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Cultural etiquette in your nation

Postby Astholm » Sun Aug 09, 2009 2:55 pm

(OOC: This is based on The Idiot's Guide to Cultural Etiquette. Your nation will be included in the Cultural Etiquette for NationStates, an unofficial PDF which I am making free for download.
Without trying to spam, it is completely free, and is a bit of fun I came up with one day when researching geographical stuff :) )

Basically this thread is about cultural etiquette and guidelines, one of the more interesting points of society, and I'm interested to see what your nation's stance is on such things as:
Food taboos
Gender gaps
Polite topics of conversation (e.g. no mention of age/sex/ etc. in Singapore, don't mention World War II to Swiss people, or compare Norway with America)
Off-limits topics to discuss
and also things such as
National leaders
National holidays
Languages spoken (e.g. in Italy they also speak French, German and Slovenian!)
Religion
Clothing worn in the business world
Business etiquette
Etiquette regarding religion - if any religions have particular etiquette (OOC: Comparable to real-world Muslim, Jewish, Mormon etc.)
Dining and food culture
Languages spoken (e.g. in Italy they also speak French, German and Slovenian!)

plus the following:
Global Guide - any interesting sorts of detail that help clarify the sometimes mystifying actions people encounter
Say What? - any foreign phrases in your language that are a need to know, that may avoid misinterpretations that can happen if you don't know the lingo of international cultural etiquette
Faux Pas - cautionary words on gaffes, taboos and blunders to avoid that could threaten your international savoir faire
Tip of the Hat - somewhat longer detail which is deeper background on your country's etiquette.

Note this may take 3 - 6 weeks to produce, but individual sections are available for download in PDF format when done.

The guide will be created, and downloadable from my off-site NationStates fansite, which is nearly finished now!
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Postby Rejistania » Sun Aug 09, 2009 7:44 pm

Food Taboos: Rejistanis had to deal with periods of scarcity so many things which foreigners would not touch are eaten. Or to formulate it positively: The 'tani is the best place to find out how rat tastes. In the more rural areas, there is an expectation not to eat alone for the same reason: if you have only little, the kente expect it to be shared according to the rules of it.
Gender gaps: The different gender roles in Rejistania are not that easy to understand. Matriachic traditions for example are a reason why most first lentines of Rejistania were female. Men are expected to be good workers in certain areas like agriculture, construction and hunting, while women are expected to be the intelligent ones, the negotiators and the pillars of the culture (As the proverb goes: "The men of the kente ensure its existance, the women its unity.") People in unconventional positions are still looked at critically.
Polite topics of conversation: The weather, sekhika (soccer) or other sport, music and culture, etc.
Off-limits topics to discuss: Pretty much everything which happens behind kente walls (arguments inside the kente, details about your marriage), the nation of Allanea (2 great blamages are no good conversation topics)
National leaders: Hank͜hila Sede was the first lentine mje'he of Rejistania. She is held in high respect even today.

Many people remember Syku Init as a kind of political strategos. She never was. She ran for naiken lentine tani for credits in her politics course. If someone in politics shows lots of chuzpah, s/he is often compared to Init.

The currently lentine mje'he is Jahane San.

National holidays: Independence day on the 17th of September. Other holidays are rekijonal or nantical.

Languages spoken: Rejistanian is understood by the majority but many rejistanis prefer to speak their local languages. The major language families are -vedan, -kaje, I sesi, Ehilic, Xentiran and Kajili. English is spoken by progressan immigrants, but the exposure to local languages made the language change to the point of no longer being understood easily. The English of these immigrants is called kireshi (or kirezzi) and considered a distinct language. As foreigner, no one expects you to understand the local languages or even Rejistanian. Showing at least a basic degree of knowledge will make people much more friendly though.

Religion: Inikresaism is by far the largest religion by the number of adherance and the visibility in the public sphere. Buddhists and Shintoists as well as Christians (also of the specific rejistanian blend called Da~eism) are religions of minorities.

Clothing worn in the business world: Mostly suits, though often in different colors. Beige is a popular color for suits, so is white.

Business Etiquette: Rejistanis often have a somewhat unclear way to formulate wishes and suggestions which makes foreigners think they are seriously unsure about the factual content of their speech. "We might be able to provide it at 600 lil'kansu per unit" is not a statement of insecurity, but
a definite offer. It is generally not siki to state offers and demands too clearly.

During telephone communication, Rejistanis often confirm that they heard you by "ve, ve!" which means "yes, yes!". This originated from the horrible quality of telephone lines. Lack of doing this will make the other person think that you were either disconnected or not paying attention.

Expect people to be friendly but reserved during business meetings. Rejistanis tend not to mix work and personal relations as much as other nationalities.

Rejistanis often make less eye contact than foreigners. If someone seems to avert his eyes, he is just polite. Staring, especially at a member of the opposite sex implies attraction.

Etiquette regarding religion: Rejistanis are completely unashamed to show inikresaistic symbols both in private life and in business. Rejistanis are generally tolerant towards the signs of other religions. With one exception: Hanta-inikresaism. The Karelocracy is all but forgotten in Rejistania.

Syncretism tends to change the religions somewhat towards each other.

If you enter an inikresaist temple, ring the tamaseh bell.

Don't interrupt praying people. Even the police waits until a criminal stopped praying before arresting him. Inikresaist prayer looks for people who know nothing about inikresaism often somewhat like a form of gymnastics since the inikresaists change between poses with different meanings.

Blaspheming is frowned upon even though it has no legal consequences.

Global Guide: Cities often look as if they were build under the impression that cars were a fad. They often were. The "etju" is a cheap alternative to the use of cars. Lines in the etju are normally identified by color, not by numbers.

If you are in an area where stores close in the afternoon on a Saturday, they except hooligans after a soccer match, avoid the area on Saturday afternoons.

Monks or nuns in yellow robes are Hanta-Inikresaist, Other inikresaist monks wear orange robes.

Food culture: It is highly diverse and has been adopting influences from all around the world. Generally the use of western (USAmerican) manners is seen as a sign of a higher social standing. In poorer areas, eating with your right hand is still common.

Rejistani cuisine has lots of fruits and vegetables which are unique to the country. Traditional preparation of warm meals is wrapped in banana leaves in an earth oven. This preparation is called jamyji.

Say What: There are two transliterations of rejistanian into the Latin alphabet: this guide uses Zannoo, for those who know rejistanian already, I will spoiler the JuJu transliteration:

Heyeeda. Hello

Il su? How are you?

Vá'il veká! See you! (literally: do well)

Vá'il dachái! See you too! (literally: do greatly)

Weh yes

Nil no

Hye'hádada'ta. I don't understand.

Hye'hádada'ta cheyávizko'het yileeh I don't understand this language.

Il'lanja'má weesko jusá su? Do you speak English?

Hye'má'ta weesko jusá. I don't speak English.

Yileeh mi'áchu zunchá? What is that?

Hye'má zeedekkich @@PLACE@@'cha zunchéya? How do I get to @@PLACE@@?

Azáheleh/hotélu/akémtareh/eztádijeh/iknél/mijeet/juneevechsiti temple/hotel/spring/stadium/center/market/university

(Lanja')eesa'il... (Maybe) go...

...liz right

...aih left

...aiyeek'het/chiwá'het/chitmoo'het street/fork/crossing

Etjoo jileeh mi'zidekkich @@PLACE@@ su? Does this etju go to @@PLACE@@?

Hejida

Il su?

Va'il veka!

Va'il dary!

Ve

Nil

Xe'hadada'ta

Xe'hadada'ta rejavisko jilih.

Il'lanja'ma visko jusa su?

Xe'ma'ta visko jusa.

Jilih mi'aru sunra?

Xe'ma sidekhir @@PLACE@@'ra sunreja?

asahele/hotelu/akemtare/estadije/iknel/mijit/juniversiti

(Lanja')isa'il...

...lis

...yh

yjik'het/riva'het/ritmu'het


Faux Pas: Pointing at someone is considered very rude in a number of areas, as is quickly lowering the open hand (it is an indication of being annoyed). Raising your voice when you are not understood is considered very bad, Rejistanis rather speak every syllable for itself and very clearly and indicate the stress by a move of one hand or by additionally saying these syllables in signing: (hye a choo (moves hand) ka ché (moves hand) la cha).

Don't speak badly about your family.
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Rejis sjiki, linux sjiki, alari sjiki, korona sjiki!
Forever united, forever free, forever in justice, forever prospering!


"Tekneluru mi'aru mi aji, il'sidekhir'ra mi, lajistas. Mi'ki'vasu kynha'het kijitax." Hank͜hila Sede, first lentine (translation: A dream is only a dream until it is reached. After that, it becomes something trivial)

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Postby Maraque » Mon Aug 10, 2009 1:55 pm

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Postby Kahanistan » Mon Aug 10, 2009 2:29 pm

Food taboos - Not really a taboo, but meat eating (especially large domesticated animals) is frowned on as domestication requires scarce land that is generally better used for feeding the growing population. In mixed social groups food that is likely to offend someone in a major religion (e.g. pork, beef) or cultural group (e.g. dog meat) shouldn't be served.
Gender gaps - A tendency still exists to view women as sexual objects. Legally women enjoy the same rights as men and equal pay for equal work is strictly enforced along gender, racial, disabled, religious, and orientational lines.
Polite topics of conversation - Politics, history, religion, philosophy.
Off-limits topics to discuss - Kahanistan's history of military defeats :), anything relating to excretory functions, marital (or other-type relationship) relations.

National leaders - Currently, Kahanistan is ruled by a military dictator who took power during the Kregaian invasion. He is still in power, but plans to hold elections in the near future - some say to legitimise his rule, others say to step down and hand power back to the civilian government.
National holidays - 7 October, Apocalypse Day (commemorates a Doomani nuclear bombardment)
Languages spoken - English, Hebrew, Arabic, Latin (official)
Religion - Atheism, Judaism, Christianity, Islam, Satanism, Paganism, other minorities <10% of the population.
Clothing worn in the business world - Generally same as Western business attire - men wear suits and ties, women wear blazers, blouses, and slacks or skirts. Transvestism is socially accepted and not associated with homosexuality, which is also accepted.
Business etiquette - Kahanistanians tend to be very direct when stating what they want or asking a question. Don't take offence at it at a meeting. They won't take offence if you're less direct, but if you're from a very high-context culture you might have difficulty being understood. This isn't because they're stupid, it's simply a cultural difference.
Etiquette regarding religion - if any religions have particular etiquette - Modern Kahanistan is generally religiously tolerant. However, since armed conflicts with the Doomani, an anti-Catholic political movement has taken root advocating the expulsion of all Catholics. If you're Catholic, try to avoid discussions with these people. They won't be violent, for the most part, but you won't change their minds and trying to do so only leads to a headache for you and the person you're talking to. Satanists do not engage in blood sacrifices of animals (or people!) and will lecture you endlessly if you bring it up. If you are of Scandivnan or Doomani appearance and you make such an implication you're likely to get a punch in the mouth.
Dining and food culture - Same as anywhere. Don't talk with your mouth full, don't chew with your mouth open, don't reach across the table until you've asked someone nearer three or four times to pass something and they haven't answered, don't make crude comments about what's on someone's plate.
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Postby City of Norfolk » Mon Aug 10, 2009 2:34 pm

Food taboos-
Although taboo's are the choice of the individual, most people in the F.R.C. pray to their deity for thanks and good fortune.

Gender gaps-
Men are usually the ones who do the hard labour, and only serve on the front line in battle. Women, take the lesser roles, however are all able to reach high places such as CEO's and Senators easily. Most of our doctors are women, and serve behind the lines in battle due to their high regard in our culture. Violence towards women is countered with a 100 year sentence in Federal Prison.

Polite topics of conversation -
Do not joke about the Holocaust, Do not make communistic remarks (not illegal, but they'll just tell you to bugger off), Any refernce of the German decedents to Hitler or the Nazi's will get you a good smack in the face.

Off-limits topics to discuss-
Profanity, sexual stories/encounters, and other minor vulgar topics.

National leaders-
Kyle Losee, Chancellor
Samuel M. Bradley, Prime Minister

National holidays-
Christmas - Dec. 7
Easter - First Sunday of April
American Independence Day - July 4th
Federal Independence Day - Jan. 20
Military Day - September 10
9/11 Memorial Day - September 11
Thanksgiving - November 11

Languages spoken
Mostly English, but there are area's that speak German and Gaelic

Religion-
The Majority of the nation practice Roman Catholicism, but there are a sizable populous that are Protestant, Jewish, Hindu etc.

