No one "rules themself," we are all ruled by someone else. Whether it is a member of your mostly imaginary ethnic group or not (not a dig at the Tibetans, I meant that all ethnic, racial, national, zodiac sign, etc, and other "group identities" are mostly made-up), the leaders will exploit the citizens. Just because we're both Tibetans doesn't mean we think the same, and doesn't mean I will agree with the policies of a Tibetan ruler any more than a Chinese one. I am still being ruled by someone else.