For example, take my draft here, that is DEFINITELY NOT a secret ploy for people to add advice to it. Thanks to lots of help from Westinor and others, it’s been rewritten to be humorous, read well, and have options RELATED TO THE PLOT. We’ll help you with rewriting.
What I’m saying is that it needs a fourth option, that is middle ground to the extremes presented, and related to the issue.
Also, make the validity for your current option 3 to be “doesn’t have Child Self Rearing”