GuessTheAltAccount wrote:Fahran wrote:If you're a man, the social expectation a lot of men and women, since I'm not assuming your sexual orientation here, might have is that you'll make the first move in initiating a romantic relationship. Mind you, I understand and appreciate the arguments folks make about that being antiquated and unfair, but surveys routinely show that most women are unwilling to ask men out. I doubt there's anything particularly wrong with you. A lot of the incels who have gained notoriety have been average-looking or even slightly above average-looking. They just had a chip on their shoulders about not having had a relationship by twenty and serious issues with socialization and confidence. A LOT of men and WOMEN are in similar situations. And it's not a hopeless situation. Heck, one of my sister's former coworkers met her boyfriend when he was twenty six. Guy had never dated. They're married now.
So did he lie to her about his amount of sexual experience?
If so, how does she feel about a relationship built on a lie?
If not, how did he know she'd be willing to date him despite a lack of it, compared to all the other guys out there? For that matter, how does he know she loves him even now, given the commonality of the use of "virgin" as an insult?
Did you really make up a whole set of circumstances about people you know nothing about just to get angry over