Ularn wrote:Saleon wrote:Name: Danya "Daggers" Astadt
Hoo boy, I'm gonna have to rename the ship MR-656 Sigmund Freud, aren't I? Accepted.Mirakai wrote:As trans myself, I can safely say that most of the other trans I've met don't mind the use of it. I know a few exceptions, but for the most part, at least on NS, we don't mind itVidessos wrote:I never really saw trap as a term meant to be insulting, though I do recall seeing one negative interpretation of the term somewhere. All I see it meaning is a term for androgynous/feminine male who can be mistaken for others as female (not getting into trans territory, since it would be an incorrect term to use in that regard).
Fair enough. I can appreciate that plenty of people do use it without an offensive intent but for me personally I think the use of the word itself stems from the same sort of mindsets and attitudes that lead to transphobia and violence against the trans community. Either way, I'm not going to to accept a character that seems primarily about Videssos' personal fetishes.
I suppose that's true about the origins, though it would be nice if such negative connotations could be entirely discarded, if for no other reason than to render the discriminatory mindsets and attitudes you mentioned, all the more impotent and powerless.
I don't just make characters to satiate my own desires and fetishes, you know.
My characters being very androgynous is more a bonus thing, rather than the prime cause of them.
I think the increasing androgyny of them over the years is due to a range of factors, be it taste, a "more pretty people in an RP is better" approach (without actually making a female character), or perhaps a desire to see how a character of outwardly ambigious gender interacts with others (and is treated by them), among other things.