Saucy Tarts wrote:Okay … my 2 cents, because 2 cents is really what any of us really get in the grand scheme of things …
We all know that at one time it was illegal for Black people to vote in the U.S., we all know that at one time it was illegal for Women to vote in the U.S., we all know that at one time it was illegal for a Black person and a White person to marry each other in the U.S.. Okay. Now at one point in Colorado it was legal for a Man to marry his Donkey. It was. Look it up. Laws have to change and adapt in the U.S. to be inclusive and for us to be able to call ourselves a nation that espouses freedom.
Now in this 'progressive' nation where we now have a Black President and many Women holding powerful positions in Government, one would think that denying rights to a minority group and attempting to create yet another second class citizenry would be a thing of the past. Especially with as hard won as gaining rights was for both of those two groups. And any Black person or Woman who voted for Prop 8 in California is a hypocrite who obviously feel that rights for themselves are fine, but not for others.
Considering that Federal and State benefits are gained from 'marriage' it should likely be thus – instead of a marriage it should be a federal contract between two (or more) consenting adults, presided over by a Justice of the Peace. Yes I did say 'or more'. This should be a legally binding contract and federally united people should have to carry the responsibilities inherent with that union if they are to receive any benefits from that union. Meaning if a man wants 15 wives he should be legally and financially responsible to each of them and any children they create. And as it's consenting on all sides that means all the other 'wives' should be consenting to the union and their signatures required by law.
Now wait – I said 'union' not 'marriage'. This is why – the religious ideal of 'marriage' is obviously colouring way too many people's ideas here. And it's been said that government should be taken out of marriage – fine then, religion should be taken out of contracts that grant federal and/or state benefits. And frankly a 'marriage' performed by a priest, pastor, rabbi etc. should not be considered a FEDERALLY binding contracted union. It's a religious ceremony and does not and should not guarantee state or federal benefits. Which means people married by their church should not be gaining state or federal benefits.
Federal and State benefits are the real issue here. Because Gay people not being able to 'marry' means they are not allowed these benefits which should be allowed to any citizen of the United States as granted by the Laws that govern in it. But wait, Gay people pay taxes do they not? Yes they do, if they are Law abiding citizens, they most certainly do. So do they not deserve the same rights that are granted every other law abiding, tax paying United States citizen? Yes they do, or else they should be granted special dispensation from paying equal taxes as they are not granted equal rights.
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