Washington Resistance Army wrote:Neutraligon wrote:I remember my school library had a couple of what would be considered hetero soft-core porn. They where quit popular. By the time you hit 16 years old sex is something you are very interested in and I am not sure why those that age should be completely cut off from it at school. For those who are younger sure, but by that age most students are starting to have or have already had a sexual experience.
Soft core nudity and whatnot is one thing, visually depicting blowjobs and anal is another entirely. That's not sex-ed or important info about LGBT people, that's just porn at that point and it's always going to be a losing battle to say otherwise.
I mean, no, sex scenes do not always have to be pornographic or smutty, people can write sex scenes in restrained and tasteful ways that are appropriate for proper novels rather than smut. I’m fine with people debating and coming to a consensus about what’s age appropriate in terms of sexual content for kids to know about (which I imagine reasonable people would concede probably varies by grade level), but I think the people campaigning to enforce such strict standards sort of betray their intent by campaigning around school libraries rather than… you know… TV? Like the intent isn’t actually to prevent minors from ever encountering graphic sexual material, the intent is to make a political statement about what they feel is legitimate for anyone to be taught about. They have actual porn available a click away, so if that’s really the concern, this fuss about libraries seems like a misdirection of these activists’ energies.
Jewish Underground State wrote:I feel like that should be a conversation for the child and the parent, although some people might not have parents willing to talk to them or are gay and the parents can't relate to that. I guess that's when the bannings get more complicated.
Yeah, exactly. Even parents who are relatively progressive or on board with the sexual revolution can have trouble talking to their kids about sex ed and prefer to outsource it, or just might not know everything there is to know about pregnancy or STDs! As awkward as it is to navigate, whether it’s in schools or homes, lack of proper sex education leads directly to dire public health consequences.