Some aspects of the APA’s guidance do provide empirical support, regarding male-friendly approaches to therapy. However, the use of terminology such as patriarchy, privilege and toxic masculinity are rarely supported by empirical evidence. Specifically, guidelines one and three have been criticised by Barry, Liddon, Walker, and Seager, (2021), because the APA claim that masculinity is purely a social construct and declare the existence of patriarchy, without any scientific evidence for this. Interestingly, Barry, Liddon and Seager, (2020), found that 88% of male participants felt the term toxic masculinity is harmful to young boys.
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From this, it could be gathered that guidance such as the APA’s may be incompatible with most men. As men tended to look unfavourably on terms such as toxic masculinity, it could be argued that the use of such language could deter men further from accessing support.
Do not talk to boys about toxic masculinity. It is abusive. The men on this forum who disagree are a part of an extremely fringe and extremist movement which has captured institutions and do not represent a healthy view of masculinity or men.
If the only men you can find who are willing to say there's nothing wrong with the term are on the fringe and support feminist ideology, then you should trust the hyper-majority of men who tell you you are engaged in harming children instead.