Failing at life
Posted: Sat Oct 16, 2021 2:41 pm
Inspired by the locked thread of someone venting about their cousin "failing" at life, I've started to ponder... what exactly does "failing at life" mean, exactly?
Certainly, what one person sees as failing at life, another sees as living their life to the fullest. Whereas one would look at me pissing almost exactly half of my life away on this site (under several accounts) and see that as a failure, someone else could see it as not being a failure, compared to someone else who from my perspective is doing better in life than I am.
So, what do you think "failing at life" means, NSG? How, exactly, do you fail in life?
Personally, I feel failing at life is, for the most part, subjective, based on your perspective, which of course means that it is very unlikely that most who seem to "fail" at life will ever acknowledge that they are failing in life, while in certain situations, what you see as failure may not necessarily be seen as failure (compare: living at home in your 30s in a western culture and an East Asian culture). That being said, you fail at life if you committed a heinous crime, like murder, rape, or kidnapping, just to name a few. To do these sorts of crimes means that your life has, quite objectively, failed, given that something must have gone seriously wrong somewhere.
Certainly, what one person sees as failing at life, another sees as living their life to the fullest. Whereas one would look at me pissing almost exactly half of my life away on this site (under several accounts) and see that as a failure, someone else could see it as not being a failure, compared to someone else who from my perspective is doing better in life than I am.
So, what do you think "failing at life" means, NSG? How, exactly, do you fail in life?
Personally, I feel failing at life is, for the most part, subjective, based on your perspective, which of course means that it is very unlikely that most who seem to "fail" at life will ever acknowledge that they are failing in life, while in certain situations, what you see as failure may not necessarily be seen as failure (compare: living at home in your 30s in a western culture and an East Asian culture). That being said, you fail at life if you committed a heinous crime, like murder, rape, or kidnapping, just to name a few. To do these sorts of crimes means that your life has, quite objectively, failed, given that something must have gone seriously wrong somewhere.