Clothing worn in the business world-
The Typical formal business suit

Business etiquette-
Look the person straight in the eyes, shake his hands with a tight grip for at least 3 seconds, and talk clearly and with a smile (when greeting)

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Member of SCUTUM
Member of GDF
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Postby Bowendur » Mon Aug 10, 2009 2:47 pm

In my country it is rude to extend your hand so everyone bows.
also it is considerd disrespectful to your clan to show your skin so your body must be completly coverd only your family can see your skin. (any-ways its in a relly cold area)
certin religons are outlawed will not specify.
every one is expected to serve in the military you must have a special reason not to, or you will be killed for treason.
it is rude to go to a diffrent province with out a gift to the clan cheiften.
most importantly you are consederd weak if you cannot fight.
swords and staffs are considerd status symbols, elders have staffs, and veterans have swords.
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Postby Neo-Erusea » Mon Aug 10, 2009 3:50 pm

Food taboos

In the Glorious Republic of Neo-Erusea, sushi is considered unhealthy and most Eruseans prefer not to eat seafood raw. Caviar is also frowned upon.

Gender Gaps

In Neo-Erusea, there are very few noticeable gender gaps between men and women. Discrimination against Erusean people by Eruseans has never been held as much as a problem, unlike against homosexuality and atheists/agnostics. Generally however men are expected to take leadership roles however many women do rise up the ranks of business, military, and government hierarchy. The father of a family is generally considered to be the head of the family as well.

Polite topics of conversation

Many Eruseans are avid football (soccer) fans, and will generally show their regional and city team pride. It is also a seemingly national trait that Erusean people love long stories, and are more than eager to listen to you with undivided attention about past experiences.

Off-limits topics to discuss

There are generally few topics which are impolite for most Erusean locals, however topics surrounding the wars waged by Erusea's military government, especially the rebellion and subsequent invasion of the Dinsmer Province is generally considered offensive when the foreigners argue in the case of the enemy. Also, many Eruseans do not like to be reminded of the chemical attacks on Farbanti, carried out by Dinsmer rebels. The Biranian-Erusean War however is viewed as a great patriotic victory that many Eruseans will likely share their experience with you.

Also, by law people will not be eager to talk about the military government, or have negative opinions of the Glorious Republic.

National leaders
Premier Marshal of the Glorious Republic of Neo-Erusea David Mondol is the current ruler of Erusea, being head of the military he is the dictator of the entire nation.

National holidays

Languages spoken

Russian 94% (official)
Serbian 4%
Spanish 1.2%
English 0.6%
Italian 0.2%
Arabic, Esperanto, French, German, Pacitalian >0.1%

These figures represent first languages, Russian and English are the most widely spoken languages.

Religion

The people of Erusea are overwhelmingly Orthodox Christian, however there are a few numbers of Catholic Christians, non-denomination Christians, Sunni Muslims, Shi'ite Muslims, Jews, and a number of Atheists.

Clothing worn in the business world

For Men
Ties:
Ties are generally not necessary for business casual, but if you are in doubt, you can wear a tie. It never hurts to slightly overdress; by dressing nicely, you pay a compliment to your host. You can always wear the tie and discreetly walk by the room where the function is held; if no one else is wearing a tie, you can discreetly remove yours.
Shirts:
Long-sleeved shirts are considered dressier than short-sleeved and are appropriate even in summer. Choosing white or light blue solid, or conservative stripes is your safest bet. Polo shirts (tucked in, of course) are acceptable in more casual situations.
Socks:
Wear dark socks, mid-calf length so no skin is visible when you sit down.
Shoes:
Leather shoes should be worn. No sandals, athletic shoes or hiking boots.
Facial hair:
Just as with interviews, facial hair, if worn, should be well-groomed. Know your industry and how conservative it is; observe men in your industry if you are unsure what's appropriate or are considering changing your look.
Jewelry:
Wear a conservative watch. If you choose to wear other jewelry, be conservative. Removing earrings is safest. For conservative industries, don't wear earrings. Observe other men in your industry to see what is acceptable.

For Women
Pants / skirts:
Women can wear casual pants or skirts. Neither should be tight. Fabrics should be crisp; colors should generally be solid; navy, black, gray, brown and khaki are always safe bets. For the most business-like appearance, pants should be creased and tailored; neither extreme of tight or flowing. If you are pursuing a conservative industry and are in doubt, observe well-dressed women in your industry on the job, at career fairs, at information sessions, etc.
Skirt length and slits:
Your skirt should come at least to your knees while you are standing. While you are seated, your thighs should be covered. If your skirt comes to just below the knee, a slit to just above the knee might be acceptable. A very long skirt should not be slit to above the knee. Generally slits in the center back of a skirt — to facilitate walking a stair climbing — are acceptable. Slits to facilitate a view of your legs are not appropriate for business purposes. Slips should not be visible.
Shirt / sweaters:
In addition to tailored shirts or blouses, tailored knit sweaters and sweater sets are appropriate business casual choices for women. Cotton, silk, and blends are appropriate. Velvets and shimmery fabrics suitable for parties are not appropriate. Fit should not be tight. Cleavage is not appropriate to business and job search occasions.
Jewelry / accessories:
Wear a conservative watch. Jewelry and scarf styles come and go. Keep your choices simple and leaning toward conservative. Avoid extremes of style and color. If your industry is creative, you may have more flexibility than someone pursuing a conservative industry.
Cosmetics:
Keep makeup conservative and natural looking. A little is usually better than none for a polished look. Nails should be clean and well groomed. Avoid extremes of nail length and polish color, especially in conservative industries.
Shoes:
Should be leather or fabric / microfiber. Appropriate colors are black, navy and brown (to coordinate with your other attire and accessories); white and pastels are not appropriate. For the most conservative look, toes should be covered. Sandals which are neither extremely dressy or extremely casual might be appropriate. Thin straps and high heels are not appropriate. Chunky heels and platforms are not appropriate. Make certain you can walk comfortably in your shoes; hobbling around a job fair in shoes that are pinching your feet does not convey a professional image.
Hose:
Not essential for business casual, but are recommended if your skirt is knee length (rather than calf length) and in more formal environments such as hotels.
Purse / bag:
If you carry a purse, keep it small and simple, or carry a small briefcase or business-like tote bag in place of a purse. A structured bag tends to look more professional that something soft or floppy. Purse/bag color should coordinate with your shoes. A briefcase is certainly not necessary for most business casual events. Leather, microfiber and fine wovens are appropriate. Canvas and straw are not appropriate.

Business etiquette

Generally being polite and greeting people with a firm handshake is adequate for business meetings. Smiling is something usually kept between friends, and some Eruseans may be creeped out by 'polite' smiles.

Etiquette regarding religion

Atheism is generally frowned upon, while cults and other religions including Sikhism, the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Scientology, Buddhism, Hinduism, and Greek/Roman mythology, are illegal. All religions which do not worship the Hebrew God are illegal.

Dining and food culture

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Postby Fatatatutti » Mon Aug 10, 2009 3:54 pm

Food taboos

None. Fatatatutians will eat anything they can overpower.

Note on cannibalism: The joke is that it's only legal to eat invaders, royalty and vegetarians.

Gender gaps

There is no gender discrimination, but some occupations have a gender imbalance. For example, in the Army, there are more men in heavy infantry regiments and more women in light infantry regiments.

Polite topics of conversation

Almost anything. Fatatatutians will go to your country and tell you what's wrong with your government. Fatatatutians abroad are often perceived as rude.

Off-limits topics to discuss

Virtually nothing.

National leaders

Politicians are not seen as leaders but as public servants, who can easily be fired.

National holidays

There are four major holidays, corresponding to the four seasons (although Fatatatutti, being a tropical country, doesn't have seasons). Christmas runs through December, January and February. Luau Week is March, April and May. Second Christmas is June, July and August and Thanksgiving is September, October and November. There is often some overlap.

Languages spoken

English is the predominant language. The native Fatatatutian language is unfortunately being lost despite the efforts of several organizations to preserve it. And since we have refugees and immigrants from almost every nation in the world, almost every language is spoken to some extent in the immigrant communities.

Religion

There are several churches in Fatatatutti and dozens of adherents. In general, religion is seen as a little odd, but it is treated with respect.

Clothing worn in the business world

Conservative business wear generally consists of a coloured shirt (flowered shirts are usually reserved for more festive occasions), khaki shorts and sandals. No ties seem to exist in Fatatatutti. Women are more likely to wear T-shirts than buttoned shirts.

A note on shoes: Soldiers, construction workers, etc. wear boots. Most other people wear sandals or go barefoot. The joke is, "I gave my shoes to poor prople because they didn't have any shoes. Now I don't have any shoes."

Business etiquette

Business is often conducted over breakfast, lunch, supper or various other meals. When food is not involved, it is considered rude to talk business before 10 AM or after 4 PM (not that anybody wears a watch).

Dining and food culture

Whenever food is being served (which is almost always), it is customary to invite everybody nearby to eat. If you're walking past a sidewalk cafe, you're likely to be invited to join almost every table. It is barely permissible to refuse.

Faux Pas

One of the most serious faux pas you can make in Fatatatutti is to take the idea of private property too seriously. If somebody asks to borrow something that you're not using, it's considered rude to refuse. It would be unthinkable to eat while somebody else is hungry. If somebody asks you for spare change and you don't have any, it's good form to go around and collect spare change for him from other people.

In summary, Fatatatutians see themselves - and by extension, all humans - as one big family. They often squabble among themselves but they take care of each other too.

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Postby Monehp » Mon Aug 10, 2009 5:41 pm

National Profile - Culture of Monehp

Food taboos - Consumption of animal flesh is generally frowned upon as immoral and disgusting, though certain restaurants cater to those who desire such; predominantly foreigners.
Gender gaps - None on a collective national scale, though a certain minority of regions may be prone to favour certain beliefs.
Polite topics of conversation - Weather, standard pleasantries, current affairs, work, matters of science and progress.
Off-limits topics - Nothing is off-limits with the exception of conspiring to commit a crime in the eyes of the government.


National leaders - Telnor E. Cieln, Head of Parliament; N. Noedar, Grand Duke, Head of Humanitarian Affairs
Historical Figures - Fredrick Fredrickson, Founder of Monehp; Felix the Just, renown as being the Harbinger of Social Equality
National holidays - Founders Day, August 25; Flag Day, July 23; National Heritage Appreciation Month, February; Blue Thursday, Second Thursday of November (often includes the following Friday); Green Friday, First Friday of March; Red Monday, Third Monday of June; Yellow Week, First Week of January; June 5th, Official Gentlemen Day; White Holidays, any ten given days per year as mandated by the State to participate in personal, religious, or philosophical observances.

Language(s) -
Official: Monehpian
Common Unrecognized: English, French, Mandarin Chinese, Spanish, Japanese, German, 1337.
Religion(s) - Moneqieuism, Buddhism, Christianity, Hinduism, Islam, Judaism, Other. Though most citizens are not very religious.

Clothing of the Business World - Western styled suits, Eastern styled kimonos, the naturalized variants of these, and the traditional suit with styled scarf, wide brimmed hat, and/or cloak are considered, by large, acceptable.

Business etiquette - Negotiations for deals are often settled after consuming consumable goods, typically provided by the initiator. The larger the deal, the larger or more extravagant the the goods. Small time members of business may have a local tea, while their international countre-parts might invite those that they deal with to the highest ranked restaurants.

Deals should be straightforward, honest, and fair so as to avoid insulting the other party. It is expected that negotiations be somewhat short and the bargainer know beforehand what they are willing to accept.

Etiquette regarding religion - External displays of personal religion, such as garb or symbols, are accepted though most are reserved concerning such. Discussion and curiosity of religion is encouraged, and one can find followers of different religions occasionally visiting different places of worship as to their personal beliefs. Being overly judgmental or the act of discrediting of another faith is considered unkind.

Dining and Food Culture - Guests should eat first in most scenarios and most hosts will wait until such time to begin their meal. The order of consumption of a meal, quantity of food, quality of food, and cost have traditionally reflected a great deal concerning relations between guest and host, though this is not necessarily so in recent years. Having guests over to ones home for a meal is considered an honour or at least very kind and guests should bring a minor consumable good to compliment the meal, but never outshine the efforts of their host, just enough to show appreciation and respect; home made goods are typically considered more flattering.

It is considered polite to serve a guest in any setting, though not always necessary by cultural norms.


Global Guide - If a passer by nods, bows, or utters a greeting, and the receiver is perceived to have observed this, it is good manners to return such; failure to do so is often considered rude or at least not friendly. Foreigners are often excused from this.

The removal and throwing of a cloak, jacket, sometimes shirt, or any body garment at someone's feet is considered a challenge to a duel. Reasons for this vary between individual. To accept, the challenged will do likewise. To decline, the garment is either picked up and handed back for a polite decline, kicked aside if the individual is angered or insulted, or for a neutral response the challenged step over it; stepping deliberately on the garment is considered an insult. If accepted, the duel is taken to the nearest dueling arena were the affair is regulated from there. Tickets are sold to any who wish to observe; close friends and family of the duelers get in free. Other means of challenge include pointing at someone and verbally challenging them and spitting upon the ground on which the person stands.

