Oh, I just tell them I don't want children until I can stand on my feet and be able to financially support a family.
I feel ready to have a child psychologically and emotionally, I just don't feel financially capable to bear the brunt of it.
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by Soldati Senza Confini » Sun Apr 20, 2014 6:52 pm
Tekania wrote:Welcome to NSG, where informed opinions get to bump-heads with ignorant ideology under the pretense of an equal footing.

by Nanatsu no Tsuki » Sun Apr 20, 2014 6:52 pm

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by Kiruri » Sun Apr 20, 2014 6:53 pm
I would have never thought that hehe. I feel that it would be the same as saying my grams introduced me to metal
Which wouldn't be weird. She classifies herself as a hipster :s
by Kiruri » Sun Apr 20, 2014 6:54 pm

by Kannap » Sun Apr 20, 2014 6:55 pm
Divair2 wrote:Kannap wrote:
My sister and I agreed that we would not have children until after one year of marriage and at the age of 24 at the very earliest.
I don't think about it. Not my problem right now and I don't have contact often enough with any of my family to hear their opinion on anything.
Luna Amore wrote:Please remember to attend the ritualistic burning of Kannap for heresy

by Nanatsu no Tsuki » Sun Apr 20, 2014 6:55 pm

Slava Ukraini
Also: THERNSY!!
Your story isn't over;֍Help save transgender people's lives֍Help for feral cats
Cat with internet access||Supposedly heartless, & a d*ck.||Is maith an t-earra an tsíocháin.||No TGsRIP: Dyakovo & Ashmoria

by Soldati Senza Confini » Sun Apr 20, 2014 6:56 pm

Tekania wrote:Welcome to NSG, where informed opinions get to bump-heads with ignorant ideology under the pretense of an equal footing.

by Kiruri » Sun Apr 20, 2014 6:57 pm


by Soldati Senza Confini » Sun Apr 20, 2014 6:57 pm
Tekania wrote:Welcome to NSG, where informed opinions get to bump-heads with ignorant ideology under the pretense of an equal footing.

by Kiruri » Sun Apr 20, 2014 6:58 pm


by Kiruri » Sun Apr 20, 2014 6:58 pm
Katyuscha wrote:I don't like it.

by Nanatsu no Tsuki » Sun Apr 20, 2014 6:59 pm
Soldati senza confini wrote:Nanatsu no Tsuki wrote:
Bah, you just want more out of life. You'll settle down when the time's right.
I really don't want much more than to have a peaceful existence: a decent house, car, and a decent job that helps pay the bills plus a bit of luxuries and/or the ability to travel at least once a year/save for any emergency up to a year; and to have peace of mind and be able to marry someone who loves me back.
I'm working towards all that myself right now
Slava Ukraini
Also: THERNSY!!
Your story isn't over;֍Help save transgender people's lives֍Help for feral cats
Cat with internet access||Supposedly heartless, & a d*ck.||Is maith an t-earra an tsíocháin.||No TGsRIP: Dyakovo & Ashmoria

by Kannap » Sun Apr 20, 2014 6:59 pm
Luna Amore wrote:Please remember to attend the ritualistic burning of Kannap for heresy

by Kiruri » Sun Apr 20, 2014 7:00 pm
Nanatsu no Tsuki wrote:Soldati senza confini wrote:
I really don't want much more than to have a peaceful existence: a decent house, car, and a decent job that helps pay the bills plus a bit of luxuries and/or the ability to travel at least once a year/save for any emergency up to a year; and to have peace of mind and be able to marry someone who loves me back.
I'm working towards all that myself right now
Gallo and I have been discussing children. I'm not ready, and I'm soon to be 34. But we've been married only 4 years. We're still enjoying marriage. Having kids will be a complication. We're not where we wanna be yet. Once we do, we may have children.

by Soldati Senza Confini » Sun Apr 20, 2014 7:00 pm
Kiruri wrote:Kannap wrote:
My sister and I agreed that we would not have children until after one year of marriage and at the age of 24 at the very earliest.
Hey, I like that. I think that's very smart. Have a stable relationship to bring the child into, be old enough to have established yourself in a job and finished college, have the economic solvency to be able to properly care for another human being, one that's quite defenseless all on its own.
If I marry, I plan the same thing. Albeit my motives are far more egocentric and selfish. I just don't want the economic burden and responsibility that comes along with children. I'd much rather spend my cash on myself.
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by Kiruri » Sun Apr 20, 2014 7:00 pm

by Nanatsu no Tsuki » Sun Apr 20, 2014 7:00 pm
Kiruri wrote:Nanatsu no Tsuki wrote:
Gallo and I have been discussing children. I'm not ready, and I'm soon to be 34. But we've been married only 4 years. We're still enjoying marriage. Having kids will be a complication. We're not where we wanna be yet. Once we do, we may have children.
Aww omg, a little Nana and a little Gallo :3

Slava Ukraini
Also: THERNSY!!
Your story isn't over;֍Help save transgender people's lives֍Help for feral cats
Cat with internet access||Supposedly heartless, & a d*ck.||Is maith an t-earra an tsíocháin.||No TGsRIP: Dyakovo & Ashmoria

by Kannap » Sun Apr 20, 2014 7:01 pm
Luna Amore wrote:Please remember to attend the ritualistic burning of Kannap for heresy

by Soldati Senza Confini » Sun Apr 20, 2014 7:02 pm
Nanatsu no Tsuki wrote:Soldati senza confini wrote:
I really don't want much more than to have a peaceful existence: a decent house, car, and a decent job that helps pay the bills plus a bit of luxuries and/or the ability to travel at least once a year/save for any emergency up to a year; and to have peace of mind and be able to marry someone who loves me back.
I'm working towards all that myself right now
Gallo and I have been discussing children. I'm not ready, and I'm soon to be 34. But we've been married only 4 years. We're still enjoying marriage. Having kids will be a complication. We're not where we wanna be yet. Once we do, we may have children.
Tekania wrote:Welcome to NSG, where informed opinions get to bump-heads with ignorant ideology under the pretense of an equal footing.
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