Right wing humour squad wrote:Galloism wrote:It's worth noting that it doesn't even really have to be malicious.
Your memory is like a telephone game - every time you recall an event you warp it. So if you have something that made you slightly uncomfortable, and you revisit it over and over and over again, it will gradually morph from uncomfortable, to creepy, to harassment, to assaulty, to rapey. The event itself literally can warp in your mind until you remember something, quite vividly and sincerely, that never even happened.
And this isn't a woman thing or a man thing, but a people thing that both men and women can experience.
Absolutely and memory is a bit worse than telephone games. With how programable it is.
Given the equality of sexual violence between the sexes the meto movement seems to be lacking a large amount of male victims and female predators. So it certainly seems a female on male thing.
Asia Argento, for example. She got exposed for her bullshit. I mean, rates of sexual assault are slightly higher among men-assaulting-women, though not really that much. It's because some in our society believe that female-on-male rape is "cool", or "wanted". That's the fault of both over-masculinity and the acceptance of stuff like that by women.