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- It is common courtesy for nationals to explain native sayings to foreigners should they need explaining, so if you do not know, no worries! Just ask.

Faux Pas - Littering is a direct insult to a city and all who inhabit it; there is no greater of a heinous social crime, so avoid it at all costs. Killing people outright on the streets is generally frowned upon and may result in death.

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Postby Goias » Tue Aug 11, 2009 5:42 am

A rough guide to cultural etiquette in Goias

Food taboos: None that are important. Goians pretty much think that if it's edible, you can eat it. Fast food restaurants aren't as frowned on as in other countries as they are government-regulated to reduce the health risks, and "extreme" vegan/vegetarian activism is considered stupid, as there are many more important things to campaign about than food.
Gender gaps: No gender gaps, though some occupations may have gender imbalances (e.g., the National Police). There is no perception of "a man's/woman's job" because the job market doesn't care, and the homemaking tasks are fulfilled by both genders depending on who's available, a fluidity that prevents the idea of "men's/women's jobs" taking hold.
Polite topics of conversation: family, friends, weather, interesting titbits from work, music, movies, TV shows, videogames, almost anything goes really.
Off-limits topics to discuss: anything that might mark you as homophobic, misogynistic or prejudiced, non-disapproving discussion of extreme political ideologies of any kind, various sexual practices regarded as "disgusting".
National leaders: President Syaunas Jarik (head of state), Prime Minister Esím Sanjedan (head of government)
National holidays:
1 January: New Year's Day
5 January: Independence Day
15 February: Election Day (the day national elections are held)
17 February: the Democratization (commemorating Queen Rosana's coronation)
25 March: Greek Independence Day
1 May: Labour Day
28 May: Armenian Republic Day
7 September: Commemoration of the Royal Massacre (commemorating the public execution of Goias' royal family by Nezrakis)
3 October: German Unity Day
5 October: Portuguese Republic Day
1 December: Portuguese Independence Day
25 December: Christmas Day
Other minorities have their own local holidays. The Portuguese, Greek, Armenian and German independence days are also recognized by the state.
Languages spoken: English, Goian, Portuguese, Greek, Armenian, German, Giazeri, Limburgian, Tomesian, Zineran, Sineraul, Nhej, Yaskan and Erlàn. All Goians can speak English though, so don't worry about communication.
Religion: no official religion, and Goians don't tend to be very religious. Each ethnicity tends to preserve its local religion (Catholicism for English, Portuguese and Germans, Orthodox Christianity for Greeks and Armenians, Protestantism for Germans, various religions for the rest of minorities). Buddhism is also widespread, although there have been repeated arguments in Goias over whether it's actually a religion. There are small immigrant communities of Jews and Muslims, mostly in the country's capital and larger cities.
Clothing worn in the business world: Western clothes, either smart casual or business casual. Nothing excessively formal. T-shirts are generally worn by people more than regular shirts.
Business etiquette: Goians are contemptuous of complicated expressions and technobabble. People who work in business must be direct and simple in their language (e.g., it's "firing" not "downsizing", "making redundant" or that sort of thing). Condescension and talking down to your inferiors is a quick way to lose your career. Consult and negotiate with the labour union before doing anything drastic. Don't keep your employees out of the loop - that's just not cool.
Etiquette regarding religion - if any religions have particular etiquette: Don't insult people who wear religious attire while in public, especially the Muslims and Jews since they're the ones who choose to do so most often. This goes double if a Muslim or Jew attends public school - there's no law against religious attire in public schools. Don't claim that religion should be the basis of government. Don't read any religious scripture the way you want it and distort it to fit your political agenda. If you want to make jokes about the Bible, stick to the Old Testament; the New Testament isn't really a great source of humour.
Dining and food culture: Nothing much to add. Mostly pretty common sense rules that everyone else has.

Global Guide Goians are very open, tolerant and socially liberal people. They won't have a problem with a foreigner or tourist being a bit surprised at the degree to which this extends (this is a big source of self-depreciating jokes in the country), but they don't like being lectured about how they've "taken things too far" or anything of the sort. Don't criticise Goians over their openness or social liberalism.

However liberal they are, Goians generally frown upon prejudice. Don't take any action or say anything that will heavily suggest you don't believe that a certain person is inferior due to their gender/ethnicity. Probably the weirdest of all for tourists/foreigners is don't help people cross the street unless they ask you to - otherwise Goians will just think you assume they can't do it on their own.

Don't be over-sensitive. Goians don't like the politically correct types who claim that something is offensive, especially humour. In fact, a popular pastime is to gather friends and compete to see who can say the most offensive, over-the-top jokes he can about his own gender/ethnicity. Goians generally have a better talent for recognising whether a joke is malicious or not, and will only consider it offensive if they can detect ill will and someone from the ethnicity/gender that is the butt of the joke complains. Stereotypes are frowned on for "unoriginality" - jokes that subvert stereotypes (think of the insane man who tells someone else how to fix his car joke) are more popular.

Say What?: English is the official language of Goias. There is no obligation for foreigners to learn a few words/expressions in other languages, and it's even impractical considering how many regional languages the country has.

Faux Pas. These are the most commonly accepted ones nationally.
Cultural faux pas:
- Don't badmouth the Beatles. Goias' music scene is based equally on imports from Western countries and local bands which formed based on the influence of said imports. The large scale importation began in 1964, and the first foreign band to become highly popular in Goias were the Beatles. Criticising them or dismissing them in a condescending, hipster-ish tone is believed to be a sign that you don't have good taste in music. If you really have to, just say that "it's not really my thing" while acknowledging their huge cultural and musical impact.
- Don't badmouth The Rays. The Rays are a hugely popular alternative rock band that existed between 1989-2004, known for their rigorous DIY attitude, cheerful sound, catchy guitar melodies, humorous lyrics and psychedelic leanings. Essentially, they sound like a cross between the Beatles, the Stone Roses, My Bloody Valentine, Primal Scream, the Verve (the early, psychedelic period, not the Urban Hymns era), Van Halen and XTC (their studio-based, post-1983 psychedelic pop era), with additional influences from power pop (Big Star, Cheap Trick, Todd Rundgren), dream pop (Cocteau Twins, This Mortal Coil, Sigur Rós) and the Pixies. They are one of the most beloved bands in Goias and have been nicknamed "the Goian Beatles", much like Cheap Trick are named "the American Beatles" by the Japanese. Denigrate them at your peril.
- Don't admit you like Icelandic bands that aren't named Sigur Rós. The Rays summed up Goians' attitude with their humorous 2000 single "Iceland's Music Scene Totally Fucking Sucks". Icelandic bands are generally considered excessively imitative, unoriginal or lacking in quality by Goians, and female singers are even more hated. The only band which it's okay to like is the aforementioned Sigur Rós. Note: foreigners often conflate Goians' hatred for Icelandic music with racism. Goians have nothing against Icelanders. They just think their music really sucks.
- Don't claim that a band or a filmmaker or any person sold out without strong evidence. "Selling out" is applied very restrictively in Goias, only used to denote blatantly compromising personal integrity and principles for material rewards. Saying a band "sold out" because they moved from an indie label to a major label will only lead to people calling you a retard. Saying they "sold out" because they changed their style will only make people facepalm themselves. Giving your song to a commercial (with the exception of movie trailers) or promoting a corporate product (with the exception of musical gear or filmmaking tools) is considered selling out.
- Don't act as if there's a barrier between your band and the audience. Goians hate this sort of thing due to their focus on authenticity and integrity in music.
- Don't start an argument over whether Star Wars or Star Trek is better. Goians like both, and think that the argument is silly and basically boils down to "apples vs. oranges". Plus, they will remind you very quickly that without Star Wars, there would be no Star Trek films.

Fashion faux pas:
- Don't wear a beret if you're a guy. Berets were introduced and popularised in the country by Janet Thompson, the bassist/vocalist of the Rays, who wears one all the time while in public and while performing. Berets soon became, and still are, a popular fashion accessory for women. For this reason, Goians just think they count as "women's clothing", and will be puzzled by seeing a guy with one. If you really want to wear one, be prepared for a ton of questions and spending lots of time explaining that in your homeland it's different.
- Don't wear really formal clothes. Goians are dedicated to the cause of social equality and are very left-leaning in general. Formal clothes are regarded with suspicion, especially due to bitter memories of the extravagant clothing and conspicuous consumption of the Nezraki occupiers between 1898-1945. Exceptions will be made for foreign dignitaries to save time and trouble, but nothing else.
- Don't wear excessive jewellery. Goians think excessive jewellery is tacky and gaudy. In general, their "limit of acceptability" is as follows: earrings are ok if they're not too big and obvious, you can have a maximum of two-three necklaces (although people will wonder why one isn't enough), one bracelet per hand is okay, and one ring per hand is also okay. The same rules apply to fashion accessories in general: don't overdo it.
- Don't wear high heels. Goians find these ridiculous.

Other social faux pas:
- Don't engage in anything that can be considered conspicuous consumption.
- If you for any reason end up running late, call the person you're going to meet and inform him that you're probably going to be late and for what reason (e.g., you lost a subway train, that kind of thing). Not doing so is considered insensitive.

Tip of the Hat: Goians often tend to confuse their neighbours and tourists due to their highly democratic socialism-oriented society. This cultural acceptance and emphasis on equality and social justice has its roots in its period as a kingdom, when despite general prosperity the nobility had an increasingly predominant role in society and politics in the late 18th century. The kingdom quickly descended into social conflict between the working classes and the upper classes, which turned into a civil war between 1895-1898. In its aftermath, the country was occupied by the Nezrak Empire, which slowly excluded all Goians from the political process and replaced the old nobility as the upper class through expropriation and confiscation. After independence, the country adopted a program of creating a mixed economy and liberalising society to prevent the excesses of the Kingdom which weakened the country and allowed its occupation. Subsequent periods of rule by the conservatives turned out to be either disastrous (1959-1964) or simply unsuccessful (1976-1980, 2000-2006), cementing the importance of maintaining democratic socialism for Goians. A large part of Goian etiquette derives from this obsession with social equality and open-mindedness. The rest is just based on the popularity of certain things imported from the West, especially in the entertainment industry.

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Postby Meciene » Tue Aug 11, 2009 6:19 am

Food taboos:
A certain fruit from the Mecian forests are forbidden to be put on dinner tables. One man who does so has to eat the fruit. The fruit contains yak saliva and rotten orange pulp.
Gender gaps:
None
Polite topics of conversation: (SEE BELOW)
Off-limits topics to discuss
Every topic is available for discussion, except for the discussion of the Mecian Act 183-B. Anyone caught discussing it would be immediately thrown into jail.
National leaders:Junko Hirata (HOS, HOG)
National holidays:
1 January - New Year's Day
7 January - Meciene Day
5 February - Porskeh Day
8 March - President's birthday (changes each term)
20 April - End of 1830 War
1 May - Labour Day
14 May - Cremk Laan
25 June - Kingdom of Meciene day
12 August - ART Day
8 October - Ninda Day
25 December - Christmas Day
Languages spoken
Mecian, English, Mandarin, Japanese
Religion
75% Atheist
25% Others
Clothing worn in the business world
Anyone can wear whatever they like, except for important business activities.
Business etiquette
-Never hog the water fountain
-Don't complain alot
-In fact, don't complain at all
Etiquette regarding religion
Everyone must follow each other's custome very seriously.
Dining and food culture
-Slurping soup is a good thing
-Talking about poop while eating chocolate ice-cream is a bad thing
Global Guide
Meciene is just like any other country, except their music is *cough* horrible. Keep that in mind.
If you don't disturb other people, they usually won't disturb you.
Say What?
Meciene is a bilingual country, so every citizen is expected to know English (to some extent). If you do encounter a true Mecian native, he would also know some English. Here are a few phrases if you're just wanting to get Mecian.
Huen lapa (Where is)
Huen pula (Who is)
Huen nar (What is)
Huen pael (When is)
Huen aeo (How is)
Huen wai (Why is)
Faux Pas
If you EVER, curse the president...
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Mecians are very social people, but they might get very social and come into your house/hotel room withouut you noticing it.
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Food Taboos: Overall, Volzgrad is rather free regarding taboos with food. Vegetarianism and Veganism are viewed with either suspicion or outright prejudice depending on the person due to them being seen as diets for 'weaklings.' Cuisine involving more exotic animals (ie. Dogs, Camels, ect.) is also often looked down upon as barbaric and uncultured.

