Western Vale Confederacy wrote:Byzconia wrote:Was away for a day and came back to see this thread blown up. Caught up on what I could, but couldn't read all of it. From what I saw, most of the arguments for why #MeToo sucks are apparently coming from self-professed "socially awkward" guys who struggle with talking to women. Color me surprised.
Sure, if you wanna be a bigot and bunch up the societal assholes (the self-declared "nice guys") with those who have genuine disadvantages when it comes to social interactions (and I don't just mean autism, I mean people with schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, multiple personality disorder, people with pronounced lisps and stutters, etc)...
This is another good example of how the feminist narrative and its movement don't give a single fuck about men, their experience, or their circumstance, and how the framework is only concerned with women's experiences (Which, as i've pointed out, necessarily results in misandrist sexism, the dehumanization of men, etc.) The diversity of men is entirely ignored because they simply do not give a single fuck, since it (In a very blunt and short-term sense) gets in the way of what women want to acknowledge that. The anger and fury at men being people with their own perspective and experiences rather than NPCs they can command to do whatever they want is at times palpable.
The feminist ideology also causes dysfunctional understanding of reality in the adherent because of its impulsive framing of things as womens issues, again, without due consideration given to mens circumstance.
In this case, the issue of courting, virgin shaming, and so on, and womens refusal to do their share of the courting-work and the impact this has on men and their wellbeing. Socially disabled, inept and awkward women can simply not participate and will have a far easier time of it then men who refuse to participate. The men getting catcalled and dealing with awkward and inappropriate social situations from women exist in far less numbers as a consequence.
But because feminists impulsively view any disparity as the fault of the mens mindsets and behaviors and disadvantaging women, they see a situation like women getting catcalled more and then up and decide its due to some plot by men to fuck them over. After all, its bad, and anything bad has to be sourced in men and their behavior.
Whereas the reality is that the feminist movement fucked up the sexual revolution as a result of their self-centered and gynocentric framework (believing that all they needed to do was fix womens experience of it and mens would work itself out) and left men stuck in a bind (A great example of how the trickle down equality shit feminists believe is a nonsense, and stems from the impulse to believe that womens wellbeing is the center of the universe and defines everything about it.) and now they're demonizing MGTOW and the MRM who could actually fix the issue and do what feminists failed to do.
This is all a natural consequence of feminists and their big fuck up on the topic. They looked at two abusive partners and up and decided one of them was being abusive, then escalated the level of abuse from one partner while minimizing it in the other. MRAs being "One-sided" is a consequence of feminism and its misframing of the issues and the dynamics behind sexism.