Excerpt from 'Social Bonds in Ancient Penithel'.
Only the most lost and forlorn person was truly alone in Penithel and to be alone was universally considered the ultimate calamity. People were fully expected to be a part of and fully participate in society, usually as a member of several different smaller communities within it all the way down to the family. In return, an individual can reasonably expect assistance from his community in times of personal misfortune. For help, people usually went to their family members first, usually because someone in the family would be the one closest to the person. This kind of help or advice in time of hardship was considered utterly informal and personal. It had no intrinsic meaning in terms of political or spiritual law. “A family has no secrets.” Whatever happens to one person happens to the entire household. Thus, it had must be brought to the attention of the household to be addressed. If it is not, the issue is considered to have been a secret and therefore dishonorable. The head couple of the household usually made some decision on the issues at hand and maybe the entire household agrees. Then the two probably sit around, discuss the issue between themselves a second and third time, and decide whether to go with their original ruling or not...