Gender Gaps: Gender gaps are prevalent in Volzgradian culture, though not to the extent that it can be seen as oppression. Women, as in most traditional families, are viewed as housewives and the nurturers of children while men are the bread winners and heads of the family. There are many notable differences of this norm, as all Volzgradian citizens must serve in the Volzgradian Imperial Militia. While they are a minority, there are women in combat and support roles in the Volzgradian Imperial Army, Navy, and Air Corps which are all volunteer based.


Polite Topics of Conversation: Work, weather, family, sports, recent activities, television, politics, people, religion, philosophy, and video games are the most common; though many other things can be discussed politely as well.


Off-limits Topics to Discuss: There are relatively few topics that can be considered 'off-limits' in Volzgrad, though the ones that do exist generally carry a very heavy fine, jail time, or possibly even summary execution. The most dangerous of topics to discuss are: conspiring to commit a crime, supporting Communism or Anarchist ideologies, discussing treason, or insulting the Emperor or other prominent Volzgradians.


National Leaders: Emperor Adrik Kavinkov II is the current ruler and head of the Imperial Army of the Empire of Volzgrad. Baron Yuri Pavelov acts as Kavinkov's premier adviser and head of government.


National Holidays: The most famous and widely celebrated holiday in the Empire of Volzgrad is Imperial Glory Day, which commemorates Volzgrad's overthrow of the former Communist regime and the re-establishment of the Empire. Military and civilian parades are held in every major city and all television and radio stations must, under Volzgradian law, broadcast the parades and celebrations. While Imperial Glory Day is the most prominent holiday, many others are practiced as well, most notably Christmas, Easter, Halloween, and Thanksgiving.


Languages Spoken: Volzgradian (Official), Polish, Russian, German, Slovakian, Czech, Ukrainian, and Lithuanian.


Religion:
- 97% Roman Catholic
- 1% Orthodox Christianity
- 1% Protestant Christianity
- 1% Other


Clothing Worn in the Business World:

Female: As in most First World Nations, the most popular dress style for business oriented, female Volzgradians is a formal blazer and blouse. Colors may of course vary, though the most common are black, beige, white, and burgundy. High-heeled shoes are generally looked down upon as 'inefficient' are usually only worn on very formal occasions. Everyday women oriented footwear has a low and wide heel for comfort and stability when walking. Ties are also commonly worn, often colored red or black. Due to all Volzgradians having to serve in the Imperial Militia at one point or another, some women prefer to wear uniforms in lieu of the previously mentioned styles.


Male: Due to Volzgrad's highly militaristic culture, most men involved in business are clad in the same uniforms they wear on duty. The most popular of these military styles is the standard summer dress uniform which is comprised of a pair of long pants, a formal long sleeved shirt, and a peaked cap. Colors are almost always khaki or a shade of dark green, though black is not unheard of. In winter, the traditional Volzgradian military greatcoat is worn. Ties are always worn and colours vary from dark green and black to vibrant red and yellow.


Business Etiquette Since all Volzgradians consider honor and pride as the most important of values, one must ensure that they have ample amounts of both when doing business in the Empire. A firm handshake and polite greeting are standard fare, though more exotic greetings like a kiss on the cheek or military salute are also considered acceptable. Looking directly at the person you are talking to is also required, though excessive staring is often considered rude. Volzgradians tend to look down upon those who cannot keep their composure or nerves intact, so one most strive to be calm. Compliments are also looked upon favorably, though excessive amounts of complimenting can give the wrong impression, particularly if only men are involved in the conversation. When finishing a meeting, another handshake or similar gesture is required.


Etiquette Regarding Religion: Since the Empire is overwhelmingly Roman Catholic, it is considered very rude if not heretical to not show proper respect to the faith. Religious garb and symbols are allowed to be worn regardless of the individuals chosen religion so long as it is not offensive to others. Excessive 'broadcasting' of your religion, be it through words or clothing, is considered rude and looked upon unfavorably by the general Volzgradian populace.


Dining and Food Culture: Volzgradian honor and politeness are very strict, and thus there are several rules that all citizens swear by regarding Dining. Guests must always be served first and it is considered dishonorable for a guest to not be the first to eat. The host must always strive to meet his guests needs and to treat them with utmost respect. However, the guest must reciprocate his or her goodwill upon the host, especially if the host decides to dine at the home of the guest on a later date.

The first course of a traditional Volzgradian meal is often composed of soups and freshly baked bread. This is meant to act as an appetizer for the later courses and it is generally very small in comparison to the other meals. Soups are most commonly either borscht or zurech which consist of root vegetables of various kinds mixed with chopped and sliced pork or beef.

The next course is the main one, and it often consists of rice, potatoes, root vegetables, and some form of meat (most commonly pork, beef, or veal). The meat is generally the largest and most well prepared part of the main course, and it is often painstakingly decorated or prepared in a strict fashion. Beef and pork are the most commonly consumed meats and they are generally served either in cut steaks or are added sliced to other dishes. Elk is also regularly eaten, most commonly on special occasions like birthdays or weddings, as it is the traditional meat of almost all Volzgradian dishes. Side dishes are almost always made up of rice or vegetables prepared through steaming or boiling. Potatoes are an incredibly common food and can be served in a myriad of ways depending on the hosts preferences.

Dessert is always served last after everyone has finished eating their main course. The most common desserts served in Volzgrad are ice cream or pie. Classic flavors like vanilla and chocolate are most common, but more fruit based delights like apple and peach are also very popular.


Global Guide: As a general rule, most Volzgradians are fairly conservative and they can come across as rather cold to other cultures. Direct insults from a Volzgradian are very rare, as such actions are considered very dishonorable. For this reason, swearing or yelling angrily at a Volzgradian can often result in open violence or a literal torrent of insults and abuse. Generally, if you don't trouble a Volzgradian they won't trouble you.

Tourists are often viewed favorably by the average Volzgradian, as they're paying to support the Empire. If you are greeted with a nod, handshake, or kind words, it is considered good etiquette to return the gesture. Failing to do so can result in getting the proverbial 'cold shoulder' from any other nearby Volzgradians. If participating in a formal meeting or event, it is required to wear your finest clothing and apparel. This is seen as a matter of honor, as it is insulting to attend an important event in anything short of your best.

While all religions except for a particular handful are welcome in Volzgrad, it is considered in very poor taste to insult the Roman Catholic majority. This can result in everything from harsh words to open assault from any nearby Volzgradians. It is also considered rude to openly preach a religion other then Catholicism.


Say What? As a modern and highly developed nation, all citizens of the Empire of Volzgrad are required to know at least one other language other then Volzgradian. This is most commonly one of the official ones listed above, though English is also widely known. A few of the more common Volzgradian phrases are listed below.

Czo to jest? (What is this?)
Kto to jest? (Who is this?)
Je to jest? (Where is this?)
Jak ya prowacze tam? (How do I drive there?)
Stesz jyescze? (Do you want to eat?)
Jak sze masze? (How are you?)
Jien dobre (Good Morning/Day)
Spaceeba (Thank you)
Tak, czen kuye (Yes, thank you)



Faux Pas
- Vibrant colors, particularly pink, purple, or yellow; are frowned upon by general Volzgradians. Such bright colors are seen as inefficient and and the wearer a homosexual.
- Wearing or displaying a hammer and sickle or any symbol related to Socialism will almost certainly result in the wearer being assaulted by citizens or hauled off to jail by the Royal Commissariat.
- Public displays of affection with a member of the same sex will result in the perpetrators either being jailed or summarily shot by any nearby militiamen or commissar.
- The wearing of sunglasses indoors or in overcast weather is seen as stupid and needlessly attention grabbing.
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Food taboos: TBA
Gender gaps: TBA
Polite topics of conversation: TBA
Off-limits topics to discuss: TBA
National leaders: Swilatia is a semi-presidential republic, and has two national leaders, a president and a prime minister. Currently, the President of Swilatia is Andrzej Janeski. The Prime Minister of Swilatia is Jarosław Siwarka.
National holidays: TBA
Languages spoken: The national languages of Swilatia are English and Polish.
Religion: Swilatia is not a very religious country, the vast majority (some 85% percent) of Swilatians are Atheist or Agnostic. The largest religion in Swilatia is Christianity, but only 4% of the population follows it.
Clothing worn in the business world: TBA
Business etiquette: TBA
Etiquette regarding religion: As Swilatia is an atheistic country, this one does not really apply.
Dining and food culture: TBA
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Food Taboos: As a result of their wildly diverse and extremely tragic national origins, Nomosians have no taboos against any kind of food -- though cannibalism is quite frowned upon in most circles. Sharing food is a national obsession. Gifts of fruit or a tasty Ostrich empañda are very common. Although it is very rare to see a Nomosian eating alone, a person in such a sad state is more likely to get a glance of pity rather than one of scorn .

Gender Gaps: Gender roles in Nomosia are extremely flexible and varied. The mixing up of gender roles and gender identities has reached such epic proportions in this gentle nation that male and female pronouns are quickly disappearing from the indigenous languages. Even in English, which is the lingua franca, "they" is beginning to replace "he" or "she" in common usage, while "his" and "her" are being edged out by the singular use of a gender-free "their". Although everyday adult nudity or partial nudity is increasingly popular and common, it is certainly not mandatory. Every type of dress and fashion can be observed during a day's walk around Nomosia's lush tropical villages, towns and countryside. Nobody bats an eye at transgendered cross-dressing. The categories of hetero-, homo- and bi-sexuality are also virtually unknown. Children are pretty much free to stay with whatever family unit they feel most comfortable with, and families tend to be described according to householder patterns rather than according to marriage patterns.

Polite Topics of Conversation: Nomosians absolutely love to debate. Banter is the national sport. They will talk about any topic, any where, any time and often in extraordinary detail. There's very little you can say that will shock a Nomosian, but you can almost always count on them to start out by disagreeing with you on principle. Since very little work actually gets done in Nomosia, but the educational system is superb, citizens end up spending a great deal of their time discussing arcane and obscure topics. For example, there are two invented languages in Nomosia and developing them is considered a high art form. Stating the obvious to a group of Nomosians is the quickest way to finding yourself considered a slightly less than well-educated foreigner.

Off-limits Topics to Discuss: Despite their love of badinage and their reputation as know-it-alls, some unspoken limits to conversation in Nomosia should be observed by the careful observer. This Nomosian characteristic is best expressed by the Old Nomosian word "batekkenonz", which can be roughly translated into English as "mean and stupid bullshit". If you say something that is nasty, mean, not funny, cruel-spirited and clearly untrue, a Nomosian will ignore what you've just said and change the topic. If you persist in "batekkenonz", they're likely to gently smack you upside of the head... and then ignore whatever you said. The most humilitating response to "batekkenonz" is when somebody goes and gets a grandparent to listen to what you said, then they smack you.

National Leaders: Nomosia has a very unique form of government. The head of government is selected every Sunday afternoon by lottery. A citizen is free to turn down the appointment if they are busy, or if they just don't feel like ruling that week, in which case the lottery continues until somebody accepts the offer. It is also considered to be bad form to be asleep, drunk or high if you get chosen for ruler, so people in such as state are quietly passed over. Lottery tickets are free and citizens can have as many lottery tickets as they like. Also, you must be at least 13 years old to become ruler. The actual everyday business of running the country is done by people who don't mind doing such things, which means that old folks pretty much run the country day-to-day.

National Holidays: In Nomosia, every day is a holiday. Citizens do very little work and are generally not keen on earning fortunes since incomes are taxed at 100%. People do just enough work to produce whatever is needed for "pleasant survival", as the common Nomosian phrase goes, that is: food, shelter, health care and educational facilities. Given Nomosians' national obsession with sharing food, talking abut everything all the time, plus their relaxed and flexible family structures, things just have a way of working out, which leaves plenty of time for celebrating everyday life. Popular celebrations include: Ostrich Day, Grandparents Day (a celebration of aging, pretty much the closest thing Nomosians have to a "national" day), Ocean Day (when pretty much everybody goes swimming naked), Kite-Flying Day (obvious, innit?), Choir Day (when everybody competes in song), Inauguration Day (every Sunday evening), and Pie Day (which involves throwing, as well as eating, pies).

Languages Spoken: Old Nomosian, Young Nomosian, Yiddish, Mzab-Wargla, Dizi, Gayo, Bugis, Hiberno-Scottish, Od, Old Church Slavonic, Mel, Oko, Southern Lolo, Min Dong Chinese, Utu, Sam, Chavacano, Highland Popoluca, Snohomish, Tubar and English.

Religion:
- 67% Atheist or "None of Your Business"
- 12% Indigenous or Traditional Beliefs (wide variety)
- 7% Buddhist (mainly various types of Mahayana)
- 5% Jewish (mostly non-observant Reformed)
- 4% Christian (mixture of Catholic, Protestant, Orthodox and Unitarian)
- 3% Muslim (mainly Sufis)
- 1% Zoroastrian
- 1% Other

Clothing Worn in the Business World:

Male and Female: On the rare occasion when there is a serious business function, Nomosians like to dress up for it. Given the wide diversity in Nomosian culture, this can mean just about anything from flowing robes to natty suits to peacock feathers. Nudity is frowned upon at business affairs. Drab colors are generally perceived as a sign of dullness, though all-black outfits are respected if they show some real style.

