, corporal punishment is "Corporal punishment is the most common form of violence against children worldwide. It includes any punishment in which physical force is used and intended to cause some degree of pain or discomfort, however light, as well as non-physical forms of punishment that are cruel and degrading." Those opposing corporal punishment note it is ineffective and has been condemned by the UN Committee on Rights of Child as a "violation on children's rights" due to being causing "physical, mental or sexual harm or suffering". Numerous studies also suggest corporal punishment leading to greater rates of aggression later on in life. Due to these findings, corporal punishment is currently illegal in over 60 countries. However, those defending corporal punishment claim it is necessary, so corporal punishment remains popular and legal in the rest of the world.
NSG, what's your opinion on corporal punishment? I strong oppose corporal punishment since it establishes unhealthy relationships between parent and child and also damages the child's development.
by Odreria » Thu Dec 17, 2020 5:59 pm
Valrifell wrote:
Disregard whatever this poster says
by Kergstan » Thu Dec 17, 2020 6:08 pm
by Sanghyeok » Thu Dec 17, 2020 6:13 pm
Senkaku wrote:I'm gonna need the 「Yes or No?」threads to stop
どんな時も、赤旗の眩しさを覚えていた
Magical socialist paradise headed by an immortal, tea-loving and sometimes childish Chairwoman who happens to be the younger Ōmiya sister
by Postauthoritarian America » Thu Dec 17, 2020 7:04 pm
by Ethel mermania » Thu Dec 17, 2020 7:17 pm
by Saiwania » Thu Dec 17, 2020 7:21 pm
by Freiheit Reich » Thu Dec 17, 2020 7:26 pm
by Romextly » Thu Dec 17, 2020 7:27 pm
Freiheit Reich wrote:Should be allowed in moderation and weapons should not be used unless absolutely necessary (the kid is attacking someone and a weapon is needed to stop him). Hitting should only be done if the kid hits first and in my case, being hit only made me resentful and didn't help me behave better because I was told that I should not hit unless I was hit first and I found it hypocritical that I was hit for simply arguing. I will admit that soap in my mouth (considered a kind of corporal punishment by some) actually helped me not use rude language. However, being hit made me more independent because it made me want to leave home and stay away from home more. It also weakened my relationship with my mother and stepfather which made me less homesick when I moved away.
by New haven america » Thu Dec 17, 2020 7:28 pm
by New haven america » Thu Dec 17, 2020 7:28 pm
by Nekostan-e Gharbi » Thu Dec 17, 2020 7:30 pm
Ethel mermania wrote:Not as a go too.
Once in a blue moon it can be effective, and there is an age 3ish or 4ish where a short quick whap in the ass is necessary and the only thing you can do to stop dangerous behavior.
That said if you need to beat your kid to get compliance there is something seriously wrong with your parenting.
by Postauthoritarian America » Thu Dec 17, 2020 7:33 pm
Extensive research demonstrates that although corporal punishment may have a high rate of immediate behavior modification, it is ineffective over time, and is associated with increased aggression and decreased moral internalization of appropriate behavior. Additional negative outcomes associated with corporal punishment are:
- Increased risk for physical abuse
- Learning that aggression is an acceptable method of problem solving
- Experiencing physical and emotional pain, which decreases learning capacity
- Being less likely to learn why a certain behavior or action was wrong
- Behaving out of fear in the future
by Ethel mermania » Thu Dec 17, 2020 7:33 pm
Nekostan-e Gharbi wrote:Ethel mermania wrote:Not as a go too.
Once in a blue moon it can be effective, and there is an age 3ish or 4ish where a short quick whap in the ass is necessary and the only thing you can do to stop dangerous behavior.
That said if you need to beat your kid to get compliance there is something seriously wrong with your parenting.
Here is how power works: it means one gets to be unreasonable and get away with it. Child abuse is tolerated precisely because children have low status.
by Nekostan-e Gharbi » Thu Dec 17, 2020 7:34 pm
Ethel mermania wrote:Nekostan-e Gharbi wrote:
Here is how power works: it means one gets to be unreasonable and get away with it. Child abuse is tolerated precisely because children have low status.
So if the choice is, let the kid run in the street, or hold on to him and whap in the the ass to get him to stop, your choice is let him run into the street? Cool.
by Postauthoritarian America » Thu Dec 17, 2020 7:36 pm
Ethel mermania wrote:Nekostan-e Gharbi wrote:
Here is how power works: it means one gets to be unreasonable and get away with it. Child abuse is tolerated precisely because children have low status.
So if the choice is, let the kid run in the street, or hold on to himand whap in the the assto get him to stop, your choice islet him run into the streethold on to him or her? Cool.
by Nekostan-e Gharbi » Thu Dec 17, 2020 7:38 pm
by Ethel mermania » Thu Dec 17, 2020 7:42 pm
by Nekostan-e Gharbi » Thu Dec 17, 2020 7:47 pm
Ethel mermania wrote:Postauthoritarian America wrote:
fify
The whole story is he was 4, i was holding his hand, he tried to break free, i said “no”. He tried again, i yelled “NO”. He tried a third time. I hit him hard enough to lift him off his feet. He stopped trying. Second time i hit him, he was 16, he raised his hand to his mother and stepped towards her, i grabbed him by the throat, threw him into a wall got right in his face and said “if you raise your hand to your mother again i will not put you against this wall but put you through it”. Only two times i hit him. Honestly he never gave me any other cause to want too.
by Necroghastia » Thu Dec 17, 2020 7:49 pm
by The 189 » Thu Dec 17, 2020 7:55 pm
Ethel mermania wrote:Postauthoritarian America wrote:
fify
The whole story is he was 4, i was holding his hand, he tried to break free, i said “no”. He tried again, i yelled “NO”. He tried a third time. I hit him hard enough to lift him off his feet. He stopped trying. Second time i hit him, he was 16, he raised his hand to his mother and stepped towards her, i grabbed him by the throat, threw him into a wall got right in his face and said “if you raise your hand to your mother again i will not put you against this wall but put you through it”. Only two times i hit him. Honestly he never gave me any other cause to want too.
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