The Holy Therns wrote:Gallade wrote:It's not you. I just don't hug, and can only enjoy a cuddle if it's with a partner that I fully trust.
It's why I dislike that Irish people hug now. I go for a handshake or an air kiss. I feel like I'm being pinned when I'm hugged.
Frankly, I'm not actually all that comfortable with hugs these days myself.
I had to be held down a lot as a kid when they didn't know I was manic depressive. My great-grandmother was convinced I was possessed at one stage. Funny now, really, but I've never been comfortable being held since.