Business Etiquette: Nomosians try to keep business meetings short and to the point. When doing business with a Nomosian, you should arrive prepared and don't waste time trying to bargain or haggle. In general, Nomosians find business a somewhat distateful distraction from real life. They don't see the point of trying to get a "better deal", since they're just going to share whatever they make anyway. Don't shake hands, make small talk, or try to ingratiate yourself to the host of a business meeting. Do your homework. They'll assume everyone is there to get something done and has arrived ready to talk. After the business meeting is over then it's time to make friends. Be sure to bring gifts for the after-party. Food is best. Don't bring alcohol or drugs; they'll assume you're trying to weasel them into or out of something. And it will offend the Muslims, the Buddhists and some of the Christians.

Etiquette Regarding Religion: The vast majority of Nomosians have little interest in religion and are perfectly willing to tell you -- in the nicest possible way -- what is wrong with each one of them. Nonetheless, about 33% of the citizens do profess some kind of faith and are perfectly willing to tell you all about it. Feel free to discuss any religious topic at all with a Nomosian. Just don't get your dander up if they vehemently disagree with everything you say.

Dining and Food Culture: Every Nomosian meal is a feast. When invited to a meal, even if it's at a restaurant, bring something to add to it. Try to be cognizant of your host's dietary restrictions. So if you're visiting a Buddhist home, don't bring meat. If you're visiting a Muslim or Jewish home, don't bring a pork dish. When eating with a group in a university, school, business or celebration setting, don't just start eating without first offering to share your food with others.

A typical Nomosian meal consists of many small dishes offered up one after the other. There will often be bread or rice or noodles in large platter that can be consumed throughout the feast. The host may offer several small platters with each course, or pass around a dish for each course. Always offer to serve your neighbor before taking food for yourself.

Nomosian meals tend to last quite a while, with plenty of time for conversation. Don't be surprised if some of the guests get up and leave and then come back. They are just stretching their legs, or running an errand, or going off to get some more food or drink, or taking a quick nap, or whatever. Speaking of drink, Nomosians consume a vast variety of beverages, some alcoholic but most not. These are often offered to clear the palate between dishes and should be drunk as a course in and of themselves.

Belching and burping and even farting do not carry a large social stigma in Nomosia, though you should avoid being completely disgusting. They are not considered signs of anything, just accepted as normal bodily functions.

Global Guide: As a general rule, most Nomosians are friendly, engaging and very straight-forward people with few hang-ups. Foreigners from conservative countries may feel a bit embarassed by what they may perceive as the typical Nomosian's pan-sexual forwardness. Just remember that in Nomosia everybody learns from a very early age that "no" means "no". Nobody will be offended if you decline a sexual suggestion. Nor should you treat Nomosia like a brothel. They don't need you to have a good time and they don't care about your money. Speaking of which, be aware that capitalism is pretty much considered to be a barbaric and savage custom by most Nomosians. Arguing with them about their economic system -- though they'll be happy to engage you on the topic -- is likely to be an exercise in futility.

Tourists are very welcome in Nomosia. If you're greeted with a nod, a handshake, welcoming words, or even a hug, a kiss, or a nose rub, it's good form to return the gesture. Tourists are pretty much the only people in the country with any disposable income, which Nomosians are more than happy to take off your hands for the common good. But don't offer monetary tips to individuals, as that will be seen as trying to bribe your way into someone's favor. If you want to do something special for a Nomosian, give them a thoughtful gift of food, make a donation to their favorite government agency, or tell them how much you enjoyed meeting their grandparents.

Pick up after yourself and learn how the recycling system works. Nomosians hate litter and waste as much as they find capitalism ridiculous.

All religions are welcome in Nomosia. As a guest, you should feel free to preach whatever faith you care to. Just don't expect anyone to take you very seriously and do expect an earful in return.

Say What? As a country born out of the most horrific tragedy that brought together people from varied parts of the known world, respect for diversity in language and culture runs very deep in Nomosia. The languages listed above are the most common, but many others are spoken and studied as well. Old Nomosian and Young Nomosian are unique to Nomosia; they are invented languages that combine elements of other languages. Cultivating them is considered a high art form. The "Old" and "Young" have nothing to do with the age of the languages; they both started at about the same time. Rather, they refer to the demographic of the people who are developing them. English is spoken and understood everywhere, though local and Nomosian words have crept into it, making it into something like a Nomosian English dialect.

Some common phrases in Nomosian English are:

Y'et-yet? (Have you eaten?)
Bandam-boyo! (Let's talk!)
What way? (How do I get there?)
Good-good? (How are you? Note: this is an actual invitation to have a conversation. Answering "Well-well" or "Fine" is not a good answer. If you don't have time to talk, say "Hurrying on, mate" or something like that. If you don't feel like talking, just say so.)
Tok! (Good Morning/Day/Evening/Hello. "Salaam" is also common, but only Muslims will say "Salaam Aleikum".)
Eat-eat! (Please have some of my food)
Ya, tanks. (Yes, thank you)
Ya-no, tanks. (No, thank you)
Yugo? (a sexual invitation)
Yugo! (a sexual compliment)

Faux Pas
- Wearing drab colors, other than all-black, without a splash of color. Nomosians are likely to think you are unwell.
- Extravagant displays of wealth or spending of money. Nomosians are likely to think you're either a snob or a bit foolish, since most of them will just give you something if you ask them for it nicely.
- Showing shock or embarassment or juvenile titillation when confronted with nudity or public displays of affection between members of any sex. Nomosians are likely to think you're either sexually repressed or rude or both.
- Saying something that is both mean and factually incorrect. See note above about "batekkenonz". Keep it up and you're likely to get smacked by somebody's grandmother.

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Food taboos: There aren't very many food taboos in Apanii, but if you are to have company, serving dog meat or aquatic animals (fish, turtles, otters, whales, sharks, seals anything that lives in or spends the majority of its time in the water) without informing the guests of the menu is generally considered quite rude. If someone is particularly upset about it, you could receive a fine.

Gender gaps:
Apanii is a matriarchal society. Men and women have equal pay and equal votes but women tend to be treated better in society as they are viewed as life givers and spiritually powerful. During Sweat Lodge ceremonies, it is forbidden for men to sweat with women as it is believed that this will create near irreparable spiritual damage to the men.

Polite topics of conversation:
history, the arts, the weather, family, almost anything can be discussed in Apanii with few exceptions. There's not really any such thing as "small talk" in Apanii though. If you ask someone: "How are you?" they will give you an actual answer rather than the standard "Fine" response. To avoid this, tourists are advised to greet Apaniians with the phrase "Nice day, isn't it?" or something similar that doesn't lend itself to an open ended answer.

Off-limits topics to discuss: visions/important dreams are generally considered completely off limits except when the person who had the vision speaks up about it first. Discussing anything that goes on in closed ceremonies (Sun Dance, Sweat Lodge, Vision Quests, etc) is not only considered off limits but exceedingly rude to bring up.

National leaders:
Her Royal Majesty Queen Sarai Otahkoapi'si Aakiiksi Crowfoot - Ruler of Apanii
Marina Awo'taanitsi Medicine Shield - President of Apanii

National holidays
June 2nd - 3rd - Apaniian Pride Day. Two days celebrating Apanii's roots, the many cultures found in the country and Apaniian culture. Schools are out and banks close on a half day but the rest of Apanii's business remain open.

(July 20, 21, or 22) - Sun Dance Ceremony /Apaniian New Year's. Businesses are generally closed down for four days from the beginning of Sun Dance and are open half days for the rest of the week to celebrate the New Year.

August 1st - Founder's Day. Celebrating the foundations of Apanii as laid down by the prophetess Piitamakan. All business are closed for the day and there is a large public ceremony.

These are the only three official holidays in Apanii though there are other observances made.


Languages spoken:
American English is understood by most of Apanii. The further one strays from large cities, the more likely it is that no one will speak any form of recognizable English.
Apaniian English (Pidgin English + Pidgin Blackfoot + Apaniian constructs = Apaniian English it is hardly discernible as any form of English)
Piegan Blackfoot is the official language of Apanii and is spoken by all citizens (although there is a movement to classify the language as Apaniian Blackfoot as we have been so far removed from the original linguistics family that it's technically another dialect entirely)
Other common languages (top seven in terms of number of speakers):
Lakota
Haida
Cree
Ojibwa
Navajo
French
German

Religion: Religion is a tricky word to use when discussing Apaniian's and their beliefs. Most of the country adheres to Apaniian Blackfoot spiritual concepts though the belief systems of other tribes are practiced as well. None of these are considered religions as there is no concept of "witnessing" or "conversion through direct persuasion from another human being" and there is no "church." Observances take place in the home except for large ceremonies like Sun Dance and other, smaller rituals.

Some of Apanii's citizens do adhere to other belief systems. Most popular in terms of followers:
Christianity (mostly Catholicism, Protestantism and Pentecostal)
Buddhism
Unitarian Universalism

Clothing worn in the business world:
Men: Men in Apanii generally do not cut their hair, even if they're in the military. As such, it is usually seen as unprofessional to show up to work with your hair loose. Long hair should be put into a pony tail or braids for casual jobs and just braids for less casual jobs. A three piece-esque business suit sans-jacket is most common though the vests tend to be beaded with designs.
Women: Women are generally held to the same hair rule as men with few exceptions. Business attire consists of a knee-length or ankle-length skirt, a blouse and a blazer. Beaded belts and beaded shoes are popular accessories (ooc: Apaniians dress very 40s style with an Indian twist for business).

Business Etiquette:
-When meeting a client or a boss for the first time, it's considered proper to exchange gifts. The more thought that has been put into the gift, the better the impression. Overly lavish or expensive gifts are views as insincere.

-It's common to seal deals by smoking tobacco and it's considered exceedingly rude not to partake and could cost you the business. If one doesn't smoke, it's not considered impolite to not inhale fully.
-If being entertained by an employer or if you are entertaining a client, it is considered very rude to speak about business during the meal and before the meal has been eaten.

-While television shows are made in Apanii and there is an average of 1.5 televisions per household, Apaniians watch less than four hours a week of television on average. When looking into marketing ventures, the best thing to do is take out radio ads or advertisement space on temporary billboards set up for public functions.

-prolonged, direct eye contact so popular in Western business/social society is considered rude

-If an Apaniian business person says they need to think about something and they'll get back to you, expect two to four days of non-business talk. The phrase "I have to think about it" is taken very seriously and it's impolite to pester someone into a quick answer. This goes for general questions as well. If an answer is given too quickly, people believe that no thought went into it. A general rule of thumb is to count to five in your head and then answer (exceptions are made for yes/no questions).

-In Apanii, a business partnership is also a friendship. Expect to be invited to your boss' house as a regular guest and not as an employee.

Etiquette regarding religion:
as stated before, it is generally rude to speak about your beliefs unless asked about them. If someone declines to speak about their beliefs, it's very bad manners to press the matter no matter how sincerely interested you may be. Once you get to know a person, this becomes less of an issue but casual friends and acquaintances will rarely speak about specific beliefs. Outward displays of belief (religious jewelry and symbols) are fine but it's very rude to touch them without permission. A good rule to remember is that if you're not sure what it is, don't touch it without asking and do not get offended if the answer is no. There are many people in Apanii who have medicine bundles or other religious items that even their own families have never touched let alone seen the inside of.

Dining and food culture: Dining in Apanii is a family affair and sometimes even a community event. While the intimate dinner is popular, it's not uncommon for friends, family or neighbors who see each other when eating out to combine tables. The eldest usually sits at the head of the table and the second eldest at the other end. Elder's are always served first, even in a restaurant. Prayers are usually offered before a meal but it is not required to participate it is considered rude to begin eating before the prayers are said. If for some reason you get your food before the elders at your table, it's polite to offer your plate to them (which is generally refused) and it is improper to eat before they are served.

When dining in a home setting, offer elders and people of prominence a second helping before you get your own. Children usually eat at the same table unless it's a business dinner. When serving meat, the best portions should be offered to the elderly, pregnant women and people of prominence first.

Global Guide: ((OOC: My nation is based on my tribe, the mighty Blackfoot Confederacy and as such, a lot of our taboos will probably seem particularly odd but Apanii is based off of traditional Blackfoot society as well as other tribal nations and what they've developed on their own since the founding in the early 1600s))

Say What?

