GuessTheAltAccount wrote:Galloism wrote:Life is hard, but I'd suggest we start by building self esteem in people that they are fine to be themselves and don't need another person to make them happy.
That means ending the "virgin" insult usage and stuff like that, which implies a person is not complete within themselves. It'll probably be gradual, but ultimately the best society is where every person is content to be by themselves - and chooses to be with another person out of choice, not societal pressure.
Trouble is, if we artificially stacked the deck against the form of spontaneous sincerity that is their choice in insults, that would enable such people to disguise themselves as people who don't look down on virginity.
For comparison, suppose the most overweight of Trump's critics succeeded in shutting up people who made cheap shots at Trump's weight. Would we have discovered their innate disgust for the overweight otherwise, or would they have been able to go about their day pretending they don't think less of the overweight?
Suppose the school board succeeded at shutting up students who call everything they don't like gay and everyone they don't like a faggot. Would we have discovered their innate contempt for homosexuality otherwise, or would they have been able to go about their day pretending they don't think less of homosexuals?
Surveys have failed, brain scans have failed, everything else has failed. Spontaneous sincerity is the last stand on Earth.
So, I'm not suggesting muzzling people exactly. Like, I don't think we should make people wear shock collars and if they say "virgin" it gives em a zap. But I do think we should look down on people who use it as an insult and as a society suggest that such things aren't really ok.
Think about what's more important:
That twitter was dominated about comments about Trump's weight and so we know that they hate fat people or,
That twitter could be dominated by actual criticisms about his policies so we know exactly how he was fucking up on the job as president