Posted: Mon Nov 01, 2010 2:43 pm
That or society is so eager to label everyone and everything it is bleeding over into our children.
Because sometimes even national leaders just want to hang out
https://forum.nationstates.net/
Tokos wrote:Lol, you can't be a lesbian at 10. Doubtless she'll be one of those weird girls who swings back and forth in their teenage years depending on the wind (not depending on whom they're actually attracted to).
Why exactly does sexual preference require a party? Maybe I go ask my friends if any of them like firecrotches and if so that's an excuse for a piss-up.
Tokos wrote:Yes, sexual attraction is necessarily to do with sex. It's kind of in the name.
Being gay or straight is to do with which sex you get hard/wet from. I can't believe I have to spell this out.
Saint Clair Island wrote:Tokos wrote:Yes, sexual attraction is necessarily to do with sex. It's kind of in the name.
Being gay or straight is to do with which sex you get hard/wet from. I can't believe I have to spell this out.
sexual, adj. 1. of or relating to the sexes; 2. of or relating to sexual intercourse.
The English language sucks. From now on, I will refer to the second definition of sexual as "fucktacular."
Anyway: Your position on this issue really depends on whether you're taking the terms sexual attraction/orientation/etc to mean sexual attraction or fucktacular attraction. If the latter, then obviously it's unlikely most children will experience it. If the former, that happens all the time.
It is thus possible to be sexually attracted to males or females or hamsters at any age, but uninterested in them fucktacularly (hmm. this needs to be shortened a bit. maybe "fuckwise"?) until sexual maturity.
Clear?
Saurisia wrote:A LITTLE too far, in my opinion, if someone wanted to reveal he's/she's gay, he'd/she'd tell his/her parents that. I mean, I never had a party when I revealed my Dino fetish on NS, did I?
Which reminds me...
*Googles Dino porn*
Lauchlin wrote:I don't know about you, but I've never seen people on TV talking about how you're a deviant and unfit to parent because of your attraction to dinosaurs. Maybe other people's situations are different than yours.
Innsmothe wrote:Then why do five year old boys in their innocence regularly kiss girls, but not guys? If you were correct then children wouldn't be so discriminate, and would kiss both sexes without complaint.
I'm sorry, but that's utter nonsense. People do not marry members of their preferred gender(s) because they just want to fuck. They marry each other because they are in love, and they do not fall in love with people outside their preferred gender(s). To pretend that romantic feelings are not part of one's sexual orientation is complete bullshit.
Lauchlin wrote:Saurisia wrote:A LITTLE too far, in my opinion, if someone wanted to reveal he's/she's gay, he'd/she'd tell his/her parents that. I mean, I never had a party when I revealed my Dino fetish on NS, did I?
Which reminds me...
*Googles Dino porn*
I don't know about you, but I've never seen people on TV talking about how you're a deviant and unfit to parent because of your attraction to dinosaurs. Maybe other people's situations are different than yours.
Lauchlin wrote:Saurisia wrote:A LITTLE too far, in my opinion, if someone wanted to reveal he's/she's gay, he'd/she'd tell his/her parents that. I mean, I never had a party when I revealed my Dino fetish on NS, did I?
Which reminds me...
*Googles Dino porn*
I don't know about you, but I've never seen people on TV talking about how you're a deviant and unfit to parent because of your attraction to dinosaurs. Maybe other people's situations are different than yours.
Person012345 wrote:Nobody threw me a party when I came out to NS.
The Norwegian Blue wrote:I fully support this new word.
Tokos wrote:Please learn to separate affection/love, and sexuality. I guess, if I feel strong affection for one of my male friends, that means I'm gay? :eyebrow:
Yootwopia wrote:We had those all the time, they were called "normal parties" where everyone gets incredibly pissed and either bares their soul or ends up trying to fuck someone that they're vaguely into.
Tokos wrote:Yootwopia wrote:We had those all the time, they were called "normal parties" where everyone gets incredibly pissed and either bares their soul or ends up trying to fuck someone that they're vaguely into.
Aged 10? Interesting childhood you had!
I wonder if those normal parties can be considered coming out parties, though. After all, there's always some guy who gets a little too drunk and a little too friendly, which no one lets him forget for weeks.
Tokos wrote:I wonder if those normal parties can be considered coming out parties, though.
Ayndia wrote:I...wasn't aware people had parties for coming out. Doesn't that go against the whole belief of not making it a big deal?
Discuss?
Lauchlin wrote:Saurisia wrote:A LITTLE too far, in my opinion, if someone wanted to reveal he's/she's gay, he'd/she'd tell his/her parents that. I mean, I never had a party when I revealed my Dino fetish on NS, did I?
Which reminds me...
*Googles Dino porn*
I don't know about you, but I've never seen people on TV talking about how you're a deviant and unfit to parent because of your attraction to dinosaurs. Maybe other people's situations are different than yours.
Der Teutoniker wrote:Ayndia wrote:I...wasn't aware people had parties for coming out. Doesn't that go against the whole belief of not making it a big deal?
Discuss?
Whose belief is to not make it a big deal? Most of the gay guys I personally know make it a fairly large part of their overall lifestyle. Some seem like any other guy... but into dudes.
Some make it a big deal, some don't. Is that especially problematic? Should there be some law that gays aren't allowed to make it a big deal? I personally don't see why it should be a big deal... but I'm not these people, so whatev.
Panzerjaeger wrote:That or society is so eager to label everyone and everything it is bleeding over into our children.
Tokos wrote:Innsmothe wrote:Then why do five year old boys in their innocence regularly kiss girls, but not guys? If you were correct then children wouldn't be so discriminate, and would kiss both sexes without complaint.
Because it is socially unacceptable to kiss men in the Anglosphere.I'm sorry, but that's utter nonsense. People do not marry members of their preferred gender(s) because they just want to fuck. They marry each other because they are in love, and they do not fall in love with people outside their preferred gender(s). To pretend that romantic feelings are not part of one's sexual orientation is complete bullshit.
You are contradicting yourself. First you say marriage is not just done for sex, which is of course true, then you say that all the love and commitment that go into marriage are somehow part of one's sexuality.
Please learn to separate affection/love, and sexuality. I guess, if I feel strong affection for one of my male friends, that means I'm gay?
Sexual orientation describes a pattern of emotional, romantic, or sexual attraction to men, women, both genders, neither gender, or another gender.