-Speaking loudly to elder's is considered rude (if they are hard of hearing, it's common to lean in rather than speak louder)

-When approaching someone who is considerably older than you are, it's common to refer to them as "grandmother" or "grandfather"

-When speaking with an elder of spiritual standing or with anyone of high spiritual standing, it is rude to leave before you are dismissed (this is usually indicated by the word "so'p" which means "good" in Blackfoot or by a hand gesture made with the palms down parallel to the ground and held in front of your chest. The right hand crosses above the left and then you move your hands outwards, the right hand to the right side and the left hand to the left side. A similar gesture in the Western world is the "that's enough" gesture made pretty much the same way)

-When speaking to a child that is considerably younger than you are, it's common to refer to them as "granddaughter/son" when the child is not considerably younger, they are referred to as "niece" or "nephew." Conversely, expect to be called "Auntie" or "uncle" more than a few times while in Apanii.

-When speaking to someone in your age group who is a very close friend the terms "brother" or "sister" are used, even when the two are not blood related. Close friends and acquaintances are often referred to as "cousin." This includes social interactions in the business world though Apaniians tend not to use these words when dealing with non-Apaniians.

-Try not to get frustrated if you don't speak Blackfoot or Apaniian English and someone says they cannot explain something in English. Generally, it isn't because they can't speak English but rather both languages contain so many morphemes and conveyances of emotion rather than concrete words that it is sometimes impossible to say something in English that one could easily say in Blackfoot or Apaniian English. This is also the reason why Blackfoot and Apaniian English words tend to be much longer than English ones. There is also no word for goodbye in Blackfoot or Apaniian English. A common replacement is to say "Peace" and it is impolite to say goodbye to someone unless they're dying. This rule is also generally ignored for non-Apaniians although it is greatly appreciated when it's observed by outsiders as are all Apaniian customs.

Phrases to Know:
Piegan Blackfoot
Oki: hello
Tsá Niitá'piiwa?: How are you?
Nitáíitoohtsimi: I understand Blackfoot
Aaa: Yes
Saa: No
Minniitsi'poyi: I don't speak Blackfoot
Minniitsiapani'poyi: I don't speak Apaniian
Nitsiniiyi'taki: Thank You
Tsimanikipitanaa?: Where is the Elder's Council?
Nitaatsinakaahtsa'tsis: I need a visa
Tsá Kitanikkoo?: What is your name?
Niisto...: I am.../My name is...
Ááhkowao'tstsiwa amóóhka aanóóksiksistsikoyihka: This bad weather has been going off and on (for a long time)
Tsá kitsítao'tapotaa'po'takihpa?: What time do you get off of work?
kippnáápii'poyit!: Speak English, please!

Apaniian English
Hehge: Hello
Tsaray Kiisto?: How are you?
Niitikksis'tsi Apanii Ingli: I understand Apaniian English
Ah/Ay: Yes
Sah: No
Niitmiin takkasiksika: I don't speak Blackfoot
Niitmiin takkapanii: I don't speak Apaniian
Iniiyi'takiahyoo: Thank You
Tsimanikeepithous? Where is the Elder's Council?
Nitneegavisa: I need a visa
Tsa kitanigoh?: What is your name?
Niistoh...: I am.../My name is...
Ahgotseewa amoga anawfanon.: This bad weather has been going off and on (for a long time)
Tsa kiistoawffaworkipa?: What time do you get off of work?
Kipp, Inglipoyi't!/ Kipp, takkaingli!: Speak English, please!

A pronunciation guide of Blackfoot letters can be found in my factbook in my signature as not all the letters have the same sound equivalent as they do in English.

Faux Pas/Important customs to know about:

-Spitting on someone's shadow is offensive and in some places, can have the owner of the shadow view it as the start to a fight.

-Calling an Apaniian Blackfoot a dog eater is exceedingly offensive

-Whistling at dusk or after dark is considered taboo and if done in a group, it's not uncommon for the group to cross the street and stay away from the whistler

-People generally don't mention the name of a recently deceased person for up to six months after the death. An exception would be for non-Apaniians and a mourning custom in which the deceased's name is sung out in a mourning song.

-Women are not to step over a man in any way (over his legs, his hand, whatever) or touch his religious objects while she's on her menstrual cycle. In some places, you can even receive a fine for this.

-It is common and polite to say hello and smile to strangers on the street, even if they are people you don't like or would not commonly associate with

-pointing directly at someone with your finger(s) is considered very rude and the average Apaniian will generally indicate a person either though pointing with the lips (ie: pursing your lips slightly and moving them in the direction of the person you're indicating) or by a sweeping hand gesture

-Apaniians are generally laid back on the concept of time. If a meeting starts at 10am, it's not uncommon for people to show up at 10:30. Likewise, if work starts at 9, you can show up at 9:30 without being counted as late but you're expected to leave a little later as well

-Very cold showers are the norm in the morning for Apaniians so if staying at an Apaniian residence, make sure to ask your host not to turn off their water heater at night if you prefer warm showers before 8am. This is not an issue in hotels as they cater mostly to non-Apaniians.

-Even though Apanii's founders were Indigenous Americans/Native Americans/First Nations it's considered impolite to refer to an Apaniian as any of those terms and they will be swift to remind you that they are Apaniian, Apaniian Blackfoot, Apaniian Cree, Apaniian Lakota etc

-During traditional ceremonies open to the public, always ask before you take a picture of someone in traditional regalia.

-If you are a late riser and not staying in a hotel, buy some ear plugs before you go to sleep. Apaniians are very early risers with most of the population waking before dawn to shower and give morning prayers. This involves singing among other things. Generally, this is not a problem in the more rural areas as morning prayers are usually given in a secluded place. In the larger cities however, especially in apartment complexes, people give their prayers in their backyards, their front yards or in a place in their house that has a view of the rising sun. This can sometimes wake light sleepers and is called an "Apaniian wake-up call"

-It is considered bad manners to kill mice. Exterminators are required to use no kill traps for mice and they are generally released into nearby forests. If you have a mouse problem and prefer them dead, snap traps and other kill traps can generally be found at any hardware store not run by an Apaniian Blackfoot.

-If moving to Apanii or staying for a long period of time, expect to get to know your neighbors. Apaniians are very community oriented by nature and if you do not take the initiative, they will introduce themselves to you.

-Speaking ill of the Queen or the Queen's family while not illegal, has the very high potential to be the catalyst of a fight.

-It is improper and illegal to pay a traditional healer with money. They must be compensated with goods or services

Best Place to be a tourist:
Niitsitapi City, Queen's Province: The nation's capitol has the most concentrated fluent speakers of American English as well as having a great deal of Apaniian culture to experience without being overwhelming.
Worst Place to be a tourist:
Chinook, Black Horse Province: the smallest town in Apanii with a population of 419 at last census. Only three of those 419 could speak, read and or understand American English on a semi-fluent level. Chinook is mainly a ranching community with not much else to do but rear horses and cattle.
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Food taboos: None
Gender gaps: In theory Equal, but the women is seen as the Houswife while the man earns the wage packet
Polite topics of conversation: Politics, Economics, Family
Off-limits topics to discuss: Sex, Drugs
National leaders: President Elliot Holloway, Chief Congressman Chuck Stephens
National holidays: Senate Day 6th August
Languages spoken: English, French, German. Mexican is also growing language.
Religion: 79% Protestant, 12% Catholic, 9% Atheist
Clothing worn in the business world: Suits, Ties
Business etiquette: Imortant Business Men wear Tailcoats and Top Hats. Normal lower Businessmen wear normal Suits.
Etiquette regarding religion. Paganistic Religions like Voodism and Animism have had a blanket ban imposed on since 1811
Dining and food culture: Americaman wine is revered as some of the greatest in the World.

Faux Pas: Equal Rights for gays.

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Postby Apanii » Wed Aug 12, 2009 7:27 am

Americama wrote:Food taboos: None
Gender gaps: In theory Equal, but the women is seen as the Houswife while the man earns the wage packet
Polite topics of conversation: Politics, Economics, Family
Off-limits topics to discuss: Sex, Drugs
National leaders: President Elliot Holloway, Chief Congressman Chuck Stephens
National holidays: Senate Day 6th August
Languages spoken: English, French, German. Mexican is also growing language.
Religion: 79% Protestant, 12% Catholic, 9% Atheist
Clothing worn in the business world: Suits, Ties
Business etiquette: Imortant Business Men wear Tailcoats and Top Hats. Normal lower Businessmen wear normal Suits.
Etiquette regarding religion. Paganistic Religions like Voodism and Animism have had a blanket ban imposed on since 1811
Dining and food culture: Americaman wine is revered as some of the greatest in the World.

Faux Pas: Equal Rights for gays.

OOC: I hope you're being facetious

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Postby Maerngau » Wed Aug 12, 2009 11:25 pm

Food taboos
- In a restaurant, it is appropriate to begin eating as soon as one's dish arrives. It is considered disrespectful to the chef to allow the food to get cold. (Or warm, depending on the dish).
- Buying food packaged in disposable plastic is heavily frowned upon.

Gender gaps
- It is considered chivalric for younger persons to hold open doors and hold coats for older persons - but only if the difference is obvious.
- Gender-based chivalry of the type described above is considered bizarre.
- Children inherit both their mother's and father's surnames and may use either in casual applications as they see fit.
- Surnames taken from the father are typically patrilineal (Like the American system)
- Maternal surnames are strictly matrilineal. IE, the surname someone receives from their mother is the same surname used by that person's great-great-great grandmother- not merely their maternal grandfather's surname.


Off-limits topics to discuss
None.

Languages spoken
Englisch, Maerndeutsch (German), and Caimisellian (French)

Religion
- There is a dwindling Christian minority.
- A growing minority considers itself agnostic, but pure atheism is relatively rare
- Objectivism (and Libertarianism) is considered a religion, not a philosophy

Etiquette regarding religion - if any religions have particular etiquette (OOC: Comparable to real-world Muslim, Jewish, Mormon etc.)
- It is considered inappropriate to open a meal with a religious prayer in public.

Dining and food culture
- Much of the population is vegetarian
- Many restaurants would be considered "family style" in other countries - if a group orders several dishes, it is often expected that they are all shared. Fondue is very popular.

Clothing worn in the business world:
- Professionals often wear formal robes made of wool or silk, especially in winter.
- Kilts are becoming increasingly popular, as are bow-ties.


Tip of the Hat
- Over 90% of the population has a coat-of-arms registered through the Maerngau King of Arms - Chief Herald of the Grand Duchy.
- Personal, heraldic arms are legally protected as a form of private property. They are used for identification on business cards, but also on all official paperwork (records of civil union, health care ID cards, drivers' and firearms permits, military uniforms, academic diplomas, etc.)
- Defacing or mocking someone's arms is deeply and seriously offensive.
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Food taboos; Meat eating is generally considered decadent and somewhat barbarous.

Gender gaps; None, even the language has been edited to reduce the male/female distinction to a purely technical one. If you see a Pymandan “man in a dress” (and you will) Don't mention it, just don't.

Off-limits topics to discuss; Basicly none. If you hold to a religion you are expected to be willing and able to explain why, in detail. If you don't you will be expected to explain why not, failure to do so is considered unsporting.

National holidays; The Sabbaths and Esbats, the fourth day of every full moon is a bank holiday.

Languages spoken; Officially, Pymandan is mutually intelligible with standard Italian, but only barely, Italian speaking visitors are strongly advised to read up on the differences. Standard Italian, French, English (standard British form) Hindustani and Russian are also fairly common, in that order.

Clothing worn in the business world; Formal Pymandan attire consists of a mandarin jacket in black and/or grey, often accented in one's house colour (Determined by occupation) and black trousers or a straight skirt (male or female) with black shoes, buckled, not laced. Jewellery is typically limited to one or two discreet pieces, displaying familial or religious affiliation.

Etiquette regarding religion; Never wear the iconography of a religion you do not follow, Mormonism is often the subject of light ridicule. Basic respect is mandatory (Never offer whiskey to a Muslim, for example) also, see the section on topics of discussion

One very important faux pas to be aware of is this, Never under any circumstances enquire after a persons “real” parentage. The only exceptions to this are
a. You are a doctor assessing them for potential genetic disorders
b. You may in fact be the child's father/sibling

I'll expand this if I remember.

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General background information on Gynocracy and its cultural etiquette.

By Malcolm Roberts, editor, Gynocracy Factsheet for Foreign Visitors

Visitors to the Queendom of Gynocracy should always remember that there are a number of restrictions on freedom of speech as well as certain actions that are unacceptable or even criminal behaviour in the eyes of the authorities. Please remember not to give offence unnecessarily!

