Ifreann wrote:Katganistan wrote:FFS why should people be forced to stay in a marriage they are miserable in? I mean what kind of dystopian bullshit is that? "Unless your spouse is abusing you or unfaithful, fuck you, suffer?"
Why? What possible good is there in assuring someone is trapped in a miserable relationship? Increase of suicide? Increase of murder?
Hence the attack on abortion as well.
And they'll be going after contraception before long.
Question: How does it serve men's interests to go after contraception? Obviously some men consider the risks of sex with a woman on birth control worth it, or they wouldn't continue to go for it. It would serve men's interests more if "she said before sex she wouldn't keep the baby" were a factor in how much child support was owed by him and how much by the state, but in the meantime plenty of men are glad their girlfriends are on the pill.
And if the attack on contraception constitutes an attack on her agency, why doesn't the law's lack of "she said before sex she wouldn't keep the baby" leniency constitute an attack on his? Does the voting public really think they have a leg to stand on in throwing him into dire poverty for taking the same risk everyone else took, when if they pooled their resources, they wouldn't have to?
I wouldn't ask, except that popular opinion seems to often describe men who oppose abortion as "just jealous" of others' sex lives, which is a bit of a red flag since that's the same phrase with which people dismissed my worldview as well. To say nothing of that phrase not as often being used against opponents of "she said before sex she wouldn't keep the baby" leniency, despite being just as plausible in that context.