A) Getting there:
1 Applying for a visa; this needs to be done through either the Consular Department of a Gynocratic Embassy or through a travel agent. In general, allow three weeks to pass before a visa is granted or refused.
Along with the visa application, full medical certificates need to be produced, together with details of your medical insurance. (The National Health system in Gynocracy is only available to its citizens.) Permission to run a full criminal records check also needs to be given and any application will be carefully scrutinised for any past crimes, which will result in an immediate denial of the application.
Flying to the country is relatively straightforward. The national airline, Linda Air, flies from all major cities in the world and there are two international airports in the country, at Linda City and Sara City. Sailing is not so easy, though again, the national sealine, Linda Ocean Goddess, sails into three ports, Linda City, Sara City and Louisa City.
B) On arrival:
The first hurdle will be clearing immigration and customs. Immigration officers will scrutinise all passports carefully and crosscheck them against their massive database; it will then be necessary to hand over the long form with its series of highly detailed questions that passengers will have been given on their aircraft or ship. Once these formalities have been settled, they will proceed to the baggage reclaim area and pick up their luggage.
After that, they will be required to put their bags - hand and cargo luggage - through the metal security zones, after which they will be asked to unpack them for an additional manual search.
Following this, they go through the final security check, being required to remove all their clothes and submit to a public strip search.
If nothing untoward or illegal is found during the strip search, they will be issued with a 'temporary right of residence' certificate after all these formalities have been settled and instructed to proceed to the discharge zone.
At the discharge zone, their clothes will be returned to them, but they will be reminded that Gynocracy has a strict policy against covering up too much flesh and that unless they either go about naked or at last wear only the minimum amount of clothing, they risk being arrested for indecent exposure. (The nudity policy is one of the most controversial and misunderstood aspects of Gynocracy's laws and customs, which is why it deserves a separate thread in itself - see later under social taboos and morality law sections.)
C) Gender relations: men and women are considered equal but performing different roles; in general (though the government denies this and some changes in the present system are being considered) women hold a superior position within the society.
On the whole, men are treated with respect and kindness by women and most foreign visitors are amazed at how polite the population is, whatever their gender. Even so, there's a kind of undercurrent of - not subservience, exactly, but of a general expectation that women know best and that men tend not to be all that ambitious. One of the few areas where that's not the case is in the sporting world, where Mark Davis, captain of the Gynocracy national football (soccer) team is not only the wealthiest man in the country but notoriously arrogant and extremely popular with the Ladies of the country.
The whole nation is pretty much sports mad, with women playing and watching in even greater numbers than men, even allowing for the large imbalance in population, with an overwhelming shortage of men.
If you're a man who needs to ask for help, the chances are that you'll end up having to ask a woman. Don't be nervous or intimidated about asking her; just go up to her and ask. She won't bite your head off and besides, she'll know as soon as you open your mouth that you're not a native of the country so she'll make allowances!
When you need to ask a woman for help, the convention is (though it's certainly NOT a law or anything like that) for the man to lower his eyes as he approaches her. Then he holds up his hand like a schoolboy asking a teacher for permission to speak. She then gives him a slightly regal wave of the hand and smiles, asking, 'can I help you?'
He then explains what he wants - if he's lost, say, or needs to find some information, or stuff like that - and she tells him (if she knows - just because she's a woman is no guarantee that she will!) and he then thanks her. The convention is for a man to lower his eyes when he's speaking to a woman and to look up at her when she's speaking to him.
It's considered VERY rude - whether you're talking to a man or woman - NOT to say 'please' and 'thank you' if they've helped you in any way, or even just served you at your table or stuff like that.
Wherever you go, you'll find women in Gynocracy in places you wouldn't expect and doing things you wouldn't find in a lot of other countries. Much of that is down to the huge surplus of females, but a word of warning - don't think that just because you're a man you'll be looked upon as God's gift to women. (More on that in the 'religion' section but you get the point.) Just because you're a man won't automatically make you flavour of the month. Remember to treat all the ladies you meet with respect. And the gentlemen too, of course!
You might encounter a few problems if you go to some of the non-tourist areas of the country. Linda City, Sara City and Louisa City are the three main urban areas and (especially in Linda City) there are plenty of places that are set up specifically for the benefit of tourists. You'll see plenty of signs with messages saying 'Gynocracy Tourist Board Approved,' and if you go in any of those places you won't have any trouble. You shouldn't have any problems in the tourist stores, the tourist facilities, the tourist agencies, all of whom will do their best to make your stay as pleasant for you as possible.
On the other hand, if you DO stray off the beaten track and wind up in a non-touristy area, you MIGHT face a few problems. Natives have to follow a LOT of rules and conventions that you'll be excused for not following as a visitor.
For example, if you go into a Tourist Board Approved Post Office, bank, bureau de change or shop, you'll just line up as you would in your own country and be processed like any other customer. On the other hand, if you go off the approved sites, you might hit trouble (though it shouldn't be anything serious - just a spot of verbal telling you off! - but I can't stress enough that you really DON'T want to give offence. It's much better to stick to the Tourist approved places even though they DO have a big mark-up on their prices and services.
Like I say, they relax the conventions and rules for tourists, but in the places where the locals hang out, it's a different story. If you go into any of the places I've mentioned in an off-tourist location, you really are best advised to stick to the local 'rules.' Rule number one in that regard is about queuing. You can go into one of those places and see twenty or thirty men standing patiently in line and then as soon as just ONE woman or girl walks in there, she immediately goes right to the head of the queue. If you even try to complain she'll give you such a heap of verbal abuse you'll be sorry you started! If she's REALLY angry with you for trying to stop her jumping your place she has the legal right to get the security guard to throw you out and ban you from coming back in again so, if you ARE in that situation, just smile sweetly and keep your mouth shut! It's the same in shops - you could be right at the front of the long queue you've been standing patiently in line for - maybe for half an hour or so - and then, just when you think you're going to get served, some woman or girl shows up and takes your place and you have to wait patiently till she's been served. Don't even THINK about saying ANYTHING!
Obviously, these rules apply to men on their own or men in groups. It's best to go shopping in places like this with your wife or girlfriend or daughter because then she'll be able to get to the front of the queue and you can just hand her the money to pay for your purchases and you won't have any trouble!
Rule number two is never - and I do mean NEVER - interrupt a female when she's talking. It doesn't matter how much you want to say something; just wait until she's said her bit. The irritating thing is that this convention DOESN'T work in reverse. It's especially common for young girls to be quite bad in that regard, to be honest. Just smile sweetly and wait for her to wind down.
Rule number three is NEVER stare at a female in Gynocracy. (You'll see how dangerous this can be when I get to the bit about the 'dress code,' as they call it, or the 'undress code,' as it's often nicknamed.) You must always let her look at you and not the other way round. If you do, you are asking for all kinds of trouble. It COULD be considered as sexual harassment, sexist body language, or just plain sexism. Don't take the risk - if you're a man, that is. It's fine for your lady companion to look at other women but don't YOU dare do it or you'll be headed for BIG trouble!
D) For business travellers - business in Gynocracy is conducted at a much more leisurely pace than many other countries. Business is almost invariably conducted over seemingly endless cups of tea and can drag on for hours or even days. Don't be in a hurry or you will offend your hosts and you WON'T get that big deal you're aiming for.
The first thing you need to do is remember that it's virtually certain that you'll be negotiating with a woman rather than a man. Most of the wealth of the country is held by women and most of the businesses are run by them too. Sexist jokes or attitudes will not only lose you the contract; they could get you kicked right out of the country altogether! Remember, man or woman, treat them with respect, politeness, and above all, be patient.
Even if the deal you're trying to close is dragging on at what seems like a snail's pace to you, don't worry or get angry. That way you're sure to blow the contract. Just go with the flow, get your head attuned to what you might call Gynocracian time, and you'll still be able to do the business.
The golden rule is - be patient, polite and don't ever do or say anything that might be taken as sexist!
E) On the beach: Gynocracy has quite a few exceptional beaches. The coastal areas are full of a mix of tourists and locals and you'll have great swimming, great sunbathing, and (for most of the year - it can get a bit wet round about late September through to November - you'll have warm weather. All beaches are basically nudist beaches and it's not considered polite to wear anything that could be considered overdressed. A female tourist could get away with a bikini and a man with a bare chest and shorts or swimming trunks but anything more than that is asking for trouble. You COULD be accused of 'perving' on the thousands of naked lovelies sunning themselves on the beach and (even though as a tourist you'd probably just get a caution or, at worst, a fine, you really don't want to take the risk. Apart from anything else, they'll ban you from coming back if you get booked for violating any laws!)
F) Shopping: Like I said, in the tourist shops you'll have no problems. Off-location, so to speak, just remember to follow the customs I've told you, especially about the queuing. Another custom that applies specifically in shops is that if you must never push past a female, never obstruct her while she's shopping, and never try to pick up something from the same rack or shelf until she's finished choosing what she wants herself. Other than that, it's pretty much a case of following the customs I already mentioned. The good news is that your checkout operator is very likely to be a man so she probably won't be talking to her friend for hours and holding up the line!
G) In the hotel: Again, most of the hotel staff (except the managers, head waiters, head chefs, and the service personnel like electricians, plumbers, bell-girls and so on) will probably be male. Again, don't react if you see the staff naked except for coloured armbands and headgear (they use these things to demonstrate their positions within the hotel.) If you need a chauffeur or a taxi driver the chances are that your driver will almost certainly be female so don't act surprised if she greets you wearing just her black peaked cap!
The etiquette on tipping is that you should expect to give a waiter (who will probably be male) around 5 fems as a tip. The drinks waiter (who will probably also be male) should get about 2 fems as a tip. If you eat in the hotel restaurant you should also leave a 25 fem tip for the head chef. The bell girl should be tipped around 10 fems for carrying your bags and don't even think of refusing to let her take them - it's considered VERY rude to do that!
Of course, if you're served by a female waiter you should give her a 10-fem tip; a female drinks waiter should get 4 fems; and if you get a bell-boy instead of a bell-girl (unlikely, but not impossible) you should give him a 5-fem tip for carrying your bags.
If you have a drink in the hotel bar, it's customary to give a barman a 5-fem tip and a barmaid a 10-fem one.
G) Eating and drinking: Pretty much the same rules about tipping apply in restaurants and bars outside the hotel as do within it, except that you halve the rates for both genders. A barman would get 2 fems and a barmaid 5 fems; a waiter would also get 2 fems and a waitress 5 fems.
Eating veal or raw meat or raw fish is frowned upon in Gynocracy. it's not illegal but it is considered extremely bad manners to eat dishes like that.
The etiquette at a restaurant (you'll find it the same in the hotel restaurants too) is that the man stands behind the woman and pulls her chair out for her, waits till she sits down and only then sits down himself. Even if you're the one paying the bill, expect the staff to go automatically to the oldest woman in the party and ask her what the party's order is. Among the locals women even choose the food for their menfolk so don't be surprised if the staff ask your wife or daughter what YOU would like to eat, rather than asking you directly. They'll also bring her the wine to taste, bring her the bill and expect her to hand them the tip at the end of the meal (even if you're the one actually paying for it all!) It's also common practice among the locals for the man to wait to eat until the woman has finished serving herself. You'll also often see the men serving their women directly. Once the meal's over, the man is expected to stand up, pull out the woman's chair for her and wait for her to lead the party out of the restaurant.
In bars, the etiquette is similar but more relaxed. There are bar stools and chairs and it's considered extremely rude for a man to sit down before a woman. Again, the barman will ask her what the party wants to drink, expect her to pay the bill and to give him or her a tip (even if it's YOUR money that's paying for everything!)
H) Money: the currency of Gynocracy is the fem. There are no larger or smaller denominations and the coins are quite visually attractive, with an image of a Roman Goddess on the back and Queen Linda on the front. The current value of the fem is approximately 2.5 dollars or around 4 British pounds. Exchange rates for foreign currency may vary; in general it's better to take traveller's cheques and cash them in the country. The cost of living varies but you can generally reckon that a family of five, staying in Linda City (the most expensive part of the country) should be able to get by on around 150 fems a week and can live quite well on 200 fems.
I) Using the public transport system or taxis: The public transport facilities are frankly pretty poor. Linda City has finally introduced a few buses, trains and trams but the system is not very extensive and costs quite a lot. Again, the etiquette is for the females to board the vehicles first, pay the fares (including the fares for the male passengers in their party) and then sit down. Only then can the men board. Fares are also priced at two rates - females are charged double what a male is for the same journey. On trains, expect to pay around 100 fems each for your wife and daughter and 50 for you and your son; on buses, 25 fems for the females and 12 fems for the males; and on trams, 20 fems for the ladies and 10 for the men. You also need to remember that it's the etiquette for a man to stand up and offer his seat to a woman or girl if she gets on the bus, train or tram and all the seats are taken, but then a gentleman ought to do that anyway, shouldn't he?
You're better off taking a taxi or dolmus if you want to get around, to be honest. Taxis cost around 15 fems per female passenger and 7 for males; the dolmus will cost 10 for females and 5 for males. The etiquette for both vehicles is slightly different. It's virtually certain that your driver will be female and if you're carrying bags, she will expect to put them on the taxi herself or for your wife and daughter to do it. On no account should a man attempt to carry bags on to a taxi or refuse to allow the driver to put them on for him; it's considered VERY rude to do that, implying that she's weak and helpless. On a dolmus, each man has to be sandwiched between a woman, whether or not he knows her. All in all, though it's a bit confusing at first, you'll get used to it soon enough.
If you want to hire a car, remember that you'll have to use a government-licensed rental agency. The first thing to remember is that you'll be dealing with a female, because all vehicle licensing or renting in Gynocracy has to be done by women. You'll also find that it's almost impossible for a man on his own to hire a car. It isn't actually illegal but the woman at the rental agency will look at you very strangely, ask you all kinds of questions and run a criminal check on her database. She'll also charge you twice the rate that she will a woman driver. Basically it's not worth the hassle of trying. Just go there with your wife, girlfriend, daughter or even a female friend and let her handle the formalities. The woman will then deal with her, process the application quickly, charge half the fee she would for a single man and hand over the keys. The car will be licensed, insured and officially registered to the woman but you will be able to drive it if your female guarantor signs an authorisation slip on your behalf.
If you hire a car and need to fill up with petrol (gasoline), you go to one of the numerous petrol (filling) stations and wait to be served. You can't fill up the car yourself, but an attendant (almost certainly male) will come over to you and pump the gas into your car. You will be expected to tip him 10 fems if he's a man or 20 fems if (less likely) a woman serves you.
If your car breaks down, the odds are that you'll have to get it fixed by a female mechanic. At the last census, 98% of the car mechanics were registered as women. Don't be surprised to see her fixing your car and don't even think that she won't know exactly what she's doing because she will. The etiquette is to tip the mechanic 50 fems if he's a man and 100 fems if (as is virtually certain) she's a woman.
If you want to hire a chauffeur-driven car, your driver will almost certainly be a woman. At the last census, out of a total population of 2.479 billion, only 4813 men registered their occupation as 'chauffeur,' whereas 871,488 women put that down as their job. The chauffeur will turn up wearing a peaked cap and nothing else, and she will expect to be completely in charge of every aspect of the car, not only driving it but loading up all the luggage herself, filling it up with petrol, and fixing any mechanical problems.
H) Nuisances, Crime, the police and the criminal justice system:
Beggars - You may be bothered by beggars, especially around the central squares where tourists tend to congregate to look at the main attractions. Most of them will be men but they won't tend to be aggressive, especially if you're with your wife, girlfriend or daughter. It's not illegal to beg but 'begging aggressively' is a crime and if the beggar won't take no for an answer you can call on a police officer to remove them (there is always a police officer, generally female, within a street or so of you in all the big cities of Gynocracy). The main reason for the relatively high numbers of beggars is the complete absence of a social welfare system within the Queendom. People are expected to work, to save and take out insurance policies against sickness or retirement. There is no such thing as public housing or welfare benefits so beggars are higher than in countries that do have those provisions. If you do decide to give money to a beggar, the etiquette is to give him (it almost invariably WILL be a him) around 5 fems to keep him quiet (which he'll almost certainly spend on the cheap beer - 1 fem a bottle or can - but at least he'll be happy!
Scams - single men travelling alone need to be extremely careful about one particular scam that is particularly common among girls aged between about 15 to 25 years. They may come up to you and ask you for money, and if you refuse to give it to them they may start threatening to accuse you of sexism, sexist body language, sexual harassment, sexual abuse or even rape. On no account argue with them if you ARE a lone male or a group of men travelling on your own; it's better just to give her the money and walk away because, under the laws of the country, men accused of those particular offences have to produce ten female witnesses to demonstrate their innocence and the odds are that you just won't be able to. You certainly DON'T want to find yourself arrested on any kind of sexually-related charge because the punishment for breaking those laws are very severe and you will undoubtedly get a public flogging because it will be almost impossible for you to demonstrate your innocence.
On the whole, men are advised NOT to travel about on their own but always to be accompanied by a female. Of course, men with wives, girlfriends and daughters will be OK because their female companions will act as a deterrent to these con artists. If one does come on to you regardless, the word of your female companion will be as good as that of your accuser, whereas your own word won't be.
Crime, especially crime against visitors, is fairly low in Gynocracy and the odds are that you won't be the victim of a mugging. You also probably won't have your car stolen if you've brought one with you or hired one locally because the penalties for theft are pretty severe - a public flogging and two years community service.
The police are an equal opportunity employer and every citizen, male or female, has to spend a year serving with them. Out of those who go on to make a career of it, the majority are women but there are a higher proportion of men than in many other jobs in Gynocracy.
Police officers are naked but dressed with armbands, caps (the different types of cap indicate their rank) and also come equipped with a belt around their waist from which a nightstick, taser, handcuffs and gun dangle. They are very helpful and friendly but if they give you an order just do it! You really DON'T want to end up falling foul of the Gynocracy justice system where the procedure is often baffling for foreigners and the punishments can be quite harsh, at least in the eyes of outsiders.
I) Religion - the official religion of the country is the Sacred Church of Her Magnificence Queen Saint Linda, who is a Living Goddess. No other religions are permitted within the country and under no account must you do or say anything that implies a different religious belief. Just stay off the subject of religion altogether.
J) Politics - Queen Linda is the absolute hereditary monarch of the country and rules through a two-chamber Houses of Parliament. The National Assembly is directly elected; the House of Ladies consists of members nominated by the Queen. In the event of any dispute between the Houses, Queen Linda makes a ruling and her decision is final. The present government is made up of the Gynocrat Party; there are also two opposition parties represented in Parliament. The franchise is at present restricted to females over the age of 12 and only females are permitted to seek election to Parliament or local councils or to vote in those elections. Again, as with religion, don't get drawn into ANY political discussions. Just stay off the subject at all costs.
K) Language - there are two official languages in Gynocracy, English and Romanes. Because the Romani population is so high (43% at the last census) Romanes is widely spoken and is also a compulsory subject at school, as is English. If you're addressed in Romanes, just smile sweetly and say 'mande ne kan Romanes rocka,' (I can't speak Romanes') and they'll switch to English. French, German, Spanish, Polish, Turkish and Russian are also fairly widely spoken, and (in the business world particularly) Chinese and Japanese are also frequently spoken.
You could try 'mishto' (please) and 'nais tukes' (thank you) but it's pretty safe to stick to English.
L) Morality laws: these are among the most controversial aspects of the justice system within the country. The main opposition party is campaigning to have them relaxed or even abolished altogether; the third party is calling for them to be extended and strengthened. The present government is trying to steer a middle course but you must NOT discuss the subject under any circumstances.
Under the adultery laws, for example, it is legal for a wife to have extra-marital sex but NOT for a husband to do so. The good news is that visitors are NOT subject to those particular aspects of the morality laws.
One aspect of the morality laws that WILL apply even to visitors is the prohibition on gay sex. Again, while male homosexual behaviour is illegal, lesbianism is not, so if a single woman has a Sapphic relationship she's not subject to any penalty, but a guy making out with another male will be publicly flogged. Don't risk it!
Visitors may also fall foul of the 'indecent exposure' laws. This is one of the most baffling aspects of the morality laws for many foreigners. If you walk around naked in public, that's fine; if you walk around in just shorts, or just a two-piece bikini or something for a woman, you'll also be fine. If you try putting on jeans, shirts, dresses or skirts and blouses, you will almost certainly be stopped by the police and ordered to take them off. On no account should you refuse, because if you DO they'll haul you off to the police station where you'll not only be forcibly strip-searched but your clothes will be confiscated, you'll get an on the spot fine of 200 fems and a criminal conviction which will not be spent for 5 years and which will also prevent you from EVER coming back to the country.
O) Social taboos - mostly, this is just common sense and good manners. It's considered extremely rude NOT to address every female you meet as 'madam' or 'ma'am' and NOT to call every male you meet 'sir.' They'll do the same for you, believe me. The people of Gynocracy are about the most polite in the world!
If you see a woman struggling with, say, heavy bags or heavy shopping, DON'T offer to give her a hand because that's considered an insult and she might even report you to the cops for sexist behaviour. On the other hand, if SHE approaches you when you're in the same situation and offers to carry YOUR bags or shopping for you, it's rude for you to refuse her offer of help.
Always say 'please' and 'thank you' at every opportunity. It's considered very rude NOT to do that.
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Seculartopia really has no Cultural Ettiquite, dress to work is much more casual than most nations.
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Food taboos: There aren't really any food taboos. Many cuisines from around the world can be found in Amn'Voss and, frequently, they are combined into strange meals. You can eat anything from an apple to the bottom of someones foot and no one would really care (so long as the foot eating was voluntary).

Gender gaps: The positions of men and women are identical in Amn'Voss, most women are in the workforce and corporate day cares take care of and raise most children.

Polite topics of conversation: Anything, in all honesty. Most people can talk about pornography just as easily as Greek philosophy.

Off-limits topics to discuss: See polite conversation.

National leaders: The Corporate Republic of Amn'Voss is ran by a unique blend of Republic and Corporatocracy. On the government side of the nation it is a Unicameral legislature with Parliament, the Chancellery, and Court of the State. On the corporate side there is the Executive Board of Amalgamated Corporations which acts as a legislative, executive, and judiciary body. Together they act as a Bicameral Republic headed by the Head Chancellor (currently Sebastian Thierry) on the government side and by the Chairman of the Board (currently Leo Bronson) on the corporate side.

National holidays: There aren't really any. Religious holidays are not observed.

Languages spoken: A little bit of everything. Amn'Voss is a massive cluster-f&@k of languages, though English is the de facto national language.

Religion: Majority of the population is Atheist or Agnostic, a small minority follows religions (Christianity, Islam, Buddhism, etc.)

Clothing worn in the business world: Suits, generally black and sometimes gray.

Business etiquette: Generally business is straightforward and analytical. When speaking with an Amn'Voss business man you will be met with eye-to-eye contact and cold, emotionless face. Facts will be presented and are expected in return. Business men will not take offense to anything you say, they came for one thing, profit, and they plan to get it regardless of what you say or believe. Business in Amn'Voss is an extremely no-nonsense ordeal.

Etiquette regarding religion: There is no real etiquette. People freely criticize religion as a whole. On the other hand people are completely free to proselytize or display religious symbols. No one really cares too much.

Dining and food culture: A mishmash of various different cuisines from all over the world. A person living in Amn'Vosss diet can be as healthy or harmful as they wish.

Global Guide: Unless you have something meaningful to offer, don't be surprised when a citizen completely ignores you. Don't expect people to say return greetings. Basically, don't expect people to be nice.
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Apanii wrote:
Summer Solstice (July 20, 21, or 22) - Sun Dance Ceremony /Apaniian New Year's. Businesses are generally closed down for four days from the beginning of Sun Dance and are open half days for the rest of the week to celebrate the New Year.


How is it that your Summer Solstice holiday is in July?
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Food taboos: Information Fountains' people have a laissez-faire attitude about food. Most will eat just about anything. That being said, although strange, the residents refuse to eat dishes with eggs used prominently (except in dessert dishes), and it is taboo to eat certain vegetables.
Gender gaps: Men and women are equal in stature.
Polite topics of conversation: Anything intelligent. Residents will gladly discuss history, science, politics, and other topics, as long as they feel that the person they're speaking with can actually understand what is being discussed at their level.
Off-limits topics to discuss: Religion, hate, anti-social equality statements.
National leader: The Doge, Ben Dachuar
National holidays: Acquisition Day May 25. Memorial Day August 25. Charter Day October 21. Doge's Day November 27.
Languages spoken English and a melange of French, Italian and Portuguese. This language also contains elements of German, Dutch, Danish, Basque, Estonian, Hebrew, and Bengali.
Religion: For the most part, residents are atheists.
Business etiquette: Casual, as there are no private corporations in Information Fountains.
Etiquette regarding religion: people who believe something different are to be treated with respect, unless they don't treat others with respect.
Dining and food culture: A pastry and a cup or two of barley coffee or chocolate in the morning, and lunch and dinner are meat or fish and a starch. And a lot of bread, butter and cheese are eaten.
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Postby Apanii » Mon Aug 17, 2009 3:22 am

Theurgia wrote:
Apanii wrote:
Summer Solstice (July 20, 21, or 22) - Sun Dance Ceremony /Apaniian New Year's. Businesses are generally closed down for four days from the beginning of Sun Dance and are open half days for the rest of the week to celebrate the New Year.


How is it that your Summer Solstice holiday is in July?

Snap. Thanks for catching that. I had started writing about a different holiday before I realized that it was more of an observance than a holiday and deleted the description but not the title.

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